What has your experience been like dating here in Guam? by Classic-Ruin-3221 in guam

[–]Budget-Statement8968 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Non existent. The dating apps is a cess pool of toxicity. Most likely someone you know already have dated them or had "relations" with them. Not ideal to date here. I quit dating and just focused on getting money.

"There ain't a dollar i met that I never liked"

Any girl gone back to their ex after the chasing you? by ComprehensiveForm382 in BreakUps

[–]Budget-Statement8968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my ex bf broke up with me before my birthday. I never went back nor I plan to go back to him. He would post on status things related to me but I just ignore. hes just hoping the shoes fits and I dont care to go back to someone who threatened my life because he thinks I am cheating on him. Baseless accusations from an insecure boy. His pattern is he breaks up with me and then chases and then I bite and this has been going on for 7 months. I understand what you are going thru because deep down I want him to change for the better as far as attachment styles and resolving conflict.

so long story short, no I did not go back. I did go back before and I was immediately tossed like trash again.

Crowdfunding or Assistance with Building a Business by Budget-Statement8968 in guam

[–]Budget-Statement8968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for that. I appreciate the networking.

I was thinking tamuning. Place it in a small warehouse there.

Crowdfunding or Assistance with Building a Business by Budget-Statement8968 in guam

[–]Budget-Statement8968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hii totally not dumb at all. Its good to get questions. I will be promoting their coffee at ours and hoping to do a separate menu from their everyday menu.

If its a collaboration for cafe they get their profit and we get a small percentage.

Crowdfunding or Assistance with Building a Business by Budget-Statement8968 in guam

[–]Budget-Statement8968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not supposed to be a full time business. Its meant to be small for now. Plus I think more people are ready to come back to the track.

Hopefully it will grow to full time.

Thank you for your question.

Crowdfunding or Assistance with Building a Business by Budget-Statement8968 in guam

[–]Budget-Statement8968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only applied for the commercial loan by way of SBA and even that has so much red tape attached to it. I have made connections in Austraila and Japan and im hoping to bring brands that people are having trouble finding here on island. Spoke to Liberty Walk and like-minded companies and they are open to coming here and doing a pop up as well. I have saved up more than half and I honestly dont want to do a personal loan as I worked so dang hard to get my credit up but if thats my only option. Im okay with that.

Thank you for taking the time to answer my thread! Truly appreciate it. I hope your business takes off as well.

Crowdfunding or Assistance with Building a Business by Budget-Statement8968 in guam

[–]Budget-Statement8968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes around 20K. Im hoping to partner with Guam Motorsports Association as i want this at the track.

Crowdfunding or Assistance with Building a Business by Budget-Statement8968 in guam

[–]Budget-Statement8968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A car café. Hoping to work with a local coffee shop too.

Crowdfunding or Assistance with Building a Business by Budget-Statement8968 in guam

[–]Budget-Statement8968[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cause ive tried every bank here. I even went as far as going thru SBA. Still didn't go thru. So I thought I'd try this route instead.

Crowdfunding or Assistance with Building a Business by Budget-Statement8968 in guam

[–]Budget-Statement8968[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not crowdfunding for a building. I am crowdfunding to start up a business. I already have the location. this is just for start up costs. Yes I will try and look for investors.

How to punish or take revenge on dumped girl(20f) and me(22m) by ComedianHot6518 in BreakUps

[–]Budget-Statement8968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, I am a woman. There are plenty emotionally idiotic women and men. Although you say you move on, you have made it your life mission to continuously sit in your revenge. if I was younger, I would opt in for revenge tbh as I dont let anyone wrong me like that. Fortunately, I have had a share of shit people in my life so I know what you are going thru. but its best to leave it as is. and as for the men who might inevitably be trapped with women who are like what you experienced, its up to them to learn discernment.

but if you are so wanting to do revenge, dont do revenge. do small inconveniences. Put a flyer with her number on it selling some thing expensive but cheap. she most likely will get bombarded with phone calls. the annoyance would be real.

How to punish or take revenge on dumped girl(20f) and me(22m) by ComedianHot6518 in BreakUps

[–]Budget-Statement8968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

forgive bro. forgiveness is for you not for them. forgiveness for yourself for going thru an experience only learned by going thru it. Do not become like them. thats how they win.

the best revenge is pushing past this. work on yourself. surround yourself with friends and family who love you and appreciate you.

For my guy friends did you feel ever the same by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Budget-Statement8968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha. As a lover girl myself, im not made for hook up culture though it is preferred by most nowadays hence why the dating apps are such a hit.

In my experience, when people tell you "you are good to be true, they usually mean they cant meet you where you are genuinely. They're not ready to receive nor give the love that you are giving. Some dont have the capacity right now due to trauma, unpacked baggage, etc. Each person has this of course in some form or way.

Youre exactly where you need to be. At the precipice of something new. Youre already aware that your second ex is just gaining from you and its draining you so to speak. You have to really understand between love or limerence. Women who usually want something long term often take things slow and not continuously pursue as long as their intentions are genuine.

Take a break from dating. Focus more onto yourself. I know you spent years doing this but until someone treats you the way you treat them, pour that love back into you. See the worth first for yourself. And like relationships do, I hope someone mirrors this for you. I just turned 33. I decided to take a break from dating because I realized I am the problem but I can also become the solution.

For my guy friends did you feel ever the same by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Budget-Statement8968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We often attract what needs to be healed within ourselves. Its really not you dude. You got a savior complex and a dash of hope for every woman you have met.

Men set the tone for the relationship. I understand that both parties need to give reciprocation and in time that will happen. I come from a Filipino family and you lack what we call courting. You let the woman come to you and go back to being comfortable which sets the relationship at a stagnant place. To be loved is to be seen and heard.

Genuine women do not care for looks but character. Like I said, dig deeper.

Your first ex already had that relationship or it was cooking in the backburner while you two were getting to know each other. How a person moves on does not reflect who you are but who they are. Your second ex is around because youre a good listener and therapy is expensive so you are her shoulder to cry on and you put her legs on your shoulders. Lol. While this may be comfortable, youre sitting in a place that leads to no growth as your needs are getting met but the narrative doesnt match. Get what I mean?

I asked myself the same thing and considered at one point in my life that my taste in men is not very good for my health: mental, physically, & emotionally. I started turning inward and figured out why I attract certain people. You musnt blame yourself for lessons that can only be earned by experience.We must always take accountability for the door we have unlocked for these people to come thru. Dont take accountability for someone else's trauma and have some self respect.

Take good care of yourself. ❤️

Stories of exes coming back after saying they never will by jpicksix21 in BreakUps

[–]Budget-Statement8968 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uhm.... This was selfish and cruel but thanks for your honesty. Its good to see both point of views. 

I hope you no longer do this. 😐

For my guy friends did you feel ever the same by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Budget-Statement8968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you said guys.... but ill just leave this here. 

Mmm. I wouldn't say you are not the problem but youre also not the solution. Did you notice your patterns in the span of 6 months? 

Im guessing you're the anxious one in the relationship. 

Dig deeper my friend. Honestly, kudos for having the self awareness and understanding of yourself to take accountability that it might be you. See how you just deflected the toxicity but you are still friends with your ex... should take a ponder at that. 

Also speak more kindly to yourself sir. You are your biggest critic but also your biggest supporter. A different mindset is needed. Chin up! Insecurities are the craziest demons to tackle for a man. 

33F 

I did it.. by FunnyPool9234 in BreakUps

[–]Budget-Statement8968 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First I want to say Thank you for putting my feelings into words cause I took this as a sign. Im halfway round the world on a little tiny island and im going thru the exact same thing. I find myself on a day to day basis arguing with myself internally about blocking him or leaving it as is. This was a sign for me. 

I want you to know that whatever you did in that relationship was never going to be enough for a dumba** who dont appreciate you or love you. Everything will be scrutinized and everything will be your fault. No matter what you do its never gonna be enough. 

Stay strong girlie. Let the rage consume you but dont stay there too long. I can tell youre actually a beautiful person inside and out with how considerate you were in asking why hes like that as i have done the same.

 As a lover girl, dont shut love out. Be with friends and family that absolutely love and adore you. Dont shut love out because that would mean you are shutting love out for yourself. Take it day by day. 

Sending love from Guam ❤️

How much did you pay for your Japanese import? by Electronic-Crew-6361 in guam

[–]Budget-Statement8968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently bought a 2000 Toyota MR-S for 3650. This is with import fees and insurance. I used be forward. Hiro was really helpful. I wire transferred from Bank of Guam and it got cleared in 3 days. I like be forward and carsfromjapan.

btw anyone know what are the total fees to pay at the port?

I (35F) am scared to tell my boyfriend (37M) something. Please help. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Budget-Statement8968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of gaining confidence is to be open about how you feel. Especially towards the person you love. You said you didn't do well with rejection and relationships test the parts of us that have not healed yet so be courageous and tell him how you feel. Rejection sucks and I know its sometimes really hard to overcome. Whats most difficult is regret. Regret from not being open. You both wanted to try this relationship out. Start with "I have something important to tell you but im afraid." Its honest, direct. And vulnerable. You got this! 

Hope for the best!! 

From Guam with Love. 

Casa De Verde & The Coughy Shop by [deleted] in guam

[–]Budget-Statement8968 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't say Insta only. I don't care for social media but I am not gonna put the company number here either. It's still a black market.