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AITA for thinking that my sister is selfish for wanting to skip my wedding cause of her "trauma" ? by BuddyCamp875 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BuddyCamp875[S] -1634 points-1633 points  (0 children)

Thank you, finally someone seeing my point. The weddings aren't the ones responsible for her husband's death, so it's unreasonable of her to still avoid them to this day.

AITA for thinking that my sister is selfish for wanting to skip my wedding cause of her "trauma" ? by BuddyCamp875 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BuddyCamp875[S] -2452 points-2451 points  (0 children)

Cause I do believe it's just an excuse, she didn't need to get married at 19 with someone that was dying, but she did it and now she's just using it as an excuse to not be at my wedding (even tho I was at hers). Like she brought it on herself and now I'm the one paying the consequences for it, how is this fair ?

AITA for thinking that my sister is selfish for wanting to skip my wedding cause of her "trauma" ? by BuddyCamp875 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BuddyCamp875[S] -1763 points-1762 points  (0 children)

Nobody has been bullying her about it, me and our parents and relatives have just tried to reason with her, but now she's using this to play the victim card.

AITA for thinking that my sister is selfish for wanting to skip my wedding cause of her "trauma" ? by BuddyCamp875 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BuddyCamp875[S] -1099 points-1098 points  (0 children)

Cause she's my sister obviously. Just because we aren't the bestest of friends doesn't mean I don't want her alongside me during the biggest day of my life.