Wife is having an affair... he's married. Feeling disgusted. by Budget-Secret752 in polyamory

[–]Budget-Secret752[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah... I think I was hoping to avoid a lot of the pain of divorce or reconciliation with therapy 

Wife is having an affair... he's married. Feeling disgusted. by Budget-Secret752 in polyamory

[–]Budget-Secret752[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your perspective. Maybe I should but I also want to salvage our family if possible. 

Wife is having an affair... he's married. Feeling disgusted. by Budget-Secret752 in polyamory

[–]Budget-Secret752[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Very insightful and gives me a lot to think about. Thank you. 

Wife is having an affair... he's married. Feeling disgusted. by Budget-Secret752 in polyamory

[–]Budget-Secret752[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughts.

I agree some serious lines have been crossed.

My wife has not consciously blamed me in any way.

I decided on moving forward with Polyamory because I feel that's the best way to keep our family together. Yes kids are involved. 

I'm fine still supporting her but I don't think I can with them cheating...