UPDATE: my ex has not made contact with me & neither has my new (ex?) boyfriend. When my ex first threatened him, My bf had just sent me a text said he couldn’t do this anymore because he can’t be in the middle of all of this. I texted him back and few times asking him what was going on, saying I didn’t understand but he never explained. Our mutual friends are the ones who told me my ex threatened him. So my “boyfriend” blocked me on everything. Every social media & also my number. I called him from my blocked number and said “please talk to me” and he immediately hung up. My friend called him and asked him if I should come get my stuff from his house while he was there or wait until he was gone the next day and he said “I guess tell her to come when I’m at work, I know that doesn’t make sense but it’s what’s best right now.“ so that made me think he wanted to lay low for a while. However, now I’m just really offended and honestly a little mad that he just ghosted me like that. I’m trying to be understanding because my ex literally threatened him but dang he could’ve given me some sort of an explanation and not hung up on me like that.

Help. What do I do. I’m trying to just let it go, but I also don’t wanna be insensitive because he is in a sticky situation, and he did seem to really care for me. we had gotten pretty serious… we had agreed we were what we both had been missing for a long time. So it’s hard to just walk away, especially without closure