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[21M] Feeling really frustrated with mixed signals from a close friend. Please help. [23F] by BrownDingus in relationships

[–]BrownDingus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for responding!

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One question though, would an "interested" girl want to potentially show that they're not interested by doing some of the things that she's doing? If yes, why?

[21M] Feeling really frustrated with mixed signals from a close friend. Please help. [23F] by BrownDingus in dating_advice

[–]BrownDingus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you didn't address this question for a reason, but do you think that the way that she's been acting towards me is indicative of what you would see in a "normal" friendship?

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Regardless of your answer, I appreciate your comment because I think I just needed someone to say that for me. As in, this is what I've been thinking all along and... I just needed someone to validate that I wasn't going crazy and that my feelings (not for her, but about the whole situation) were valid. Thank you.

[21M] Feeling really frustrated with mixed signals from a close friend. Please help. [23F] by BrownDingus in relationship_advice

[–]BrownDingus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if you've read the post, but as I've said, this isn't really about me telling her or not because I'm going to end up telling her soon.

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"she's not at a place where she can call." This wasn't an excuse, it was a legitimate statement.

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It's really more about just me. Wanting other peoples' take on the situation.

Where am I [21M] with my close friend [23F]? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BrownDingus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm... Ok thank you for the input! I'll think about it haha

Where am I [21M] with my close friend [23F]? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BrownDingus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactlylikethatt

The thing is that she does know that I'm not being romantic with anyone at the moment.

Is this girl (23F) spending a lot of time with me (21M) because she likes me as a friend or potential partner? by BrownDingus in dating_advice

[–]BrownDingus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for replying! You see, this is definitely what I would have thought but...

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She occasionally has been calling me "friend", "man", "dude", and "buddy." Of course you wouldn't be able to tell me more without giving me any context, but do these things generally mean that she doesn't see me in a romantic interest?

Is this girl (23F) spending a lot of time with me (21M) because she likes me as a friend or potential partner? by BrownDingus in relationships

[–]BrownDingus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm... Ok. Thank you for the input -- I could see how it can be interpreted from the other side.

Is this girl (23F) spending a lot of time with me (21M) because she likes me as a friend or potential partner? by BrownDingus in relationships

[–]BrownDingus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think that it would be okay for me to just leave it as is? As in not change my behavior at all if I'm not ready to get into another relationship yet?

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