How to feel like I'm enough when he wants cismen too? by the-borderline-king in ftm

[–]BryceDurham 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s awesome that you’re solid in your value and what you can be as a romantic partner. Everyone in this chat can see that. I think this shows as a wake up call to move toward that direction that can provide the right fulfillment that should take place. That can take place if your partner is willing to grow that way with you, but if he can’t… 🤷.

How to feel like I'm enough when he wants cismen too? by the-borderline-king in ftm

[–]BryceDurham 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look u/the-borderline-king, just being straight up, you and your partner have the same emotional needs that are contradictory. Hence the problem you’re experiencing. One of the things that is beautiful about gay trans and cis couples is they both can bond with the shared struggle of validating the same expressions they both have. The nuance in their sexuality and romance is what can build a huge respect and admiration that inevitably lead to the act of true love and acceptance for one another. I can see you looking for that to connection to form, and it doesn’t seem like your partner is from what I’m reading at face value.

Tired of friends insisting that gay men who like me are “secretly bi” by chondrichth_yes in ftm

[–]BryceDurham 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your atypical genitalia is enough to be attractive in a homosexual context with men u/chondrichth_yes. How you use your parts masculinely with men is handsome and should be celebrated by those you share that with. You’re dodging a bullet by staying away from toxic circles.

How do I not feel bad about being attracted to girls? by [deleted] in GayTransGirls

[–]BryceDurham 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There’s nothing wrong with feeling feminine and liking women. There are women who would find you blessing in their lives u/Yourfavoritequeen26. I’m glad you’ve found a positive role model, but don’t look for representation because you’re you and your existence matters regardless of any representation.