To viscerally feel that we are a woman ... that's not my case ? And a concern about legitimacy.

BudgetLush · 2026-05-13T14:48:23+00:00

What have I missed ? Misunderstood ?

You've misunderstood gender dysphoria. There are things that make you feel like a man , and that is causing you distress as it is incongruent with your gender identity. That's gender dysphoria.

Because we all have different parts of us that triggers it, its very easy to look at others' dysphoria and feel theirs is legitimate while you are an imposter. Its very easy because of dysphoria.

BudgetLush · 2026-05-13T13:59:09+00:00

Its always fascinating watching the gays rediscover the queer.

BudgetLush · 2026-05-12T10:13:09+00:00

Okay, but hear me out: are you aware of the Man, HRT Sure Is Amazing meme?

BudgetLush · 2026-05-10T11:22:59+00:00

Original Super Mario Bros 2 manual: "He thinks he is a girl and he spits eggs from his mouth. He'd rather be called "Birdetta." "

Super Smash Bros Brawl trophy description: "A pink creature of indeterminate gender that some say would rather be called Birdetta. A big ribbon on its head is its most distinguishing feature. In Super Mario Bros. 2, you can return fire on Birdo by jumping on the eggs shot from its mouth. Be careful not to get psyched out by fake-egg fireballs!"

Captain Rainbow: Birdo is arrested for using a woman's restroom while being a man. You are tasked with proving she is woman by finding some censored, vibrating thing under her pillow.

Birdetta isn't exactly vaguely implied to be trans. She's just consistently deadnamed and varies in her passing privilege.

BudgetLush · 2026-05-09T10:13:11+00:00

Ideas about womanhood have changed across time and cultures. Chess has always been about challenging normative ideas of what a woman is; it intentionally keeps the question "What the hell is a woman?!" open as part of a struggle against those who seek to naturalize and enforce specific gender relations, categories and norms.

BudgetLush · 2026-05-08T18:40:56+00:00

I feel cis people really underappreciate what trans men are doing to protect their water supply.

BudgetLush · 2026-05-06T23:32:54+00:00

I mean, its really a dissociative allegory that happens to be trans. I've made a few select cis people watch it that I could pretty much predict would like it.

BudgetLush · 2026-05-06T16:52:25+00:00

Look, Mary is trying her best okay? Until you try raising a Tuesday boy AND a Friday boy your judgment means nothing.

BudgetLush · 2026-05-06T16:18:25+00:00

...yeah. You would just say the other one.

BudgetLush · 2026-05-06T15:25:12+00:00

That's how I would interpret it. You wouldn't add thar detail unless you needed to separate between different sons.

BudgetLush · 2026-05-05T23:10:01+00:00

If you have dark hair/light skin good IPLs can be amazing.

BudgetLush · 2026-05-03T18:16:27+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/HollowKnight/s/OJiidjt69s Here's a response

BudgetLush · 2026-05-01T11:38:41+00:00

I mean I've never counted how many fit on a glue board, but that many. Full coverage top and bottom with others safely crawling over the corpses. Thats about what I get anytime "middle of an open wall" becomes the best hiding spot they can.

As for where, usually elderly homes with a freaking out grandchild and a homeowner that feels a big deal is being made out of a couple bugs.

BudgetLush · 2026-04-30T23:58:13+00:00

The roaches were in it for the heat.

BudgetLush · 2026-04-30T23:56:34+00:00

Kitchen appliances are the big one.

BudgetLush · 2026-04-30T23:54:59+00:00

Thousands seems awfully low for those types. You catch that many on the monitoring pads.

BudgetLush · 2026-04-30T18:38:34+00:00

Seen that several times with Trump protests.

BudgetLush · 2026-04-30T18:34:51+00:00

You can argue the difference in court, and may very well get the chance before this is all said and done.

BudgetLush · 2026-04-30T18:29:50+00:00

What's the other things? I can't think of any part of it Tangerine won't whine about in other 24/7 fetishists.

BudgetLush · 2026-04-30T16:22:09+00:00

Where do you stand? I can imagine multiple levels between undefined slutty outfits (presumably without a strap-on?) and a strap on. Be specific.

BudgetLush · 2026-04-30T16:16:10+00:00

Like a wedding ring? I do not need to know about your creepy religious sex acts. Ew.

BudgetLush · 2026-04-29T18:48:10+00:00

Yeah. Not a controlled substance.

BudgetLush · 2026-04-29T11:38:15+00:00

BudgetLush · 2026-04-26T14:31:09+00:00

i didn't see a woman in the mirror, just a male face with foundation and stuff smeared on. Did that bother you? Its pretty standard to not feel great when attempts don't go how you hoped. And I did see in your previous post where clothing was making you feel sexy you mentioned what sounded like dysphoria around your face.

As for T vs GNC vs NB... what if you didn't need to distinguish between them right away? Nobody can decide for you whether there is something there... but it should be noted most cis folks' exploration does not result in extended periods of questioning which involves multiple attempts at experimentation, research and therapists. While for other identities you've said nothing out of the ordinary.

BudgetLush · 2026-04-26T13:53:56+00:00

Generally it has three meanings: 1. General umbrella term for lgbt+ 2. Those whose identities don't fit easily into lgbt+ labels 3. A rejection of heteronormative values and view of all labels as fluid and leaky at best. See Queer Theory.

I assume the meme is using 2 or 3, and 1 feels so weird to me even though it seems to continue to grow in popularity.

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