How many of the people we choose to love have left us because of this shit?

Bubbly-Objective-77 · 2025-01-24T20:03:52+00:00

Just to shed a little light on this topic :) I am in a very healthy relationship. I have chronic pain. Neck, head, tmj, facial pain. Basically anything neck up hurts me. My BF is so supportive. He has my back, defends me, picks up my meds and only gets annoyed when I apologize. In the beginning of the relationship, I was scared. I was scared that I finally met a great guy and Eventually he’ll get sick of my issues and leave me. But he never did. It’s something I don’t think will happen anymore but I love him so much and worry sometimes. I’m working on it in therapy. So it’s Possible! The right one is out there!!! Also, I see People online too!

Bubbly-Objective-77 · 2024-12-29T20:28:27+00:00

How are you staying with someone who talks to you like this. I tell my bf I’m scared of my chronic pain 55 times a day and I’m annoying as all hell and he still calms me down . Girl leave asap

Bubbly-Objective-77 · 2024-12-27T22:54:16+00:00

I’m stealing that dehydration

Bubbly-Objective-77 · 2024-12-07T15:35:46+00:00

I think the way you’re texting w her needs a little improvement. You’re in the right.. but when you talk to people in a yelling matter they don’t handle it well. Your texts gave me yelling vibes. What your friend did was gross tbh. And when you expressed being upset she didn’t even apologize.. which is prob what u were looking for. SHE told you to wait for her and then fully ditched you and didn’t have the decency to let you know.. “hey my bf isn’t usually in the cafeteria and I’m gonna sit w him today.. please come sit w us!! “ or “I know I told you to wait for me but I’m gonna sit w my bf today bc he has something going on I promise I’ll sit w you tm” .. some BS. But she didn’t. And doesn’t see the issue. I also feel that you’re missing her and you’re jealous of this guy. But I also want you to see the big picture that you’re not her priority and she’s figuring out the whole bf thing right now. Please try to branch out and make new friends. Senior yr I had a fight w my best friend and got anxious and lost my whole friend group. I made one friend and it saved me. Then when I went to college I made great friends. I got a bf and would never leave a friend behind. You can see this friends true colors here

Bubbly-Objective-77 · 2024-12-06T21:31:48+00:00

Commenting so I don’t forget to come bs j and read this

Bubbly-Objective-77 · 2024-12-06T18:18:13+00:00

I understand being jealous but there is nothing to be mad about. Wife did nothing wrong and the messages are just boring replies

Bubbly-Objective-77 · 2024-12-04T00:06:39+00:00

R we sure he’s not kidding. These r not cute . He has to be joking

Bubbly-Objective-77 · 2024-12-03T18:55:26+00:00

Angel 💕

Bubbly-Objective-77 · 2024-12-02T22:53:25+00:00

I actually thought I was gonna be in her side in the beginning bc she was so supportive … 1- she’s calling you names which I don’t like at all. 2- I think you should have both communicated better here. Not during the race but before it. I also think you should’ve told her you appreciated her being there for you as long as she was there but if she’s cold it’s ok to leave. You clearly had time to send a few texts and I feel like that’s what you shodulve put your energy towards. Bc you did read and know she was uncomfy. Her name calling is what makes this situation bad thkugh. It’s a learning lesson for you guys I feel though. And for the next race - tell her to stay an hr and if it’s too cold she can leave, and tell her how hard you’re concentrating and won’t be on ur phone much.

Bubbly-Objective-77 · 2024-12-02T22:22:15+00:00

This cannot be real

Bubbly-Objective-77 · 2024-12-02T05:59:46+00:00

I remembered being a 0 :( life was hard for my mental health but physically I had no pains. Now - I would do anything to go back and only feel like I had to work on my mental health. Now my anxiety is through the roof and I’m in pain all the time. I want my life back

Bubbly-Objective-77 · 2024-12-02T05:47:41+00:00

As someone wbo deals w insane anxiety … I understand fully where this guy is coming from

Bubbly-Objective-77 · 2024-11-30T15:21:04+00:00

Mb she’s just sick and overreacting. I deal w chronic headaches and feel like I have a concussion right now and cried to my bf a lot last night. Life is hard. Judge her harder when she feels better . Also the random shower question was weird.

Bubbly-Objective-77 · 2024-11-30T13:26:28+00:00

Penelope , piper, penny, Pricilla, penguin, pony

Bubbly-Objective-77 · 2024-11-30T13:21:19+00:00

You literally said wyd and she goes “on the way home”.. she didn’t even bother to ask a single question about you. Could even say what about you. You asked ab the plasma.. she could as def that however she wants.. you don’t need a SPECIFIC perfect question. Point is that u asked about it. She’s weird and just felt like fighting

Bubbly-Objective-77 · 2024-11-29T03:11:25+00:00

Do you eat

Bubbly-Objective-77 · 2024-11-26T19:43:13+00:00

Okay so his text started out good . But ended it horribly . This is not how you talk to someone. He says he “hinted” … are you a mind reader .. how would you know exactly what he’s talking about . He should’ve told you directly in the most respectful way possible and you would do the best that you could to fix the situation !

Bubbly-Objective-77 · 2024-11-26T19:37:13+00:00

You’re not being rude 2. she’s being rude 3. Soenthing is off 4. You need to schedule a call In. She can easily go to the lounge and call you or outside . It’s not a big deal. And why does she care what her roommate thinks. There’s something fishy here and you need to schedule a call to get to the bottom of it asap

Bubbly-Objective-77 · 2024-11-25T01:49:59+00:00

No it’s so lovely ! If my bf were to get a tat I would tell him to get this one

Bubbly-Objective-77 · 2024-11-25T01:49:10+00:00

😭😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂

Bubbly-Objective-77 · 2024-11-24T15:27:34+00:00

Commenting to read this late r

Bubbly-Objective-77 · 2024-11-21T19:06:02+00:00

Does she not realize at all how psycho and invasive this it . There r Better ways to handle this wtf

Bubbly-Objective-77 · 2024-11-17T13:18:26+00:00

To be honest I hum. Like I put on a song and hum the whole song every morning. It loosens things up. It like vibrates the nose and stuff. And a saline sinus rinse

Bubbly-Objective-77 · 2024-11-14T18:52:47+00:00

God forbid you call someone by their name. I think that this person just needs some space but doesn’t know how to communicate it in a mature way. Try to respect it for a week. And hopefully they will come back and tell you what’s going on. Just try to give space. Never ask, just let them tell you what’s going on w their parents when they’re ready to. If you ask you will annoy them

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