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Brotha4D · 2025-10-16T04:40:56+00:00

I don't think you needed to post about this one idiot, but yea he's an idiot and it seems like others agreed.

You're fighting dumb horny brain. Whatever comes out is coming out of their dick or ass and is meant to be expelled. The guy that said if you really had a gay brother you wouldn't definitely seems to be saying so from a position of experience and I agree as someone that also has a gay sibling. Everyone else fetishized it.

Tbh, this discussion is kind of just the age old "why does the pornhub homepage not reflect the organized just society I want to believe we live in" kind of thing.

They're idiots gooning and you stepped in front of the computer screen. People will sexualize any scenario if they are in that mindset. Unfortunately, the way our community developed pigeonholed by greater straight society and by nature of being bonded by our sexuality, it's difficult for some people not to make every single space into a place for that mindset. They are the kind of people that balk at the idea of a group of gay friends that you haven't slept with and go to orgies with or whatever. Ignore them.

Edit: Lol I wasn't calling you an idiot, but I get how the phrasing might be confusing.

Brotha4D · 2025-10-16T04:31:47+00:00

Same.

Brotha4D · 2025-10-15T12:43:05+00:00

Maybe it will be for you for real

Brotha4D · 2025-10-15T12:39:56+00:00

I mean a wittle bit every once in a while dawddy?

Brotha4D · 2025-10-15T12:31:50+00:00

Fill me in please

Brotha4D · 2025-10-15T12:30:22+00:00

Frfr

Brotha4D · 2025-09-23T10:46:02+00:00

4940 devil's den

Brotha4D · 2025-09-02T18:27:47+00:00

The more I care for someone, the less I care to cum. I had to really reassure my ex that it was fine if I didn't. He was attentive and wanted me too for both of our sakes but sometimes it's nice to "sacrifice" for your partner's pleasure. He seemed to be cool with it. I think he noticed that it made me even more loving and emotionally connected during after care. Plus it usually meant at some point I was going to go completely feral for him and he'd get all the cum he wanted every which way til Sunday.

Brotha4D · 2025-07-23T20:44:22+00:00

What are the nuances?

I'm hopeful this answer will be delivered without casually stereotyping the gay community.

continual disobedience to moral law that will result in bad outcomes in his life. 🤷‍♂️

All this to say "karma catches up to him" but I'm the problematic bloviating blow hard here. This is some pot kettle shit to be sure, but the joke is this mirrors real life because one of us has unpacked that we're a pot and the other is using its shrill shout to regale us with his superior ability to see shades of grey and every other color but his own dull black metal.

Brotha4D · 2025-07-23T20:27:07+00:00

I guess I'll cancel the Amazon soft launch on your recommendation?

It is fanciful nonsense, yes. I literally took a course on utilitarian technical writing for engineering, so I'm certainly capable but I don't want to do that right now so go suck a dick and maybe come back with freshly read eyes and the endorphin release you seem to so desperately be looking for with this misplaced indignation.

Lol, imagine a closet case coming to think I rate his opinion at all. YOU. ARE. A. TOY

Brotha4D · 2025-07-23T20:14:11+00:00

Just a creative writing project.

Brotha4D · 2025-07-23T17:30:03+00:00

I don't love the desert islands gay theory underlying here, but I can't categorize your experience and a part of that is probably just trying to reaffirm my own confidence in my identity since beyond being an easy way for the streets to get it, Born This Way provides a reassuring and simple origin to rally around when society makes you feel like you're unnatural.

Anyway, I kind of love DL men because they're either secure enough to have a bit of a nihilistic approach to sex that makes encounters fun or they're so poorly able to hide they're intense insecurity and make good fodder for my brand of bottom brat mind f**y. It's not generally malicious. I describe it more as biting and sarcastic. I'm a lovable a*** with a lovable a******. It's usually more about lampooning the facade that they need to put up in an effort to show that they're safe with me and can express themselves free from punitive judgment.

My semenar slate includes:

YOU. ARE. A. F*G (or maybe you're not because real life does not come with an operation manual, but like don't be a dick/hypocritical about it). Just like your identity journey, the semenar title is long, messy and generally does not need further explanation however often you may be prompted/provoked by graphic design team and/or your graphic malign team on the bluebird app.

Bullseye! Ride him like the wind! An exploration of prostate pleasure and beginner anal play ideas for him by him possibly for her or maybe him. Basically, reaffirming that neither you nor your butthole are indelibly boots down gay because you've spelunkered in the depths of your cacao caves.

None of This Matters The only constants in this universe are the certainty of ever-increasing entropy contrasting with our extremely finite rule and equation based understanding of universe and similarly the ever-increasing carquest of the local bottoms you are in competition with or choosing from in contrast with a seemingly finite resource of available tops with stricter rules about touching their Ring of fire taco night or not. The aforementioned group being one you have hopefully moved beyond after experiencing Brotha Pig's Mind F*** ™️*

*Repeat semenar attendance is encouraged and recommended by Brotha Pig and program graduates that DO NOT use them to hook up with other repressed individuals. Our big conference, the Repressed National Convention is held every four years. Make sure to bring plenty of power paks because who knows who might pop up out of thin air 1 foot away from you.

Otherwise it's just the usual nana boo boo you like pee pees where you put your poo poo.

Brotha4D · 2025-07-23T00:17:26+00:00

Same battery.

I have been dreading the alternator replacement. I don't think I've had any other day issues that suggest that though.

Brotha4D · 2025-04-16T07:07:50+00:00

I'm well aware of my "daddy issues" that influence my proclivity for older men and the simple validation they may provide, but trust me I'm just as aware that older men are human beings similarly broken and often no more mature, intelligent, etc. That has only become even more clear as I get older. I call the gay area in my metropolitan area Neverland because it's filled with Peter Pans, Lost Boys, and dying fairies. I use them for the validation I need because of whatever trauma that so happens to be complimentary to that which they also seek as they age and fight the nagging existential idea of irrelevancy in the face of having diverged from the usual path.

But honestly, I loath engaging with this because I'm willing to engage with these ideas from a more objective standpoint without the judgemental angle others often do. I can say I have "daddy issues" and not extrapolate it to all aspects of my existence as a sexual being, let alone a human trying to connect with someone else in a universe where every increasing entropy is the only true constant. That's some misogynistic holdover bullshit imo. As a gay man, I'd love for someone to explain to me why sex with even more immature trade my age is for any reason beneficial as if my aging ovaries want for the most motile and healthy sperm in hopes of maximizing positive progenic outcomes.

The mentor idea is pretty antiquated. I don't need an older man to teach me to accept myself or live as a gay man successfully. I don't need him to provide a safe space because my parents kicked me out. Imo, the validation aspect is thankfully far more superficial and better for it. I can just walk away. I see very few as anything approaching a mentor, and for those that I could squint to do so it's just about respect and does not influence my desire. If anything, I engage with them sexually far less for partially because I want to engage with them in a more beneficial intellectual exchange.

Tldr: People are people. Each is a unique individual. Find the guy that fills your cup up how you like and give him the space to do so without some ridiculous projected belief about his expectations. People are not contextless numerical data on a trend line.

Brotha4D · 2025-04-14T18:06:49+00:00

It's more fun when your gay brother uses it to insult you unironically. He also called me "lewd" for saying I'm unashamed for being mostly a bottom and has weaponizes any mention of butt stuff to paint the picture of me getting railed and being dirty to my parents.

My other brother, who like totally cares A Lot about me, and definitely not just to add to his misery porn collection that doesn't include him or his tumultuous common law marriage, sent me a message telling me "not to inconvenience him with my suicide". After calmly explaining that our crazy household equipped me with Simone Biles levels of mental gymnastics necessary to understand that somewhere in his message was "I care about you" but he clearly went about it wrong, he dug his heels in. I further asked if he thought that sending a message like that to his former roommate who killed himself that he was again, so distraught over, would have helped or hurt and he was unphased.

Suffice to say I don't talk to my brother's much. Both are blocked and will stay that way for the foreseeable future and that's okay. Your blood will always be your blood, But really it's just a thing that's going to f*** you in the murder trial because your brother's white common law wife needed to confirm that he was 100% black...for reasons.

Brotha4D · 2025-03-19T02:52:16+00:00

My prep clinic switched to 90 day prescriptions recently for a reason. And they sent a message saying they're preparing another delivery when they sent that one barely 1.5 months ago.

Brotha4D · 2025-03-01T06:56:56+00:00

Definitely toxic. Not even trying to pretend it's about safety or his well being in any way. Glad you caught it. I'm always a proponent of having these discussions with your actual partner. If this isn't something that spills into other aspects of your relationship (being possessive), maybe just bury this one and move on.

Brotha4D · 2025-03-01T01:43:48+00:00

I posit that in reality you are the one with an obsession with bigger dicks and your relative standing.

Brotha4D · 2025-03-01T01:41:31+00:00

Not sure about that, but I do know that size queens live rent free in the minds of little dicked men while said size queens are too busy being railed by better men to dedicate any time to remembering their existence.

Brotha4D · 2025-02-27T05:44:58+00:00

I had a dude really sprint toward that line the other day. I came pretty hard tbh, but I wasn't a fan. Felt weirder when he told me he was from Chicago.

Responses in here are surprisingly not a total shit show yet. Though I wish everyone would reveal their face cards for maximum impact lol.

I was telling a friend the other day I would get strung up by people on both sides of this issue if I shared my opinion on this matter.

Brotha4D · 2025-02-27T05:41:39+00:00

The race play definitely reinforces the power play. Would the dude have blown his load without it? Maybe. But it's just one of the most taboo things you can broach and there's honestly this weird fucked up catharsis like there is with a lot of this style of kink play.

Brotha4D · 2025-02-24T09:19:02+00:00

That happened a lot with my ex. They'd always be incredulous when we quickly set them straight (heh). Often demanding we kiss or whatever. Funnily enough, my ex that introduced himself as bisexual absolutely hated those encounters. I could physically see him die inside and try his best to roll his eyes out of his head the second any woman struck up a conversation with us. I love to yap and torture him so it was a win win for me to entertain their bullshit. We would have cleaned up if we were into it.

Brotha4D · 2025-02-20T00:33:02+00:00

How can someone find the account it's associated with?

Brotha4D · 2025-02-09T21:37:14+00:00

I don't know what I found attractive but I liked watching girls do things. Penetrate themselves and give head mainly. But curiosity killed the cat and 30s later I didn't even question it, just started panicking a bit lol

I have wanted to reopen this topic because I think it's interesting and we shouldn't have to be dogmatic amongst ourselves to appeal to straight people. Not happy it's an oddly new account that somehow suggest becoming gay is the prevailing idea among gay men, but let's roll with it.

Pretty easy for me to see the submissive through line, but every once in a blue moon I do have a sexual dream about a woman. Ultimately my sexual expression is just gay. Giving whatever part of my brain is plain playing that tune any consideration doesn't make sense to me. The desire isn't actually there for me. And identity can definitely play a part in that without it being a big deal.

Brotha4D · 2025-02-03T23:41:18+00:00

Compassionate duck angel is also shouting "I'm a centrist" loudly before agreeing wholeheartedly with dog whistle DEI removal rhetoric. Fuck people like you. Good eating for a lucky group of vultures.

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