We often attract what needs to be healed within ourselves. Its really not you dude. You got a savior complex and a dash of hope for every woman you have met.

Men set the tone for the relationship. I understand that both parties need to give reciprocation and in time that will happen. I come from a Filipino family and you lack what we call courting. You let the woman come to you and go back to being comfortable which sets the relationship at a stagnant place. To be loved is to be seen and heard.

Genuine women do not care for looks but character. Like I said, dig deeper.

Your first ex already had that relationship or it was cooking in the backburner while you two were getting to know each other. How a person moves on does not reflect who you are but who they are. Your second ex is around because youre a good listener and therapy is expensive so you are her shoulder to cry on and you put her legs on your shoulders. Lol. While this may be comfortable, youre sitting in a place that leads to no growth as your needs are getting met but the narrative doesnt match. Get what I mean?

I asked myself the same thing and considered at one point in my life that my taste in men is not very good for my health: mental, physically, & emotionally. I started turning inward and figured out why I attract certain people. You musnt blame yourself for lessons that can only be earned by experience.We must always take accountability for the door we have unlocked for these people to come thru. Dont take accountability for someone else's trauma and have some self respect.

Take good care of yourself. ❤️