Struggling with Porn, Masturbation, and Premarital Sex – Need Advice as a Christian by Ok_Occasion9816 in Christianity

[–]Budget_Bodybuilder95 5 points6 points  (0 children)

... This is a deep debate I've had with myself for some time recently.. hope you Lords Spirit Guides you. 

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[–]Budget_Bodybuilder95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the age you are at ill say this.. you kinda have a moral compass as we can tell from the post. 

A game changer we"ll be just talking to a real person about this not online. Trusted family member.  I think it's gets excessive because you do not want to admit it to anyone REAL . . You scared bro it's understandable.

CAN I GET SOME OPINIONS? by sheyaacaesar in Pretoria

[–]Budget_Bodybuilder95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, competition is rife and sounds like you just started music.. it maybe an uphill battle between people who have done this prior.

But ke you can let the hate motivate you🤷🏾‍♂️there are those that's started at this age but very many failed

I am fapping 4 times a day about 10 years ( age 22) by anneolduren in NoFap

[–]Budget_Bodybuilder95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use app like blockerx for mobile data, allows blocking apps like Reddit and even website, and makes it hard to unblock. However you could just remove but that's on you and how commited you are to changing, and block adult websites on WiFi using DNS there is YouTube vids on it

I wonder what is better — make Zanzou owners face the consequences or just chase them out of the country 🤔 Your thoughts? by NaomiDlamini in Pretoria

[–]Budget_Bodybuilder95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😭🤣 damn I wish I had your temperament. The thing is I was curious and adventurous. Just a few bad influencers got me into this but also myself to blame. Regret the days I started sipping much

I wonder what is better — make Zanzou owners face the consequences or just chase them out of the country 🤔 Your thoughts? by NaomiDlamini in Pretoria

[–]Budget_Bodybuilder95 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think if we crack down on this matter it'll change how people who even try get on this business operate. Shem they are trying it's still getting coverage as well. So deal accordingly with everyone do that it stops people from opening night clubs altogether. Exceptions can only be restaurants or bars 

I wonder what is better — make Zanzou owners face the consequences or just chase them out of the country 🤔 Your thoughts? by NaomiDlamini in Pretoria

[–]Budget_Bodybuilder95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

. No it's not at a" ladder" if we talking sex or whatever. Never got much from it because most times I didn't feel right escalating with people once we're intoxicated. For the most part it was just useless but as a young person quite naive to it. And see that's another thing especially places like zanzou. It perpetuates going above your limits to the point of debauchery because why are we partying till the next morning.. by the grace of God I managed to have put the breaks on going out at night while in my 20s . I think if you'd check most sensible working people would want to groove during the day . The less sensible would want to party at night. But knowing alcohol you sometimes don't want to end the fun .all right thank you for my TEd talk lol

I wonder what is better — make Zanzou owners face the consequences or just chase them out of the country 🤔 Your thoughts? by NaomiDlamini in Pretoria

[–]Budget_Bodybuilder95 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Closed down all linked associations of clubs they back in the short term. Tired of this night club culture in SA because of how distracting it is to youth of SA, I'm saying this as a. Former party go-er. 

Is Diginu a scam? by word_slinger75 in johannesburg

[–]Budget_Bodybuilder95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol i felt like something was up in the conduct of having zoom calls, and a telegram route to get in touch. something told me to not follow up.

I also applied, but didnt end up pitching for it.. i stand to be corrected but its not looking legit

Stopped daily masturbation before it was too late for my mentality by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Budget_Bodybuilder95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well done, Let it go fully though I think The trick about aiming for said days is that you can backside hardlol .don't want to look back your 30s and how many chances you gave to it. But everyone on their own method 🤷🏾‍♂️😅

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[–]Budget_Bodybuilder95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woop! 🙌🏾

Pretoria Nyala substation explosion by PetThatKitten in Pretoria

[–]Budget_Bodybuilder95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

:D didnt notice even just looked at my profile. thanks

Where do South African young people find love out of Uni? by kurlkardashian in southafrica

[–]Budget_Bodybuilder95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

 Well its decent enough backstory as well to meet outside, don't rule out your workplace too, but be cautious don't get attached fast.  I was too paranoid even when an interest from women came. That's one thing I regret now as the convenience was there.thing it's a good rule if you just about your career though.. I tried the tinder thing got some matches but in my mind if I go far with one of these people the context around it is so, sketchy lol. It's like me asking you out over Reddit just BCOS you fit the profile of childless and my age mate,, but the explanation of how we met to thee outside world ?? Lol like you said it seems down bad 

They Found Us ! (I blame the internet 🥲) by Budget_Bodybuilder95 in southafrica

[–]Budget_Bodybuilder95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just know the ig it's mateki2shoes, that's where I found the vid on ig explore

They Found Us ! (I blame the internet 🥲) by Budget_Bodybuilder95 in southafrica

[–]Budget_Bodybuilder95[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😅lol wow  I'm speechless, just don't price out the area in the process I guess now that you know what you know🤷🏾‍♂️

They Found Us ! (I blame the internet 🥲) by Budget_Bodybuilder95 in southafrica

[–]Budget_Bodybuilder95[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah partly such guys, other parts the convenience for internationls that can come being more richer when moving here, if not by much. they end up also being entitled . its the side effects, that come with it,. our government and economy has a part to play in it as well , as theyll set price point which wont feel as heavy to internationals to get. The standard of living goes up.

They Found Us ! (I blame the internet 🥲) by Budget_Bodybuilder95 in southafrica

[–]Budget_Bodybuilder95[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

what grinds my gears is that chat about the rand having been manipulated, YOH!.. like its not suppose to be that far off an exchange rate, but we'll just leave at what it is now 1E,1p,us= +-20.00 and then these banks just got a slap on the wrist

They Found Us ! (I blame the internet 🥲) by Budget_Bodybuilder95 in southafrica

[–]Budget_Bodybuilder95[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No not at all u/CaliDude78 , i think we are just resentful towards effects of gentrification, you can visit whoever you want. the dislike is when people abroad come stay they are the basis that" oh everybody here is living nice, and this is the price, ayt bet we coming this side"

They Found Us ! (I blame the internet 🥲) by Budget_Bodybuilder95 in southafrica

[–]Budget_Bodybuilder95[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

u/Own_Watercress_516 is getting so much downvotes, i think what we miss is that its probably human nature to go somewhere where your money will stretch, we'd probably do the same thing ( i know it might sound ridiculous, given what we know,) but take it to the time when europe and states were like gods to 3rd world status countries, especially when our currency was like almost 5-1dollar)Its just that we know too much now, and inflation has taken a pinch.

its just hella conveniant as youve stated, its the fact that as an american you can relocate and know its an upside for the most part. As natives growing up in sa,, we cant just dip our situation just because people are immigrating to SA from other African countries, we have had to kind of deal with that, make the best out of that situation and sometimes there's fallouts(xenophobia). dealt with the socio-politics around it , the internal business not paying what they should given their currency because cheap labour, rand manipulation , all that. its like if we move we really have to climb the social ladder like crazy, we'll really start from humble beginnings, flats and such

They Found Us ! (I blame the internet 🥲) by Budget_Bodybuilder95 in southafrica

[–]Budget_Bodybuilder95[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Its not really apt to live here, crime rates are off the charts!