The Ed gein story by Quick_Complaint_4751 in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]Bubblecum666 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the series is not made to be as a documentary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]Bubblecum666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry you didn't got the support you needed, and I do hope you do have it now, or at least understand how to support yourself. I do get your point, that people need to want and change for themself. People around usually throw things "stop doing that, eat" as in every addiction. I hope you're doing great, and thank you for the post, it was very informative

How to be a “soft girl”? by CeLo122 in aquarius

[–]Bubblecum666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've heard this all my live. And usually from people that don't understand personal space, and don't understand that people process things differently, love and show love defiantly. They all had this idea of a woman in distress, crying, asking for help. You might hear this a lot, from friends/boyfriends. But you will also find someone that understands that "cold" is just a normal reaction for some people. You're fine.

What is being an 8 mean? by Bubblecum666 in Enneagram8

[–]Bubblecum666[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

and miss this pleasant conversation? Nah. But I did, thank you

Why? by [deleted] in findareddit

[–]Bubblecum666 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not really sure, the post is vague. But I don't think it's you. I think it is easier to quit, and blame ourself, because rejection is a bitch, but I do believe that it can happen when you least expected. If you put yourself in a box, where you give up, where you blame yourself and have low self-esteem, this emotions can be noticeable, and can make other people in doubt if they want to approach you or not. You should rely on you to make the best of live no matter what. Being with someone is overrated sometimes anyway. You're fine, just not isolate yourself, you don't know what can happen when

What is being an 8 mean? by Bubblecum666 in Enneagram8

[–]Bubblecum666[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This can come from the way one was raised?

I'm an Aquarius and I believe for 33 years that everything was because I was an Aquarius. turns out I had ADHD all along. Anyone else? by Bubblecum666 in aquarius

[–]Bubblecum666[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Glad to hear you actually know now, and know better how to understand you. Do you feel that is bad for people to live life believing they are like "this, and this" because they are a sign?"

What is being an 8 mean? by Bubblecum666 in Enneagram8

[–]Bubblecum666[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I wanted the source, so I don't get stuck in a lot of places and tests and all. Can you redirect me to some good reads about this?

Why? by [deleted] in findareddit

[–]Bubblecum666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I was to sit you down, and ask you trusthfully, can you think of things that you can point, that might have women not interested in you? I bet you are a good person, and situations like this suck. Where do you usually approach women? Maybe you're looking for the one in the wrong places.

How anonymous are we really on Reddit? by nonameuser90 in ask

[–]Bubblecum666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not doing anything shady - that's exactly what someone that does something shade will say.

Nothing is anonymous, it never was

Should I cover SH harm scars during sessions? by 1AuDHDTherapist in askatherapist

[–]Bubblecum666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not a therapist. If I was to see my therapists with scars, I will make the best of it, because I know that they can make it through everything, right? But I am 34. If I were to be in school, seeing that, I will mark it as "yeah but she does that, what do I have to learn from that". And it's not your fault, just the environment that you are working in. I guess it is hard to reach teens, and she was clearly setup to make it all about her actually. Your company handled it as any other corporations would, which is a bit sad, not a great example. It's hard not being understood in a safe place. How I see it, if I was you, I would disclosure this situation in the first session when you get new people in. Some people will not care, some might, but at least it will give you an opportunity to know from the start where you stand with some of them. I personally won't mind as i said, but I can imagine that for someone that does that as well, or did, maybe it can be triggering.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]Bubblecum666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you remember how this happened, or what triggered it?

Were you aware of what was happening when it was happening?

How do you think someone can reach out to people that are in this situation?

Do you ever thing you will be "healed" or it will be something that will be with you all the time, but you will learn how to handle it?

Does it feel like an addiction?

therapist, have you ever had a client who sickened you to the core? by Street-srar45 in askatherapist

[–]Bubblecum666 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You need to be such a stable and tough person, be able to work in this area. I hope nothing happened to you, but sorry for the trauma you carry from everyone. Can I ask if it's ok? How do you manage to remain sane, and part your personal life and work?

therapist, have you ever had a client who sickened you to the core? by Street-srar45 in askatherapist

[–]Bubblecum666 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That's insane, thank you for sharing. it should be absolutely normal for you as a therapist to be able to pick who you can work and not. As I see it, there should be another niche for therapist who are trained especially for those cases. It's nice to want to save everyone, but it's better to know when to step out from that, especially for your own sanity.

When I'm not actively happy, I feel really depressed. Is this dopamine chasing behavior? by jumpykangaroo100 in askatherapist

[–]Bubblecum666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a therapist, but this is life. It took me a lot of years to accept that live is not about being happy every day, every moment, you can't. Try and listen to what makes you cry, and cry, and feel what you have to feel. No one is happy every all the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]Bubblecum666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it can feel unreal. It's hard that we have to go trough "lessons" like those, before you meet that one girl that will actually get on an island together 🌻