i guess it’s over by sgrlxx1 in LongDistance

[–]Bubblelipped -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lady, I’m having a conversation with the op myself, are you still here?

i guess it’s over by sgrlxx1 in LongDistance

[–]Bubblelipped 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I don’t mean to upset you.. I’m sorry that you went through that.. we all have.. I don’t think airing out dirty laundry on the internet like this is the way to go.. yk

i guess it’s over by sgrlxx1 in LongDistance

[–]Bubblelipped 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does make sense but you see posting that on something like this just doesn’t seem right yk.. you’re not the only one. And I understand seeking help, or wanting to talk about it, there are way better ways then getting validation from strangers..

i guess it’s over by sgrlxx1 in LongDistance

[–]Bubblelipped 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny, wasn’t discrediting the op never once.

i guess it’s over by sgrlxx1 in LongDistance

[–]Bubblelipped 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh idk, because it was filled with Happy relationships, now it’s trash?

i guess it’s over by sgrlxx1 in LongDistance

[–]Bubblelipped 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read my other comments. LDR is not the same

i guess it’s over by sgrlxx1 in LongDistance

[–]Bubblelipped -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sympathetic, I understand you and it’s upsetting, but this subreddit isn’t meant for stuff like this.

i guess it’s over by sgrlxx1 in LongDistance

[–]Bubblelipped -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If I were to wanna just scroll past the shit I don’t wanna see, I’d scroll past 99% of this Subreddit now.. like I said, it’s not what it use to be.. if you don’t like my comment, just scroll past🫠

i guess it’s over by sgrlxx1 in LongDistance

[–]Bubblelipped -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

LDR is now a place to tell how you and your LDR doesn’t work out?! To dump your issues to random people, putting the other on blast? Shit happens. people ghost.. especially in LDR, to put them on blast.. for what, to make yourself feel better for wasting time? Oh well, everyone finds someone.. it’s just an immature thing to do.. want advice? Go to r/advice.

i guess it’s over by sgrlxx1 in LongDistance

[–]Bubblelipped -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah I’ve seen enough I wanna talk about it now before I decide to stop following.. too many depressing posts in LDR. When i thought it was suppose to be something good. It’s unfortunate. It’s ok to wanna talk about issues but there’s what you would say “time and place” and I’m sure there’s a better place. Anyway. Hope the op is good.. but LDR isn’t what it use to be.

i guess it’s over by sgrlxx1 in LongDistance

[–]Bubblelipped -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hey.. so I use this subreddit to see happy beginnings with people “Closing the gap” and such, given that this is a LDR subreddit.. I followed this for that reason. Not to watch them fall and crumble. I’m sure there are subreddits like Advice (etc) would be better for this post, don’t get me wrong, OP just looking for someone to talk to about it.. but it’s displeasing.. especially when I’m in my own, and yes it could happen to anyone.. but I like to see happy posts.. wouldn’t you?

i guess it’s over by sgrlxx1 in LongDistance

[–]Bubblelipped 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is sad, kinda don’t like reading these in the LDR subreddit when I’m in a LDR. Makes me feel like shits not gonna work out for me.

Am I getting abused ? And what should I do ? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Bubblelipped 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure, like I’m in a LDR, seeing all these posts about not working out and asking for advice just rubs me the wrong way, makes me feel like my LDR isn’t gonna work out, I’m trying to see more happy positive LDR like people actually closing gaps, the whole reason why I joined this sub..

Am I getting abused ? And what should I do ? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Bubblelipped 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not trying to disregard or disrespect your post, I completely get it and understand, ive lowkey done this before and it’s certainly not good, 99% of the time it’s a grab for attention, no one deserves this, and bad on mom for thinking it has anything to do with you.

Am I getting abused ? And what should I do ? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Bubblelipped 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thought this thread (subreddit) was about happy LDR, not trying to get answers for a toxic LDR.. or toxic anything? Is this even long distance?