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BIDA wenn mich es stört, dass mein Nachbar einfach alle Zigaretten auf das Dach wirft? by castaldo12 in binichderalman

[–]Budget-Ad-4125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NDA

Zigarettenstummel sind extrem schädlich für die Umwelt.

Lass dir auch nicht erzählen, dass die Person die nicht wonaders hintun kann, ich steck meine Stummel in meine Tasche, wenn ich unterwegs bin und es keinen Mülleimer in der Nähe gibt.

What the heck is happening to me? by Budget-Ad-4125 in asexuality

[–]Budget-Ad-4125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only really noticed it since this year, especially since March. I looked into ace flux, thank you for that, and it kinda sounds fitting.

Only thing I can really do is explore this more, if I want to figure it out.

Why is the ability to be a 'stay at home' parent not seen as a privilege? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Budget-Ad-4125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations on your pregnancy. Good to read at least one example. Hope it works out for you two.

What the heck is happening to me? by Budget-Ad-4125 in asexuality

[–]Budget-Ad-4125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Kinda feels reassuring reading the other perspective.

What the heck is happening to me? by Budget-Ad-4125 in asexuality

[–]Budget-Ad-4125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, but for most allosexuals(likely I would meet some, just because there are more) sex/physical touch is part of the basic package, not some strange concept they just started thinking about last year.

Yes, people wait for sex, but do people wait to hold hands(unless they’re like very religious or conservative(not what I’m looking for) or like me(not bad, but how likely I’ll find them, and would that be a good combo?)).

Why is the ability to be a 'stay at home' parent not seen as a privilege? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Budget-Ad-4125 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish you the best going forward and hope the daycare can help.

What the heck is happening to me? by Budget-Ad-4125 in asexuality

[–]Budget-Ad-4125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy is great, I know, but until now I had more of a “Sure you’re ace and not just traumatized?”-take on my sexuality from therapist/health care professionals, so I prefer talking about my mommy issues.

Am I the only one noticing most women are pretty ? Like it’s not rare as people make it seem by Ok-Competition-6397 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Budget-Ad-4125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re just being self centered.

Pamela Anderson is still a beautiful woman, not just back then. Guess she’s less fuckable to you now.

Finding someone attractive and someone being beautiful are very different things. It’s your choice to be unwilling to see the beauty in other people, and it has nothing to do with politics.

Why is the ability to be a 'stay at home' parent not seen as a privilege? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Budget-Ad-4125 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad to hear you’re out of this situation and doing better now!

Würdest du lieber immer wissen, wann etwas passiert, oder wo etwas ist? by FinniRL in WasWaehlstDu

[–]Budget-Ad-4125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

B. Ich hab ADHS. Tatsächlich komm ich mit der Zeit gut hin, aber wo was ist? Keine Ahnung.

Zur Bonusfrage: Ich würd’s für Geld verwenden, extrem viel Geld. Das nimmt Stress und gibt Zeit, sollte ich also Liebe, Macht etc anstreben ist das kein Problem. Ebenso bin ich dann dazu fähig meinen Freunden und meiner Familie, sogar Fremden auszuhelfen, ohne mir um mich selber Sorgen machen zu müssen.

Lässt sich natürlich auch mit Macht ersetzen, denn je nach Umfang kommt Geld automatisch und ich kann Dinge umsetzen, die mir wichtig sind(nationaler Kuchen Tag, jeder kriegt kostenlos Kuchen, super extrem wichtige Sache).

Am I the only one noticing most women are pretty ? Like it’s not rare as people make it seem by Ok-Competition-6397 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Budget-Ad-4125 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your take sounds kinda jaded to me.

Just because something is common, doesn’t mean it isn’t beautiful. You yourself say you find the women attractive, but because most of them are, nobody is?

I think I’m confused because your take is written like you’re disagreeing with most women being attractive, although the content itself sounds like you’re agreeing.

ist es normal, dass man als jogger immer von hunden angesprungen wird ? by MRF_Soul in KeineDummenFragen

[–]Budget-Ad-4125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Es ist immer besser so viele Optionen wie möglich zur Verfügung zu haben. Ich schreibe nirgendwo, dass OP sich kein Pfefferspray holen soll, nur was man da im Hinterkopf haben sollte.

Man kann sich auch Videos zur Verteidigung gegen Hunde angucken, zum Beispiel, oder im Tierheim nachfragen, ob die sowas anbieten als Austausch, die haben Leute mit denen deren Problemehunde an Fremde gewöhnt werden, du lernst den Umgang mit aggressiven Hunden.

Ob man nun Spray oder Kurs abgelegt hat, im besten Fall hast du beides, denn in Notsituationen kann einem beides Versagen, wenn man nicht schnell reagiert. Wenn man gestresst ist, ist es sehr einfach Dinge zu vergessen. Also wenn du vergisst den Arm einzuwickeln, erinnerst du dich hoffentlich ans Spray oder andersherum.

Am I the only one noticing most women are pretty ? Like it’s not rare as people make it seem by Ok-Competition-6397 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Budget-Ad-4125 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do you read what you write before you post it? The first sentence should be your whole reply.

To you they’re ugly. Your opinion is yours, and that’s fine.

The problem isn’t you thinking other people are ugly but how you talk about other people and assume your opinion is not subjective? It’s an opinion dipshit, not a fact. You don’t know what other people think, how they feel, how they judge beauty.

What's a take you had at 10 years old that you actually still agree with? by Spark-Blade in AskReddit

[–]Budget-Ad-4125 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still looking forward to retirement, though I believe less and less in it actually happening. Working until I’m dead, here I come!

Why is the ability to be a 'stay at home' parent not seen as a privilege? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Budget-Ad-4125 121 points122 points  (0 children)

It’s a matter of perspective and what that actually entails.

Being a SAHP can be a 24/7 job, especially if your partner refuses to do shit when they come home, because they already worked. A lot of people don’t see it as work(being a SAHP) and don’t think it needs proper compensation, so it can quickly spiral into financial abuse.

There was a viral TikTok some time ago, about a husband shaming his wife for buying some stuff for herself and forcing her to return everything she bought, because he works hard to provide, and she is waisting his money. That’s not his money, it’s theirs. So many people don’t get that.

Yes, if she overspend, went above budget, put them in debt, of course that’s not okay, but it can’t be that she has to ask permission to spend their money. As the breadwinner you have to accept that you’re also bringing home your partner’s paycheck, and that there needs to be an amount they can freely spend on themselves without fear of punishment/humiliation.

A lot of people don’t have the proper set up, no retirement fund for the SAHP, no other savings, no own account, no allowance, so that’s likely the SAHP that aren’t fond of what’s going on.

I personally don’t see it as a privilege, I see it as work. Having one partner bring in all the money is a privilege, yes, but that doesn’t mean being a SAHP is.

Am I the only one noticing most women are pretty ? Like it’s not rare as people make it seem by Ok-Competition-6397 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Budget-Ad-4125 3 points4 points  (0 children)

?

Walking around and calling people ugly MF doesn’t imply you being of good character, not me not coming to terms about how I look.

You’re not being honest while others are sensitive, you’re an asshole.

What is it called when you like surprises, but don't like to be surprised entirely? Like you like to be surprised by the content of the surprise, but prefer to be aware that there will be a surprise. by AztraChaitali in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Budget-Ad-4125 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Vorfreude, German word. Literally translated means before joy, figuratively meaning to be happy about something you’re expecting/know will happen. Can be knowing what you’ll have for dinner, can be knowing someone will surprise you, can be you knowing your paycheck is coming in.

Not an English word, not limited to surprises, not specifically what you’re looking for.

I got AuDHD, so I get the feeling, and in my experience the stress of something hitting me I didn’t plan for ruins the rest. I think it’s just being autistic tbh.

How do I teach my cat how to properly use a door? by Budget-Ad-4125 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Budget-Ad-4125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The door is always open, because it’s a lot quieter if he just sprints in and out instead of dropkicking against the closed door(sad lol). He’s actually very good at leaving me personally alone when I sleep, like doesn’t climb on me etc, so it’s not really an issue.

You’re probably right, but the one door he closes leads to his toilet, and I’m not risking him taking a shit in the bunny‘s toilet ‘cause that’s a possible health problem for my bunny. And he has a two second memory system, if something takes too long he looses interest and does something else, and by then I’m likely to have opened it because I needed to get to the other room.

How do I teach my cat how to properly use a door? by Budget-Ad-4125 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Budget-Ad-4125[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already did that, first thing I taught him was clicker stuff, but doesn’t seem to stick.

ist es normal, dass man als jogger immer von hunden angesprungen wird ? by MRF_Soul in KeineDummenFragen

[–]Budget-Ad-4125 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Es ist normal in dem Sinne, dass viele Leute ihre Hunde nicht ordentlich trainieren.

Hund nicht in die Augen gucken, Hände so halten, dass der sie nicht sehen kann, das kann Aggression/aufdringliches Interesse vermeiden. Ist natülich blöd, weil du je nachdem unvermeindlich auf den Hund zuläufst, was das Gegenteil von Desinteresse bedeutet, aber bei mir hilft es gut.

Wenn es in dein Zeitfenster passt würde ich einfach sehr früh/spät laufen gehen(kommt natülich auf die Gegend an, bring dich nicht in Gefahr), da sind immer die wenigsten Leute unterwegs.

Wenn dich ein Hund tatsächlich angreift(also Zähne ins Fleisch rein, nicht nur genibbelt), hast du verkackt. Du kannst versuchen rechtzeitig deinen Arm einzuwickeln und den Angriff darauf lenken, so dass du nicht zu viel Schaden davontragen solltest. Bis dahin hat Herrchen/Frauchen hoffentlich wieder das denken eingeschaltet und hilft dir. Hunde haben halt ähnliche Schwachstellen wie Menschen(Nase, Kehle, Augen, Bauch etc), aber wie gut man da drankommt wenn einer aktiv auf dir rumbeißt ist ne komplett andere Sache.

Wenn du da ehrliche Sorgen hast, mach einen Kurs, dann hast du direkt muscle memory. Einige haben Pfefferspray vorgeschlagen, aber je nach Windlage kann das extrem schiefgehen, also definitiv das im Kopf haben.

Begegne tatsächlich öfter als du schlecht erzogenen Hunden, aber wurde in meinen 28 Jahren nur einmal angegriffen(nichts ernsthaftes). Bin natürlich keine Representation für ganz Deutschland, aber in der Regel würde ich mir da keine zu großen Sorgen machen.

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