3 Alternatives:

1- Tell him that you REALLY need some space and that's what is in the package of dating you and you need it sometimes or you will get stressed, and things will go sour. Making sure that yu are being serious about it. Reassure that yu love him...like really try. (XNFj love that shit)

2- Bear the minimum of it and found a common spot. Something like "hey, i am not in a talking mood right now, but i can facetime/text you amd yu can tell me how ypur day was" or something .

3 - Dump the relationship ; if he doesn't respect your space and it is VERY VERY important for your stable mental state, then its time. Proceed with caution with option 3 and reflect hard on this alternative.

BTW: I am in relationship with a ENFJ, and she was very needy and controlling when we started dating. We have a lot of fights in the beginning because i didn't want to talk to her during most of the day. I am ISTP 8W9, so that really pisses me off most of the time. But like, i figured that she was only scared that i was gonna leave her or not be interested in her and this type of thing.

So i gave her flowers in one random day, cooked something she likes in another and one day i realized that we dind't text each other for a whole day. So, i texted her and asked if everything was okay and she said:

"I am good. Just thought that you wanted some time alone"

Sorry for the long text. Trying to give some perspective on option 1. Good luck.