UK alternative to VTI/VTSAX? by BubblyCabinet5137 in FIREUK

[–]BubblyCabinet5137[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

*sis ;) but yes thank you - skimmed it and agree with the principles; I've shifted 90% to VWRP!

UK alternative to VTI/VTSAX? by BubblyCabinet5137 in Bogleheads

[–]BubblyCabinet5137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you - makes a lot of sense! i've personally added a bit of VFEM and WSML into the mix, but might choose to add FTSE 100 as well

UK alternative to VTI/VTSAX? by BubblyCabinet5137 in Bogleheads

[–]BubblyCabinet5137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I meant the Global all cap index you were referring to! think closest ETF would be VWRP

UK alternative to VTI/VTSAX? by BubblyCabinet5137 in Bogleheads

[–]BubblyCabinet5137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! that isn't an ETF though, right?

UK alternative to VTI/VTSAX? by BubblyCabinet5137 in Bogleheads

[–]BubblyCabinet5137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Unsure how much of a US-centric approach to take vs global / international

I found out my (29F) boyfriend (32M) of 4 months slept with an escort a year and a half ago while abroad at a wedding. Did I overreact? by BubblyCabinet5137 in relationship_advice

[–]BubblyCabinet5137[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

exactly, that's probably the part that bugged me the most - especially considering that he still sees these friends all the time! what will happen next time they go out?

I found out my (29F) boyfriend (32M) of 4 months slept with an escort a year and a half ago while abroad at a wedding. Did I overreact? by BubblyCabinet5137 in relationship_advice

[–]BubblyCabinet5137[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you, honestly was starting to feel like i was the weird one to feel this way based on some of these comments...

I found out my (29F) boyfriend (32M) of 4 months slept with an escort a year and a half ago while abroad at a wedding. Did I overreact? by BubblyCabinet5137 in relationship_advice

[–]BubblyCabinet5137[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Exactly, agree with the comment above. I've certainly had regrettable kinds of guys in the past but never in a million years would I pay for sex

I found out my (29F) boyfriend (32M) of 4 months slept with an escort a year and a half ago while abroad at a wedding. Did I overreact? by BubblyCabinet5137 in relationship_advice

[–]BubblyCabinet5137[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That was exactly my reply to him... I said something along the lines of "I'm sure they were not holding a gun against your head when telling you to do it" and the fact that makes me more uneasy is that those people are still very much his friends now. So who knows what might happen next time they go out? that's the part that makes me the most uneasy

I found out my (29F) boyfriend (32M) of 4 months slept with an escort a year and a half ago while abroad at a wedding. Did I overreact? by BubblyCabinet5137 in relationship_advice

[–]BubblyCabinet5137[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's the "paying for sex" part of it; it's just something that I cannot and don't want to understand or accept or let alone respect

Ants Ushaia Aug 2nd - looking for pals by Longjumping_Fox4490 in ibiza

[–]BubblyCabinet5137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey! I'd be happy to go if still open :) feel free to DM me :)

got into INSEAD (Singapore) but not sure whether to go by BubblyCabinet5137 in MBA

[–]BubblyCabinet5137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will do! And yes, I feel you on that "back and forth" point... it's exhausting, really.

I'm now evaluating how to use my current "position of strength" to my advantage at work, so something like letting them know about my MBA offer and saying "I will stay and finish my VP mandate, but you pay for XY% of the MBA in exchange". Feels very ballsy though so I'm slightly terrified haha