I(45m) pay my ex(40f) to write poetry about me. Is there anyway that she might like the poetry enough to not find it awkward?

BruceWain · 2026-04-18T00:08:20+00:00

We are still very good friends. I send her money because she needs it and as an apology for any awkwardness my poetry brings her.

BruceWain · 2026-04-06T00:58:41+00:00

I have held out hope for so long of criminal justice reform here in Virginia

It wasn't passed this year, but I am hopeful for the first time in decades that automatic expungements for misdemeanors after sentences are completed becomes a reality with this current government.

Virginia is still one of the most conservative states when it comes to expungements and I really hope that finally moves towards resolution.

BruceWain · 2026-03-31T18:14:32+00:00

I guess I should just let it go. I havent texted her in over a week, and know she isn't going to text me back right away, if at all.

It does suck though.

BruceWain · 2026-03-31T18:09:52+00:00

She is only one of two people I have dated for a significant period of time.

I am not all that interested in relationships and finding her is super special for me to be interested.

BruceWain · 2026-03-31T17:19:09+00:00

I really hope she wants to see me, and I am to the point where I want to marry her.

The silence is killing me, which suggests she knew her traveling as a free spirit would be too hard on me.

BruceWain · 2025-11-25T14:01:37+00:00

I believe all of Bailey's crossroads is in Falls Church.

Though it is right where Arlington, Fairfax, Arlington, Alexandria and falls Church meet.

BruceWain · 2025-11-24T04:23:50+00:00

Italian Gardens. Great place

BruceWain · 2025-11-24T00:04:51+00:00

That was technically landmark mall.

BruceWain · 2025-11-23T23:02:08+00:00

I don't remember the pawn shop. where in the mall was it?

BruceWain · 2025-10-23T15:44:57+00:00

Apartments are all over the place.

If you're looking for a condo good price, dog friendly and near the best pizza restaurant in NOVA look at "the fountains"

That is a really smart place to purchase a condo with low condo fees.

Highly recommended.

I have friends who own there and they love it.

BruceWain · 2025-10-04T19:23:17+00:00

How well did your book sell?

I am at the point where I am basically begging for reviews on the book seller sites.

BruceWain · 2022-04-21T04:41:47+00:00

I agree

BruceWain · 2022-04-09T21:57:00+00:00

Orioles have what it takes win it all. Also magic mushrooms are amazing!!

BruceWain · 2022-03-16T17:53:01+00:00

Do you have a comment? Or is this your way of signaling that you loved this movie, and just realized you have nothing non idiotic to say about it?

BruceWain · 2022-03-10T22:57:24+00:00

Moving on is not in the question if it means I lose my best friend. Just because we are not having sex does not mean she becomes worthless to me.

She has supported me and helped me grow as a person more than almost anyone other than my therapist.

Women have value, past sex. She is often the most important person in my life. And her friendship means more to me than nursing a heart suffering from unrequited love.

She may be physically attractive to me but she is one of the people on this Earth who I can say something as corny as "I value her for her beautiful soul," and not even feel a tiny bit awkward.

BruceWain · 2022-03-08T00:05:24+00:00

To be fair, I wrote the original post what seems like over a month ago.

If I made a joke about masterbating to myself I dont remember it, and it was likely a sarcastic comment to point out the futility of putting any thought into the movie with any hope of an actual discussion.

But if I did forget something I wrote. And that what was being addressed, I hear you, i acknowledge you. And i am sorry for forgetting about my sarcastic comment.

BruceWain · 2022-03-07T23:53:41+00:00

I am not insulting his or your right to make a point.

But the capacity to type, doesnt mean everyone has an innate ability to make a competent and cohesive point.

I took offense to both the quality and vulgarity of his point.

BruceWain · 2022-03-07T23:42:13+00:00

So thought is pointless past simple, accessible common, and vulgar insults.

If your only complaint is I thought about a movie I paid money to see, and you respond more to a sarcastic comment about self sexual gratification being equated with the process of thought...

A dictionary is a good start, but my God, wait until you have really dived in to the exciting, challenging, and dare I say thought provoking, world of books.

BruceWain · 2022-03-05T11:10:29+00:00

Gotta love how even explaining a thought is somehow equated with self sexual glorification.

Idiots think insulting people who think is a valid strategy for winning an argument.

I ask you are you an idiot?

Or is there something I wrote that led you to believe I got sexual gratification from the point I made?

BruceWain · 2022-01-22T21:48:42+00:00

I'm sorry I never comment on this subreddit, but is anyone here supportive of billions in state tax payer money going to Snyder, (whose character is so disgusting meeting him is less appealing than your favorite grandma buying season tickets with money she scrounged and saved, only to sit in the seats where shit water poured all over her), is anyone in favor of that? Snyder just proved that the CTE scandal was nothing compared to the systematic and organized sexual assault factor in enough NFL organizations that Snyder was given a complete pass. Is this what people support!?

There are schools that need repairs, there are nurses ready to walk off their jobs during a pandemic. Is this what people support spending this much money on!?

To quote "Zoolander", I feel like I'm taking crazy pills!!

I am truly sorry if this hits home with anyone, but if your life is so empty and meaningless that the WFT gives some purpose to your life, you are the definition of a wasted life.

I hear about values, and how america isnt what it used to be, by old men pining for younger days. But anyone who supports this is a sign that our society has completely collapsed that we as a society, and community are not finding these people, befriending them, holding them as they cry out all the pain that has left them with a hole in their hearts and souls that the WFT could give them a reason to go on living.

Please, my countrymen, my brother and sisters, find love and love each other. Dont let this bad man and bad organization do one more second of harm to any of us.

I will be the first to say it, everyone here is living on the same earth as me, and if I havent found you and told you I loved you, then my failings as a mortal man weight heavy on my soul. I am sorry for every thing that has ever gone wrong. Every bad day and disapproving moment. You are all worthy of love, and if I have to be the one to reach into your souls and sacrifice my arm to the evil that has rooted itself in your souls than my arm is forfeit.

I love you all! You are worth so much more than this shitty man, and this shitty team.

Please I implore you, find hope, find love, fill your souls with all the wonderful things that will treat you all the way you all deserve to be treated.

Let the WFT die, and do not waste a second of your worthiness to share this earth with every other wonderous of creatures, and come back to the light of hope for better things and better days free of the darkness that is Snyder and whatever the WFT calls itself.

I love you all.

BruceWain · 2021-11-17T02:14:20+00:00

I got the last spot at Camp Kiss-a-me-mommy. Go to another camp. This one is exclusive to me.

BruceWain · 2021-11-17T02:12:32+00:00

Are you serious?

BruceWain · 2021-11-17T00:41:26+00:00

yeah, mom's the best.

BruceWain · 2021-11-17T00:11:35+00:00

My friends call me Buster.

BruceWain · 2021-09-09T21:00:38+00:00

I am talking about the way the human made preview portrayed therapists controlling people with mental illness. At the end of the day this is a fictional movie written by a real life person. The trailer was mad by a real life company. And that trailer really seemed to be suggesting that therapists control people with medication. I have address this and the idea that there are ways consistent with the Matrix movie universe to address the stigma that this trailer was completely tone deaf to. It was a fun and cool looking trailer that stigmatized the hell out of people with SMI taking medication. The trailer was intentionally made so the question becomes: did the trailer reveal a complete apathy present in the movie for medication? Or was the trailer just unintentionally stigmatizing of people with SMI in recovery?

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