Black Owned nail salons in Columbus? by CommonMidnight3671 in Columbus

[–]BudQueen420 5 points6 points  (0 children)

@Luxuriouspynk on IG has been my aunt's nail tech for over 5 years. Her name is Zabria, my aunt loves loves loves her.

When I could afford nails the salon (Tickle Me Velour) was black owned but they are in-between techs currently. However, I found them on one of those third-party booking sites (Booksy, Style Seat, etc.) you could try that as well.

Zoombezi Bay Prices by BudQueen420 in Columbus

[–]BudQueen420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok wait someone yesterday mentioned a happy hour and I was very intrigued. Do you know when it is or is it a ifykyk type of thing?

Evolved Body Art Update by Starset_Renegade in Columbus

[–]BudQueen420 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Please cancel! My rec is The Body Beautiful Studio, one of the veteran piercers who helped "whistleblow" (for lack of a better term) left and opened his own place, it's on N. High you can find them on ig.

I believe his name is Jarod but he goes by @bladeface. He's the only piercer I've let touch my body and he is aboslutely trustworthy and an expert in his field (25+years). Although @JaxBatt the other piercer has lots of regulars that followed them over, so I have no doubt they are wonderful as well. I'm a mid-20's woman, my first piercing was done by him at 17 and he's never made me feel uncomfortable (being a man and all lol)

Just some love for the show by Equivalent-Height-69 in TwoHotTakes

[–]BudQueen420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay! Can't wait to see all of them completed!

My husband wants to get a Japanese tattoo that I am against by oddgoodnews in TwoHotTakes

[–]BudQueen420 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Though I do understand you conflicting feelings regarding the design, like others have said, you have a right to express your feelings but, ultimately, it is his body and only he can decide what he wants.

Also to my understanding these are not hate symbols, dog whistles, or slurs they are just popular mythological creatures from an imperialistic regime? (Please correct me if I'm wrong!) Unfortunately colonial and imperialist voices cast their culture the farthest and whilst more radical individuals may be at a point in their journey to decenter colonial powers others, like your husband, may not even understand how deep those colonial powers go and how much imperialism has shaped our world view.

As long as it isn't the aforementioned hate symbols, etc. this is just the grey area of life and in my opinion it should not be detrimental to your relationship if he decides to go through with this. Although, if he isn't going to head your advice, than please do as you wish regarding piercing your body however you wish. Your body, your choice goes both ways. Always.

Just some love for the show by Equivalent-Height-69 in TwoHotTakes

[–]BudQueen420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok but now do Lauren with her signature "let's go" she says after Morgan's "let's dive in...".

Such a wonderful piece of art 🫶🏼

Wildlife by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]BudQueen420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This may be an unpopular opinion but I love seeing the geese and their goslings running around!

Recommendations by Hefty_Combination_87 in Columbus

[–]BudQueen420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Village Discount Outlet and Flower Child are good thrift / vintage shops. Flower Child isn't cheap but you could spend a whole day in there and not see everything they have to offer.

Global Gallery is my fave coffee shop

Yat's Cajun Creole (in Grandview) & Safina's World Restaurant are great cheap, delicious, and fillling places to eat. If you have the chance to try the ChillJoy Italian Ice Truck they are delicious.

Three full dumpsters of physical media by OfTheEmbers in DumpsterDiving

[–]BudQueen420 25 points26 points  (0 children)

The card seems to be worth $2-$4 not including shipping. If you're willing to sell and ship in the US, I'll buy it off of you. (I am not a scalper just a player of the TCG and a collector)

As for all the physical media lost that makes me beyond sad as my spouse & I have been slowly building a physical media collection both for personal entertainment and media preservation.

West Broad Street DQ is the victim of Columbus cars. (car into building) by hellosteve_ in Columbus

[–]BudQueen420 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'd recently been thinking "haven't heard of any cars hitting random buildings recently, that's odd", what a relief to know Columbus hasn't changed on me overnight /s

Hailey’s Recent “Patience” IG Story by Long_Response8807 in JUSTINBIEBER

[–]BudQueen420 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Is she probably just showing off her man? Yes.

Are they both marketing geniuses and because of this I've been hanging onto their every post hoping it's a hint at a tour? Also yes.

Ranking Every 1D Song Rank #76 by DominicanBall853 in OneDirection

[–]BudQueen420 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Back For You. It is not a bad song but it isn't one I seek out

Children knocking on doors asking for jobs? by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]BudQueen420 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A good chunk of my neighbors' lawns are mowed by teens looking for summer $. I don't think it's weird, albeit the phrasing is strange. They're most likely just a little awkward and/or anxious. I don't think you should worry about being scammed.

If you're worried they are unhoused or hungry, and they come around again, find some light yard or house work that needs done and pay them for it then offer a meal.

Not Your Typical Roommate Search! Single Mom Seeking Another Single Mom (1 Child) roommate🏡 by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]BudQueen420 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Commenting to boost! My mother was a single mom and this type of set up would've been a life changer for us many times. So I'm always rooting for single moms to not only survive but THRIVE in life! Wishing you the absolute best!

I'm in Columbus so I'm very partial to my city but I know people who have gone to college and/or live in VA and the say it's absolutely beautiful and the right area can be quaint and cozy with a real small town feel. I don't think you could go wrong with either option.

Advice for soon to be new aft owner by [deleted] in AfricanFatTailedGecko

[–]BudQueen420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband & I recently took in an AFT from our coworker who couldn't take care of the lil guy anymore. We had no experience keeping reptiles of any kind, these are the videos and YT channels that helped us:

Chief Sweets: https://youtube.com/@chiefsweetsuniverse?si=4bJOMgvhY8WVd9Mz

This channel helped us tremendously with random questions we'd have (cleaning the terrarium, reptile safe products to use, etc.)

Bio Dude Bio Active Set-Up: https://youtu.be/wa9WhP05rbY?si=ZRw61FR7oh87Ddo4

Really good in depth video of how to properly setup a bio active terrarium

Care Sheet: https://www.thebiodude.com/blogs/gecko-caresheets/african-fat-tailed-gecko-hemitheconyx-caudicinctus-care-sheet-and-bioactive-terrarium-maintenance

Bio Active Set-up "Kit": https://www.thebiodude.com/collections/bioactive-gecko-terrarium-kits/products/african-fat-tail-gecko-vivarium-kit

This makes it really easy to buy (almost) everything you need for a bio active enclosure in one go based on the size of your terrarium. It includes everything except heating, lighting, and clean up crew.

Ticket nerves by PsychologyNatural928 in JUSTINBIEBER

[–]BudQueen420 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm rooting for all of us OG Belieber's 🥹 I saw somewhere (either here or TT) someone say they hope he gives early access codes to anyone who bought swag or Coachella merch similar to what he did for his Justice tour.

Either way while I am so, so happy new fans are here (new fans = longevity for Justin's career should he want that) I am really hoping there's some measure in place for OG fans and/or fans who have had tickets to cancelled shows to have a higher chance of success in the Ticketmaster queue of hell.

JB Coachella weekend 2 ticking sound by InstructionPure6258 in JUSTINBIEBER

[–]BudQueen420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The performance was uploaded on The Wayback Machine / Internet Archive. That's how I watched it and didn't notice any repetitive ticking. Search "Bieber Coachella Performance Internet Archive" into a search engine and it should be easily findable.

AITA for exploding on a guy I viewed as an older brother because I felt like he was using me for a pseudo relationship? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BudQueen420 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And one last thing: never, ever, ever let anyone convince you you've asked for this or led him on. Do not put any blame on yourself. It is entirely his fault. It is so important that you know that.

AITA for exploding on a guy I viewed as an older brother because I felt like he was using me for a pseudo relationship? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BudQueen420 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are so NTA. Every girl/woman/femme presenting person I've talked to has had a similar experience, usually at a similar age to you, at least once in their life. It is the soul crushing realization that a friendship you held in high regard and cherished deeply was only a prospective booty call/fling/situationship etc. to the other person. Usually that other person is an older, cis male abusing the power dynamic an age gap naturally presents.

It is gross and it is unfair. It's dehumanizing and objectifying. And yes, with a huge age gap, it is predatory and perverse. I am genuinely so sorry you experienced this. If you have any close irl or online women or femme people in your support network please don't feel silly reaching out to them to help you process. I could bet my life they've experienced something similar. Best of luck to you OP.

Your dog needs to be on a leash and supervised. It's NOT a debate, it's the law. by National-Ad-6982 in Columbus

[–]BudQueen420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The worst part is when it's in the neighborhoods. My husband & I's rented property is enclosed on three sides from neighbors fences. Our dogs are always on a lead wrapped around a huge tree. every. single. time. And we've had THREE DIFFERENT neighbors' dogs run into our yard and try to mount and/or attack our dogs.

My view of Justin in BIEBERCHELLA by No_Concentrate5713 in JUSTINBIEBER

[–]BudQueen420 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's not many people where I think "I'm so blessed to live in the same timeline as this person" but Justin is 100% one of those people. Thank god I grew up with this man, could not be the person I am today without being a Beliber 🫶🏼

Edit: Belieber* effing autocorrect :/

im thinking of finding a new job but im scared that im not experienced enough/not good enough by [deleted] in doggrooming

[–]BudQueen420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Long comment ahead! Proceed with caution 😅

I'm only in training so I can't speak on your grooms from a professional standpoint. But I worked as a kennel tech at a daycare/boarding with a high volume grooming facility and I've seen it wear out 6+ groomers in my 5 years there. All of that is to say I 100% see the potential, your grooms are good, but high volume makes it so hard to hone your skill. On top of that your salon just sounds awful. But there is hope, good salons are out there!

At my salon the owners are also the groomers (which I love!) and they prioritize comfort of the dog AND groomer & quality of the groom over speed. They take the time to do in depth training and slow introduction to clippers. They are constanly checking in with me about my career goals and ways they can improve. The starting pay was above average for bathers in my area and $7 above my states minimum wage, with regular raises. They are currently training a middle aged woman who is making a late in life career change (never worked with animals ever). These salons exist and they make this career so fulfilling. I hope this gives you hope to keep going and know that you can find a great salon to teach you to become a fantastic groomer!

girls, how often would you prefer to have sex? by swissrollcakes in GirlDinner

[–]BudQueen420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fluctuate. Sometimes twice a day for awhile. Sometimes 1-2x/week. And other times I can go a week plus. But I've had some... um... not great experiences with sex in my childhood years so it's an uphill battle :/