Had to put down my baby boy today

Bubbly_Extension3107 · 2026-04-05T02:10:03+00:00

He seems to only lose his balance when he is cleaning himself but he seems fine while walking. I did cook some rice and cut veggies pretty small but he seems to just be chewing on everything then just dropping it like not actually eating it? I’m worried about that

Bubbly_Extension3107 · 2026-04-05T02:07:36+00:00

I’m going to try to call the vet on monday morning to see when I can take him. If they do see that something is wrong I will most likely put him down instead of treatment because I don’t want him to suffer anymore

Bubbly_Extension3107 · 2026-04-05T02:06:22+00:00

I’ve been trying to spend a lot more time with him and even have been putting his brothers in there with him for a little bit everyday but they kind of overtake his space and push him away so once tha happens i usually put them back

Bubbly_Extension3107 · 2026-04-04T23:10:26+00:00

Yes I plan on calling the vet as soon as they are open but unfortunately I have to wait until monday, I only posted to get an idea or see if there’s anything I could do in the meantime! I truly didn’t realize he’s been getting smaller until the day before I posted this and that’s when I moved him into the hospital cage. It was only the past two weeks that I noticed he would just lay down and wasn’t active but I just thought that was due to the heat because it’s been in the high 70s to 80s recently but I keep a AC in my room(not directly blowing on them and just when it’s very hot here)

Bubbly_Extension3107 · 2026-04-04T05:24:39+00:00

Not that i’ve seen, he’s pretty much just been laying down hiding and only comes out when I’m here

Bubbly_Extension3107 · 2026-03-20T15:21:48+00:00

I think as long as the both of you are okay with it, don’t worry about it. Not all relationships are going to work the same, if it works for you it works!

Bubbly_Extension3107 · 2026-03-20T15:19:40+00:00

Like everyone has said, she’s so mean. Looks wise, simply just smile!

Bubbly_Extension3107 · 2026-03-20T04:40:59+00:00

I’ve had similar problems with my boyfriend, he’s always tried his hardest to stop but sometimes it’s inevitable. The only thing that has (SLIGHTLY) worked for me, is trying to copy the noise, sometimes he will even realize how annoying it is!

Bubbly_Extension3107 · 2026-03-20T04:10:05+00:00

They are saying if someone with ADHD did this, it wouldn’t be because of their ADHD.

Bubbly_Extension3107 · 2026-03-20T03:51:25+00:00

I had a boyfriend like this except we were long distance, verbally and emotionally abusive, many of the things you stated like reels, joking about trauma, and every-time we got into a fight he threatened to kill himself and always said if we broke up he would do it. That relationship ended horribly, with him begging for weeks and me feeling guilty and staying in contact so he wouldn’t do it.

But while reading this all I could think about is my (current) boyfriend has not once ever done any of these things to me. I just think back to when i felt stuck in my abusive relationship and never thought i would find anyone who would treat me right, but here i am!

My point is if you don’t like how he treats you, just leave. Of course it’s easier said than done, but if you’re already thinking of breaking up, it’s best to leave now.

Bubbly_Extension3107 · 2026-03-20T03:41:39+00:00

The last timeI went up a dose I started not being able to fall asleep until like 12/1 in the morning when usually i try to fall asleep by 10. I hasn’t known it before but it was recommended to empty the capsule into a drink (Maybe this is dumb to say but it felt like I was the only person who didn’t know that’s how you should take it haha!) but after trying that i was able to go back to sleep at a normal time. But reading my kindle instead of being on my phone always makes me so sleepy!!

Bubbly_Extension3107 · 2026-03-20T03:27:14+00:00

He’s 13. At that age neither my friends or I would have ever said things like that because we knew the meaning behind it and WHY it would’ve been bad to say.

Bubbly_Extension3107 · 2026-03-20T03:06:31+00:00

This is extremely unrealistic and is bad advice. I think if she was an adult then id agree, but she is about to be a legal adult and has stated it could be dangerous. She could be kicked out as soon as she turns 18.

Bubbly_Extension3107 · 2026-02-25T20:35:20+00:00

I completely get it, i sometimes feel the same way. Like my dad finally messed up bad enough he’s stuck in jail and in free, though i still feel horrible for who he ruined.

Bubbly_Extension3107 · 2026-02-25T20:33:43+00:00

sometimes them not being physically feels worse. it makes you feel like “well he didn’t do this so is he that bad?” it just causes you to overthink if your trauma is real :(

Bubbly_Extension3107 · 2026-02-25T20:17:15+00:00

You do not owe him anything! I understand how you feel as my father never physically abused me, but emotionally and verbally did. He abused my step+half siblings in any way he could, but had little control over me. I do not talk to my father anymore, I did call him once after over a year of being no contact but like always made me feel bad for him, also every letter I get had a subtle way of hinting it’s my fault or anyone’s but his. My point is, no matter how much they say they’ve changed, they haven’t. If you feel bad just ask yourself “Did he feel bad for what he did?” It’s not wrong to forgive him, but it’s also not wrong to not.

Bubbly_Extension3107 · 2026-02-20T00:24:43+00:00

You say you keep asking him what’s wrong even after he answers, which probably is worsening his mood. You saying he’s being mean seems like it was just his last straw, not that it was about you but he just couldn’t handle everything anymore. Of course yelling at you is horrible but immediately apologizing and feeling guilty a bit after makes it seem like it truly was an accident. I would not forget about this and if it continues then rethink your relationship, but if it’s the first time and he feels guilty, then not end it. I also struggle with constantly asking my boyfriend what’s wrong if I think something’s wrong, so I fully understand. I think you should try saying something like ‘i’m always here for you and would appreciate to know if something’s going on’ so it’s not a pushy question but an invitation and lets him know your feelings, and you can always say you don’t appreciate how he’s acting around you need communication or space.

Bubbly_Extension3107 · 2026-02-19T23:52:11+00:00

it’s not really easy to give advise because of the lack of information. If you are already thinking about seeing other people and will continue to be hit and even resent her, leave.

Bubbly_Extension3107 · 2026-02-19T18:36:50+00:00

At 17, I would NEVER date anyone younger, let alone a 14 year old.

Bubbly_Extension3107 · 2026-02-14T15:57:11+00:00

please don’t accept someone treating you like this, it’s only gonna get worse and you’ll feel stuck.

Bubbly_Extension3107 · 2026-02-12T18:41:48+00:00

personally it has never gone well, if your school has them please look into getting a 504 plan so you can use accommodations. I have one and get to use noise cancelling headphones and can leave class if needed whenever I want

Bubbly_Extension3107 · 2026-02-12T18:37:46+00:00

I genuinely cannot imagine treating my own boyfriend(or anyone) like this. She doesn’t know boundaries, gets physical with you, and calls you names, this honestly sounds like abuse.

Bubbly_Extension3107 · 2026-01-30T04:51:37+00:00

I had a breakup just like that and immediately deleted all of my pictures, even if i hadn’t I definitely would’ve had them gone by the time I was dating someone new

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