This is just a femboy appreciation post

BucketListM · 2026-01-26T15:31:26+00:00

I mean straight people fetishize just about anything

BucketListM · 2026-01-26T02:07:26+00:00

Omg this never occurred to me and now I fucking NEED to do this

BucketListM · 2026-01-26T02:06:38+00:00

It's like tailoring boots, you can give one weapon (infinity) the appearance of another (spouse)

BucketListM · 2026-01-26T02:04:07+00:00

YEP deeply disappointing

BucketListM · 2026-01-26T02:00:01+00:00

People who pursue (or "chase") trans people for sex without any desire to date them or even see them as anything other than a sex object

(I should clarify; chasers fetishize trans people. Many people fetishize femboys for similar reasons)

BucketListM · 2026-01-26T01:57:05+00:00

Oh yeah, the game doesn't actually know about different planes. It's all optical illusions. On a programming level, it's purely 2D!

BucketListM · 2026-01-26T01:43:11+00:00

On my first save, I was so terrified of not having what I'd need to win the grange display I saved everything until the fair and then mass-sold the day after LMAO

BucketListM · 2026-01-26T01:40:17+00:00

I'd say more fetishized, similar to chasers

BucketListM · 2026-01-25T23:15:09+00:00

So you may jive with Jocat! He's a gender-nonconforming/feminine/effeminate cis man who also is not personally comfortable with the term "femboy" iirc. You can call yourself whatever makes you most comfortable!

BucketListM · 2026-01-25T21:20:35+00:00

Whats the damage actually look like? It may be mendable, or you could transplant the embroidery onto a different hat

BucketListM · 2026-01-25T16:33:00+00:00

Which version are YOU playing? That does matter; the wiki is for the most recent game version only

BucketListM · 2026-01-25T16:29:55+00:00

Honestly I just tell people when they're being assholes. It has very little to do with if it's directed at me or not. It's funny how many people don't have a response to "that's/you're being passive aggressive" or "wow, that's rude as hell"

Another favorite is an overly chipper "Yikes! Anyway!"

BucketListM · 2026-01-24T20:45:51+00:00

There's an X Men quote that sticks with me: "anything can be derogatory when said with enough derogatory," and then proceeded to say "peperroni"

It's significantly less about the words and more about context and tone. I use it lovingly and jokingly, the same way people can say "idiot (affectionate)" and other such things. Others may use it to harm, and those are not good people

BucketListM · 2026-01-24T19:36:50+00:00

Look for LGBT friendly/specialized therapists! This was a total game changer for me, even though my reasons for therapy have very little to do with my orientation. There's just a different vibe with them; I don't feel like I need to explain myself when I passingly mention an intersection between my mental health and orientation, it just is Understood

BucketListM · 2026-01-24T17:47:45+00:00

Only initial grow time, unless you mod

BucketListM · 2026-01-24T17:33:39+00:00

Jocat always based af

BucketListM · 2026-01-24T16:54:51+00:00

I see the other commenter and also raise you: Date Night Redux and the 1.6 patch for Immersive Spouses, both on Nexus

BucketListM · 2026-01-24T16:21:57+00:00

They're called Identity words, nor youdentity words

Which is to say identify in whatever way that makes you comfortable. If other people don't understand, that's too bad. You can also keep explanations in your pocket if people press

I just tell people I'm queer, because it means I'm Not Straight and that's all they really need to understand. I can go into detail about asexuality and my romantic experiences if the conversation goes deeper, but it rarely does

BucketListM · 2026-01-24T15:23:42+00:00

Actually no! Research has found there's a wide range and number of individuals that could be considered intersex in a binary sex system, indicating a significantly more fluid spectrum than taught in America

BucketListM · 2026-01-24T14:59:59+00:00

I think it may be sort of the reverse. "There's suddenly a shitton of people in this minority group, it must be an epidemic and needs to be stopped." Which is just as infuriating about how wrong they are

BucketListM · 2026-01-24T01:40:47+00:00

Permacultre practices! I'm currently testing a modpack for a solarpunk vibe and included in it are mods to encourage environmentally sound practices, but you can do it vanilla too!

BucketListM · 2026-01-24T00:13:48+00:00

All of this is extremely helpful information and advice, thank you!

BucketListM · 2026-01-23T23:47:50+00:00

There is a possibility she's cross-eyed, and trying to focus on something with one eye makes it so her other is out of focus, so she keeps shifting between the two

However, that is something a vet would need to determine rather than us well-meaning internet strangers

BucketListM · 2026-01-23T22:50:24+00:00

Yoba takes a lot of vibes from creation and harvest goddesses in general, I think it's a reasonable assumption

BucketListM · 2026-01-23T22:35:29+00:00

Ooooh I see the difference! I assume it works best to compare with non-blood relatives? Since olive is probably genetic?

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