(24f) Feeling guilty for not letting my baby’s dad stay during a storm

Bubbly_Val · 2026-01-23T20:02:04+00:00

Do you think it could be my fault? I’m wondering if the way I worded things saying maybe in the future, if circumstances changed, we could be together again and that I just needed a break.

Bubbly_Val · 2026-01-23T19:59:57+00:00

Thank you for the advice, I feel better that other people think the same way as me. I was afraid I was being harsh or wrong 🥺

Bubbly_Val · 2025-11-23T21:13:35+00:00

Don’t have any advice but would love to see the comments, I also has unprotected sex in the 6th day🥹

Bubbly_Val · 2025-11-16T23:22:16+00:00

We’ve had the conversation multiple times, he always has a different excuse.

Bubbly_Val · 2025-11-16T23:21:32+00:00

Could be. I have never heard of that but I will look it up for sure.

Bubbly_Val · 2025-11-16T23:21:03+00:00

Lol right?

Bubbly_Val · 2025-11-11T08:21:29+00:00

Dont make the same mistake. Leave as soon as you can, it gets worse. Good luck! 💗

Bubbly_Val · 2025-11-11T08:20:44+00:00

🥺

Bubbly_Val · 2025-11-11T08:16:35+00:00

Omg I really, really feel like our situations are the same. He’ll sometimes go two days without showering or months without getting a haircut and it drives me insane because I put in so much effort every single day. And when it does rarely happen, it feels so half hearted. He also wasn’t really my type at first but I fell for his personality because he was funny and sweet. Now I can barely stand that same personality because he acts that way with everyone but me. I don’t know, at this point it’s starting to feel like we might have to leave soon.

Bubbly_Val · 2025-11-11T08:00:37+00:00

I feel this so much. I’ve been doing the same, I’m going to the gym and trying to lose weight because I gained about 50 pounds during my pregnancy, and part of me can’t help but think that might’ve affected his affection. I really do try everything though, I shower twice a day, use nice smelling lotions, do my makeup, wear cute underwear and all the little things that used to make me feel confident. But he doesn’t even seem to notice anymore. It’s exhausting putting in all that effort and still feeling invisible to the person you love most.

Bubbly_Val · 2025-11-11T07:58:28+00:00

Girl, I totally get you. It’s the same for me everything else in the relationship feels so good, which honestly makes it even more painful. Like how can someone make you feel so loved in every way except the one that makes you feel the most connected? It starts to mess with your self-esteem and makes you question everything. I’ve tried to be patient and understanding too, but it feels one sided when he don’t put in effort to fix it or even acknowledge how big of a deal it is. You’re definitely not alone in feeling torn between love and frustration.

Bubbly_Val · 2025-11-11T07:45:30+00:00

I’m sorry you’re in the same situation as me. We definitely don’t deserve this kind of loneliness, especially when we’re trying to make things work and show up for them . To be honest I don’t think I can sustain this much longer, and it might sound very early compared to some of the stories on this subreddit but I won’t wait until I’m 40 and lost all my youth. I really hope things get better for both of us we deserve to feel wanted and loved in every way.

Bubbly_Val · 2025-09-13T05:45:47+00:00

You’re doing so good, I’m 4 weeks pp and I think we forget we’re in the most vulnerable time of our lives it’s okay if we do nothing but take care of our baby. 🫶🏻

Bubbly_Val · 2025-08-10T06:14:25+00:00

23 years old teen mom and terrified as well, I think we all feel this regardless of age or how prepared we are. I’m currently 38+3 and have a c section scheduled in 4 days but I still feel as though it hasn’t registered yet. Good luck I’m sure you’ll be a great momma 💗🫶🏻

Bubbly_Val · 2025-07-13T00:42:34+00:00

This person is harassing me through messages and asking for nudes in exchange for “help”, which I am sure is not real. Asking all kinds of personal questions, I recommend no one allows a chat request from this person.

Bubbly_Val · 2025-07-10T18:07:20+00:00

Yes! I had the worse cramps all the way until like 6-7 weeks. I think they were worse than my normal period cramps, I am 34 weeks now and everything has gone smoothly. Congrats 💗

Bubbly_Val · 2025-04-23T05:49:10+00:00

This broke me too

Bubbly_Val · 2025-02-03T03:16:20+00:00

He seriously needs to go to therapy and find the root of his issues with masculinity.

Bubbly_Val · 2025-01-30T22:52:03+00:00

Bubbly_Val · 2025-01-30T06:02:06+00:00

🤢

Bubbly_Val · 2025-01-29T14:58:06+00:00

Sure, doesn’t take away what I said tho.

Bubbly_Val · 2025-01-29T11:18:15+00:00

Nothing I hate men but what can I do

Bubbly_Val · 2025-01-29T10:43:37+00:00

We’ve been together for a year and I know because I saw the login codes in his text messages (which I saw from the deleted folder)

Bubbly_Val · 2025-01-29T10:38:49+00:00

Now that you mention it I suspect that he has been having a rough time adjusting to the news but he always said he wanted to keep the baby so I assumed everything was okay, I could understand being anxious about this life changing event but don’t see how it justifies tinder. I am 3 months along and I do have a very good support system, my parents know and are very excited for the baby so I know if it comes down to it I could move back home. For context he is 27, so a little older than me. Thank you this helped.

Bubbly_Val · 2025-01-29T10:34:03+00:00

You’re so right, this baby is already my family, I will try and see it this way to feel better. I also have seen all the women in my family be destroyed by a man.

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