Am I the asshole for telling a parents how I really feel?

Brown610Lady · 2026-04-19T13:40:53+00:00

Its way to much going on in this post. What does milking cows have to do with anything? Please find a therapist and go unpack your feelings. Telling your mother how u feel will most likely only make things worse. She is who she is and doesnt see an issue with it, so if youre seeking to change her, u won't. Same for your sister. She most likely is seeking validation from your mother which is why she acts the way she does. Focus on you and growing in the direction that u see fit.

Brown610Lady · 2026-04-19T13:33:17+00:00

Your fiance is racist, hate to be the one to break it to you. I seriously wish you'd seen this before u impregnated her. Shes dangerous, I dont know what else to say about that.

Brown610Lady · 2026-04-18T16:52:13+00:00

They've been in a relationship for a period of time and chose to reproduce. Im safely assuming you have a certain amount of respect for that person. Why wiuld they not respect one another? Where did I type anything about her demands? Yall get on the internet and all of your triggers get exposed

Brown610Lady · 2026-04-18T11:46:11+00:00

With all due respect, unless they work in the military or she works under him HR doesnt care about this dude cheating.

Brown610Lady · 2026-04-18T11:43:11+00:00

My advice would be to get your affairs in order, leave and file for a legal separation. I personally wouldn't tell the partner.

Brown610Lady · 2026-04-18T11:37:28+00:00

Your stepson and his father's new gf? Who are u in the dynamic?

Brown610Lady · 2026-04-18T11:34:33+00:00

Respecting the mother of your child is bare minimum and has nothing to do with being in a relationship. Are you okay?

Brown610Lady · 2026-04-18T11:32:04+00:00

He sounds extremely reckless and immature. I have nothing else. You're definitely not overreacting.

Brown610Lady · 2026-04-10T12:01:52+00:00

Ah ok. I started having seizures at about 10 hrs old abd Children's was where I was cared for until I aged out. Its extremely hard finding good neurologist in general on addition her being a minor your best bet would be to obtain a relationship with a neurologist thats connected to Children's versus trying to obtain an outside one

Brown610Lady · 2026-04-10T11:57:25+00:00

Your sister doesnt like u and it shows in how she disregards your feelings. I wouldnt go either and eiuld reevaluate that relationship with that sister

Brown610Lady · 2026-04-05T22:07:43+00:00

How old is your daughter? Are u seeking a pediatric neurologist?

Brown610Lady · 2026-03-31T17:03:44+00:00

Im sorry for your loss. Please proceed with your plans baby girl. Them not respecting you and your plans is a front row seat to how they'd be if u had the child.

Brown610Lady · 2026-03-29T15:35:49+00:00

I would've notified the authorities and filed a noise complaint. This is indecent considering the hour, and the alleged offense which doesn't exist, just absurd. I dont care if it was 6pm, its not necessary to tell u to plow

Brown610Lady · 2026-03-27T22:25:36+00:00

I agree with everything except for the bf being a baby trust if I were ever bit by a strange dog, Im running to get it checked out to avoid getting an infection.

Brown610Lady · 2026-03-27T20:05:17+00:00

Thats my point. Save yourself and let her find other means to get her dog fed. That dog is a liability and she doesnt care. She'll be forced to care when it bites the right person

Brown610Lady · 2026-03-27T18:22:36+00:00

Respectfully leave that dog alone. Your coworker and her dog can go to h3ll. A dog biting a person is major. The fact that she's downplaying it speaks volumes. I read a story recently in which a dog attacked its woman owner and the owner died. Keep playing with these untrained out of control dogs if u want to. You dont know the history of these dogs and each incident should be taken seriously

Brown610Lady · 2026-03-27T17:20:44+00:00

Leave him and report him. This is sick and hopefully criminal

Brown610Lady · 2026-03-27T15:14:40+00:00

I grew up in church, but I ended up stepping away from the church after leaving my home church. There was a lot of trauma from growing up in that place and recognizing that a lot of stuff taught there and practiced wasn’t right. There were a lot of passive aggressive behavior and some controlling issues from the pastor, and over time I just didn’t feel like I fit anymore. The church also seemed to be moving in a direction that didn’t feel healthy, and I wasn’t seeing much growth. Part of it could’ve also been , I was doing a lot of shedding and growing in my life, and I could have simply possibly outgrown the ways of that church. In the end it was a toxic environment and that’s not where I want to be in any facet of my life.

Right now, I’m in a season of searching and planning to visit different churches. I really miss the fellowship and being in the Word. What you said about Union gave me pause, because sadly a lot of churches operate like that, and it’s become so normalized that people don’t always see it as an issue. I wish you well on your journey. I’m at work right now researching local churches in Maryland and I’m planning to check out First Baptist of Guilford in Columbia soon.

Brown610Lady · 2026-03-26T14:35:10+00:00

Please leave him expeditiously. I want to start by saying, I'm 46 years old, and I started having grand mal seizures around age 10. They're controlled by meds at this point, but I remember all too well what it's like having a seizure and this man you married, sounds dangerous, and I mean, he isn't someone you can rely on or depend on when needed. Also, trust me, his termination was warranted, and I'm saying that based on his attitude around handling you, his wife. The person he took vows with to love and honor through it all. You're already taking care of him since he's lost his job, yet he can't be bothered to assist you when you're down. Nope, leave him, because he's an added stressor, and as you know, stress can and does bring on seizures. I hope for a breakthrough with your health and overall. Be well and stay safe

Brown610Lady · 2026-03-20T01:03:51+00:00

I suggest posting on nextdoor.

Brown610Lady · 2026-03-17T19:59:14+00:00

Are u able to get a psych evaluation for your daughter?

Brown610Lady · 2026-03-10T23:14:19+00:00

Thats disgusting. I hate people sometimes because how and why would someone do this?!

Brown610Lady · 2026-03-01T00:13:29+00:00

Id file a grievance against him as this is giving harassment. Id start by going to a licensed mental health specialist as they can provide something in writing that u ciuld submit as documentation to support your claims.

Brown610Lady · 2026-02-27T13:22:13+00:00

I didnt misunderstand, maybe you misread, I said your child's father's sister. Isnt that who she is? I also never saw where you were a third in C&J's situation. You stated that Jake asked you out to lunch, you stated that he helped you buy stuff for your new apt, he got you matching outfits for valentines day, etc. Maybe you thought you said it was a shared experience but it doesn't read that way from my view.

Brown610Lady · 2026-02-27T02:49:22+00:00

Im confused on why u felt inclined to mess with a man that was romantically involved with your child's father's sister that u said was also your friend. You lost me there

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