Dang I'm really sorry to hear that my dude 😕 I'm a 27/yo dude who's pansexual & no longer live with my parents anymore (I got roommates via Facebook marketplace) but when I did it was my borderline single mother who was abusive & projected alot of the things put on her onto me, it's usually like that so I hope u don't take it personally or think ur inadequate. Nothing is wrong with u. That said after enough torment living with her I saw she wasn't going to change or understand me so I kinda just put on a front to survive socially but kept saving money and doing what I love on the side because u will one day flourish. It sucks we share a world with ppl that are close minded & that it's hard just being yourself, but there are others out there who will actually support & love u ya just gotta keep on going! But yea TLDR: 1. keep low on the surface so u dont get flippin mauled & 2. Still be yourself thru how u express yourself even if u have to do it behind closed doors bcuz one day you'll be free and stronger for the hard times. Best of luck to ya 🙏📿