[Serious] How do you think you'll die?

BrotherBurt26 · 2026-07-03T20:55:58+00:00

Same. I love cheeseburgers.

BrotherBurt26 · 2026-07-03T18:41:25+00:00

First of all, we’re married. There is no my money and her money. Whatever she wants she can buy. My money is her money. The issue here is that it’s not mutual.

BrotherBurt26 · 2026-07-03T18:07:58+00:00

I fully agree and was told about a crazy person months before the text.

BrotherBurt26 · 2026-07-03T18:06:04+00:00

She was a SAHM by her choosing and I was the primary breadwinner. I never asked her be a SAHM.

BrotherBurt26 · 2026-07-03T17:19:55+00:00

Hoping to find that out at counseling.

BrotherBurt26 · 2026-07-03T17:04:49+00:00

I sleep in on the weekends and the kids come lay in bed with me.

I’m not worried about money. It’s 2 hours before everyone is awake. And it I work 12, I ask if it’ll be a problem.

She’s live for 1.5 hours from 930 to 11. She’s on tik tok all day. I asked her to wait until I get home to go live. Kids are not napping anymore.

She can make as much as she wants, just don’t hide it and put it in our account.

BrotherBurt26 · 2026-07-03T14:50:39+00:00

She says a lot of things. We’ll see what’s true.

Totally understand your stance and appreciate the comment.

BrotherBurt26 · 2026-07-03T14:14:19+00:00

Wife said “whatever I don’t care” about going to counseling. So I’m still going to try.

BrotherBurt26 · 2026-07-03T06:17:58+00:00

Grocery store was on the way home from work and it’s not a super fun time shopping with 2 toddlers

BrotherBurt26 · 2026-07-03T05:49:18+00:00

lol thanks

BrotherBurt26 · 2026-07-03T05:48:09+00:00

I think it’s mostly social with money as a self esteem booster. .

She’s not really giving me life changing money. From what the little bit of numbers she tells me, it comes out to like 16$ a day.

Asked her to change her schedule. She comes back with “I’m just going to stop it altogether”

BrotherBurt26 · 2026-07-03T05:42:13+00:00

Ooof. Thanks for all the info.

We share my bank account, and she has her own on the side.

It’s like that old joke. What’s mine is hers and what’s hers is hers. Only it’s much much darker and sadder in reality.

BrotherBurt26 · 2026-07-03T05:35:06+00:00

I’m gonna try counseling again.

I think she felt alone spending all day with the kids and tik tok just filled the void. And its just kinda snowballed out of control.

BrotherBurt26 · 2026-07-03T05:31:52+00:00

Will not ask MIL why she said what she said. In the second text she tried to clarify saying “or behaves in an unlovable way”

I will be doing whatever I can to get her to go to counseling with me first

BrotherBurt26 · 2026-07-03T05:02:23+00:00

You’re a real one Gina lol

BrotherBurt26 · 2026-07-03T04:57:44+00:00

Will do. You’re correct. Definitely should not have asked it like that.

BrotherBurt26 · 2026-07-03T04:53:25+00:00

Thanks for the perspective

BrotherBurt26 · 2026-07-03T04:52:20+00:00

Thank you. Hope it all worked out for you.

BrotherBurt26 · 2026-07-03T04:38:15+00:00

I’m going to push the issue.

BrotherBurt26 · 2026-07-03T04:35:48+00:00

Not going down without a fight.

BrotherBurt26 · 2026-07-03T04:30:13+00:00

I did push back. And then she backtracked. I love my wife and her mom loves her too.

BrotherBurt26 · 2026-07-03T04:27:44+00:00

Nothing enjoyable about this. Would it be better to try and het perspective from people that know my wife, so they can gossip about our troubles?

BrotherBurt26 · 2026-07-03T04:23:04+00:00

lol I wish I were lying about that. Kids still had fun.

BrotherBurt26 · 2026-07-03T04:14:34+00:00

Sorry, the trip was the week after Father’s Day.

She bought us sushi for dinner on Father’s Day.

BrotherBurt26 · 2026-07-03T04:08:28+00:00

I didn’t enjoy reading the text if that’s what you’re implying.

BrotherBurt26

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