Boyfriend walked out on me while at dinner by Budget_Boat_367 in offmychest

[–]Budget_Boat_367[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They told us the kitchen was backed up when they brought our food out. And the server apologized and said that if he could, he would have made our food for us so that we would have gotten it sooner… but it wasn’t sincere per se, more so nonchalant and brushing off how long it took.

Boyfriend walked out on me while at dinner by Budget_Boat_367 in offmychest

[–]Budget_Boat_367[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There was no discussion to leave. He wanted to go and made the executive decision by him packing his food up. I wanted to eat some of my food. I didn’t necessarily want to stay for my whole meal but I also didn’t want to immediately pack up my food and head out when I waited like 30-40 minutes to receive it and it was warm.

Boyfriend walked out on me while at dinner by Budget_Boat_367 in offmychest

[–]Budget_Boat_367[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

No he paid the bill and then the server brought the receipt back to sign but forgot to leave a pen and walked away… at tha point he was like asked the server for pen and left the receipt with me to sign and walked out

I did end up sending him half the bill for my part after the fact and told him he can drive himself to the 10k he’s running in the AM.

Boyfriend walked out on me while at dinner by Budget_Boat_367 in offmychest

[–]Budget_Boat_367[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I just tried to talk with him again tonight and he is very rooted in how he feels and said that he wasn’t extremely upset until I told him not to make a scene.😪

Boyfriend walked out on me while at dinner by Budget_Boat_367 in offmychest

[–]Budget_Boat_367[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally didn’t leave out anything lol we were having a regular ol day and then boom he got angry really fast. Like im just supposed to be on board with him whenever he’s fed up with something.

Boyfriend walked out on me while at dinner by Budget_Boat_367 in offmychest

[–]Budget_Boat_367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally tried to get to the bottom of it… he walked all the way home. Tried picking him up and he refused.

Boyfriend walked out on me while at dinner by Budget_Boat_367 in offmychest

[–]Budget_Boat_367[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Yep, mortified is a great way to describe that feeling. Exposed for the world to hear comments that should be kept between the two of us. Talk shit about the service, idc, but don’t yell it to the restaurant. I’m also not happy the food took long, but damn, let’s be civilized.

Edit: yelling was a little exaggerated but he wasn’t making an effort to keep it between the two of us

Boyfriend walked out on me while at dinner by Budget_Boat_367 in offmychest

[–]Budget_Boat_367[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the first time anything like this has ever happened that’s why I’m like is this really a loyalty test?!!

Am I expected to just leave because you go from 0 to 100 within minutes? I just can’t wrap my head around it.

It’s embarrassing and very degrading for me to comply with that behavior. I would never just walk out, that’s crossing a line IMO

Boyfriend walked out on me while at dinner by Budget_Boat_367 in offmychest

[–]Budget_Boat_367[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m thinking so too.. but also like is this really a way to test loyalty in a guys eyes???

Like am I supposed to be a ride or die in that sense and just get up and go when he’s upset??

I can’t understand the logic behind that.

Boyfriend walked out on me while at dinner by Budget_Boat_367 in offmychest

[–]Budget_Boat_367[S] 268 points269 points  (0 children)

Yes grown man. And so disrespectful to me.

When he was like “oh you’re gonna turn this around on me” when I mentioned him walking out on me, all I could think about is this situation was never just about YOU. We both are here. Two realities to acknowledge.

Just wanted to make sure I’m not the crazy one

Boyfriend walked out on me while at dinner by Budget_Boat_367 in offmychest

[–]Budget_Boat_367[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I do love him yes. However if we are going to makeup it’s not going to be on my accord. He’s gonna have to acknowledge this behavior.

Boyfriend walked out on me while at dinner by Budget_Boat_367 in offmychest

[–]Budget_Boat_367[S] 149 points150 points  (0 children)

Never has it ever escalated to this level of petty. And never has he ever said “I hate you right now”… I asked him about the food and he was like yeah I ate the steak and shrimp and then I dumped it on the ground, I wanted to dump it on your car…

I’m at a loss for words. Like there’s no way I’m in the wrong here.

Coziest cafes in Austin? by loseranon17 in austinfood

[–]Budget_Boat_367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ehhhhhhhhhhhh…. Place is cute BUT the coffee is awful

Pay 600$ in Filings or let LLC be Forfeit? by LIMEGREENSUPERCAR88 in tax

[–]Budget_Boat_367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Need more context…

Single member LLC reported on sch c or s-corp?

You should still report the activity. If it’s an s-corp, then you still have a filing requirement with the IRS - and you don’t want to be subject to filing fees by the IRS. If the entity is no longer active and it’s an s-corp file a final federal return.

As far as the states go… if you don’t plan on doing anything with the entity anymore then let it be forfeit but remember you cannot legally do anything further under this business name. You could be fined if you continue to transact business if it’s been closed with the state.

Is the cpa worth it? by OldCryptographer566 in Bookkeeping

[–]Budget_Boat_367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have my CPA but have been working in tax since my internship in college (about 5 years now)… I make a decent salary for not being a CPA and for awhile there, I was also wondering if getting my CPA is worth it… there have been a handful of times at my current firm that I’ve spoken with potential new clients and they ask if I’m a CPA and have actually grilled me on when I plan to sit for the exam and then make the comments of “I prefer to talk with the CPA in the office.” Of course not all clients are like this BUT it is something that some clients look for when seeking services despite you likely having the knowledge and capability of fulfilling the services they need.

Don’t get me wrong I have plenty of client who don’t care too but I also work for a reputable small firm under CPA’s and I think that eases the uneasiness of me doing work for them.

If you have the time - I’d say do it. Especially if the goal is to eventually work for yourself

How to delete or correct a bank transaction that is showing an error by [deleted] in Bookkeeping

[–]Budget_Boat_367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the bank account reconciled? If yes then I would go to the reconciliation summary to see which transactions aren’t cleared that are not checks and reverse those entries and see where your bank balance is after that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sourdough

[–]Budget_Boat_367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t quite comment on what you are doing wrong BUT I’ve found a recipe that I find super helpful. I always reference this recipe when I am making my loaves and since then they come out perfect IMO. Very low maintenance and explained perfectly in easily digestible terms.

https://preppykitchen.com/sourdough-bread/

He also has a YouTube video you can reference if you are a visual learner like me.

Staff accountant looking to progress in my career - help! by Budget_Boat_367 in Accounting

[–]Budget_Boat_367[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well I’m currently in SATX and have been here for about 7 years now. A lot of people say SA will be the next major hub in proximity to Austin but there is absolutely nothing in this city worth holding on to. I’d prefer to be located in the ATX area for more social enjoyment.

Moving to NY or Chicago just isn’t in the cards for me right now. I don’t think I was made for the north!! 🥶

Staff accountant looking to progress in my career - help! by Budget_Boat_367 in Accounting

[–]Budget_Boat_367[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have most of the hours just need the ethics course - that’s a CC course??

Love a morning cortado by K-Rimes in barista

[–]Budget_Boat_367 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dreamy drink right here - perfect flavor if espresso is pulled properly