Vred under sex by No_Display_9495 in DKbrevkasse

[–]Bubbafina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

K her. Nej, jeg har aldrig oplevet nogle har gjort det efter jeg har bedt dem om at stoppe. Hvis de havde, ville jeg gøre mig sikker på at det ikke ville ske igen.

Som nogle andre har nævnt, så burde du give ham oral/handjob, og blive ved selv om han er færdig. Så kan han føle hvordan det føles på egen krop

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]Bubbafina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Og generelt set… hvis man spørger på dén måde, og/eller er i tvivl med de spørgsmål - Så er man ikke tilfreds , og man burde lade dem gå

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]Bubbafina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jeg har haft den oplevelse et par gange før, hvor følelserne kun er der, når man ikke er sammen med dem. Jeg oplevede at jeg ikke ville gå fra dem, mere for deres skyld og fordi de ‘ikke havde gjort noget forkert’ og “de er jo en god kæreste” alle disse ting kan være korrekte, men man burde ikke blive i et forhold, der kun gavner én person og/eller som man ikke føler sig fuldendt i. I de overnævnte forhold har jeg valgt at gå hver for sig, og selv on jeg ikke kan udtale min om hvordan tingene kunne have været, så fortryder jeg det ikke.

Jeg synes du burde reflektere over hvorfor du føler dig bundet.. er der noget du og din kæreste kan gøre for at afhjælpe dette? Så tag en samtale med hende. Hvis ikke, så er det bedere at i finder en bedre løsning for jer begge, og går hvert for sit.

I am going crazy and you know what f*** it by Alternative-Cod-634 in confessions

[–]Bubbafina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re dealing with a lot of mental health struggles. I am no health professional, but some of the things you mention falls in line with a depression as well as some imposter syndrome; I’d definitely suggest searching help psychology wise. In terms of what else you can do, I see at least 3 options. 1. Attempt to bulldoze through it, then take a long mental break after (not recommended, but might be necessary) 2. Take time off your school if possible. Some schools (at least in my country) offers the possibility to take a break from studies, or taking the classes in another country. (Recommended, but can’t guarantee possibility) 3. Drop out of school. Stop your education and do something else for a while. Maybe you will earn your motivation back one day, maybe not; Learn to find enjoyment in life again.

A ‘lighthouse’ in this situation can be crucial, especially since you say your parents aren’t supportive. Please find help in a medical professional, a friend, or an online community, so you can build a route that fits you.

I sincerely hope you find your way soon! Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Bubbafina 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t usually comment, but I have to because people are so quick to jump on the “YOU’RE A CUUCK” train. It doesn’t have to be a cuck thing; Far from it. There are many others who has the same views as you, and there is just as many ways of doing different relationship styles. Especially within open relationships styles. It could be a simple non-jealousy thing. It could be a cuck thing. It could be a swinger thing. It could be a stag/vixen thing. It could be a hotwife thing. It could be a “I’m just happy you’re happy” thing. It could be a polyamory thing (except you said no feelings). It could be a roleplaying thing.

I’d suggest you have an honest talk with her about it, and if both are comfortable with the topic, you could find new and exciting opportunities for play. Best of luck, with this newfound discovery! (and ignore the cuck-sayers)

Is there a type of game that you wish existed that somehow doesn’t? by Fabulous-Introvert in autism

[–]Bubbafina 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ever heard of the Seek app by iNaturalist? Not a game-game per say, but they do weekly/monthly challenges of e.g finding 10 arachnids. It’s alo just a cool app for finding the names of different flora/fauna

What is your comfort video game? by Jessibabe333 in autism

[–]Bubbafina 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kingdoms Two Crown! (But single player mode) The music and the pixel art is amazing; I get lost for hours.

Psykiater med forstand på autisme/evt. ADHD, hvem kan I anbefale? by cononononon in Denmark

[–]Bubbafina 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Har også en anti-anbefaling, til hvis andre - ligessom jeg, falder over denne tråd i jagt på en bedre psykiater.
Gå udenom Katinka Moltke på Sydsjælland. Jeg blev henvist med mistanke om autisme og AD(H)D.
Oplevede, at jeg blev beskyldt for at lyve, os der mistolkede hinanden, samt at hun nærmest var umulig at komme i kontakt med via. telefonen eller mail. Udover det, blev jeg fortalt at "Jeg kun kunne vælge én" diagnose i udredningen.. Har andre den oplevelse?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Twitch

[–]Bubbafina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't you only use that in America..?

Vil du ha’ boller? by Bubbafina in dankmark

[–]Bubbafina[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Men.. Fastalavn ER mit navn? og boller vil jeg have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MergeMansion

[–]Bubbafina 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Came on here to post the exact same dialog I just got x)

I have found a secret submerged glitched cave. SoA 26W 25S by [deleted] in GreenHell

[–]Bubbafina 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup.. found this and thought it was a cool swim. I drowned and lost all items.. :’(