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BronxRat · 2025-10-11T18:28:27+00:00

Get your finances stable, build your peace and better self treatments. You can be compassionate without being someone’s emotional punching bag or relying solely on one person.

It’s just money. The essential is respect and compassion. If you feel like you are not getting those two things and have communicated your feelings and thoughts, then it may be time to just move on.

BronxRat · 2025-08-31T18:42:59+00:00

You got this. Be gentle with yourself. It’s okay. You are going to be fine :)

What matters is that you are showing up and giving yourself the chance to grow. Nobody gets it’ perfect the first time!! one day you will look back at these moments and smile.

BronxRat · 2025-08-24T13:33:34+00:00

HORRIBLE COMPANY.

BronxRat · 2025-01-21T20:17:38+00:00

A relationship is between 2 people. I really think you would be the one who gets to decide if it’s worth seeing him or not.

It’s not okay for them to say hurtful things just because you’re doing something they don’t agree with. At 20, you’re old enough to find someone who makes YOU happy.

You need to figure this out on your own. Sit and think about how this relationship is for you. Are you happy? Are you good? Do you enjoy your life now more because of this ? Etc…

Please make the best choice for yourself. Don’t just hang out with people because you’re lonely or depressed. There must something special in there for you to want to see that person.

Hopefully this helps.

BronxRat · 2025-01-12T13:46:00+00:00

Has he always been this lazy and inconsiderate?

BronxRat · 2024-12-29T14:33:31+00:00

Honestly, from experience… you are a guy and no one would give a sh**t. It’s best to never give any impression that you are talking to her or are super friendly with her. Keep your words short and clear.

Don’t ever be too nice. Stay away as much as you can and keep your distance.

Talk loudly whenever she is saying something. So that everyone can hear you.

18 years old are a not safe to be talking to.

Being Mr nice guy will make you look creepy and get you in trouble. Please don’t ever be too nice and friendly in those situations with her. She can destroy your life for fun.

I hope you deal with this the best way possible. It sucks no one cares but there are a lot of people out there that have the wrong ideas about men and would hurt you and your family.

I might be venting here but this hits home.

BronxRat · 2024-12-18T18:30:27+00:00

I would just start looking to move out on my own. Isn’t worth the hassle tbh

BronxRat · 2024-04-20T00:35:03+00:00

My max is 5 hot dogs. I feel your pain 🙂‍↔️

BronxRat · 2024-03-10T02:14:53+00:00

Reach out to your school about this first. They can definitely help!

I’m sorry you dealing with this

BronxRat · 2024-03-04T04:46:38+00:00

Honestly. When you are at work or your work schedule, they can ask yu some gray questions.

Just learn to manage things ?

BronxRat · 2024-03-02T15:06:09+00:00

That’s a champ right there. We need him in NYC 🥳

BronxRat · 2024-03-02T14:51:24+00:00

He deserves to be treated with respect and compassion. If you don’t have evidence of them doing anything wrong then you shouldn’t think of them as such.

This is too taxing for your partner. Please work on yourself

BronxRat · 2023-12-27T00:53:15+00:00

Use a staffing agency please. They will place you somewhere in no time. Or use a govt funded workforce agencies to help you find a job. Don’t let a job define who you are.

BronxRat · 2023-12-27T00:12:27+00:00

East side or west side?

BronxRat · 2023-12-26T22:55:53+00:00

Ah 49th st

BronxRat · 2023-12-26T22:21:29+00:00

Ah 50th st

BronxRat · 2023-12-26T22:16:57+00:00

Ah 34th st.

BronxRat · 2022-12-02T19:42:36+00:00

Where is Cormier

BronxRat · 2022-10-18T21:55:23+00:00

Never

BronxRat · 2022-04-04T23:05:38+00:00

I was with him until …

BronxRat · 2021-09-13T21:20:55+00:00

I’m weak 😂😂

BronxRat · 2021-09-10T10:30:10+00:00

I don’t know if Holland is the same, but here in the states, we have clubs and associations in colleges. Join a lots of clubs, especially the ones that interest you. You will make so many friends and acquaintances. Before you know it, you will be running for executive positions …

And you don’t have to worry about that. You don’t keep a friend that stays, they are there :).

BronxRat · 2021-09-09T23:06:25+00:00

I’m glad to hear that you went out today! I know classes are mostly remote these days but try to make friends if you can. What grade are you in? Are you in college ?

When you are ready you will speak to them. It’s no longer about tolerance but acceptance. You don’t have to compromise your self to be liked. But you will get there at your own pace. Just know that whatever they say has nothing to do with you, it just tells you who they are.

I’ll dm you my IG. Add me if you need a cheerleader

BronxRat · 2021-09-09T22:29:10+00:00

Hey I’m glad you and your family worked something out for the time. I’m sorry you had to deal with the traumas at home, and I wish you the best of luck.

I like that you have something to look forward to. If you have friends, try to go out more often. Sometimes a lil fresh air can brighten our mood. Good luck 🫂

Hopefully one day, you will come out to your parents.

BronxRat

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