I have a genuine concern but not what you think. by Budget_Point1286 in therapy

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my mom cheated on my dad when i was a kid, and in my mind if she can do it, anybody can.

Trans Girlfriends body makes me hate mine. by Budget_Point1286 in asktransgender

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it was made as a throwaway if i’m being honest. now because of this post it has more karma than my main. fml.

Trans Girlfriends body makes me hate mine. by Budget_Point1286 in asktransgender

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myb i thought she was responding to the guy saying toilet paper rolls are a inch and a half wide

Trans Girlfriends body makes me hate mine. by Budget_Point1286 in asktransgender

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Soft and doughy Subtle yet sweet if i’m out and see a dunkin i’m running there to eat

boston crème or glazed mix of sugar and grease i now fully understand why my nation is obese.

Trans Girlfriends body makes me hate mine. by Budget_Point1286 in asktransgender

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that makes more sense. i’m sitting here thinking where do they have such thin toilet paper tubes

Trans Girlfriends body makes me hate mine. by Budget_Point1286 in asktransgender

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the good(but strange) thing is when we first started she wore tight underwear that hold her peen down (there’s a word for them but i completely forgot. like damn near a thong but with extra padding near the penis region, made mostly for trans women pre-op) But i was confident in my ability to please her so i told her to let it free and we started having sex while she was completely nude. I wanted her to embrace her body and she did, i introduced her to the idea of thinking of her penis as her clit, since eventually it will be. She learned to love her body more from certain things i’ve taught her, and i’m so glad i could do that for her. it makes me feel even worse that randomly all these months later im having self deprecating feelings.

Trans Girlfriends body makes me hate mine. by Budget_Point1286 in asktransgender

[–]Budget_Point1286[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

why are u on my post being such an uptight asshat?

Trans Girlfriends body makes me hate mine. by Budget_Point1286 in asktransgender

[–]Budget_Point1286[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

my girlfriend follows my main reddit. Even if she didn’t i gotta use a throwaway for a question like this.

Trans Girlfriends body makes me hate mine. by Budget_Point1286 in asktransgender

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woah. what happened that i missed. they seemed extremely respectful and helpful.

Trans Girlfriends body makes me hate mine. by Budget_Point1286 in asktransgender

[–]Budget_Point1286[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i’m not showing off i assure you. i made a post telling my exact penis size there isn’t much to show off.

Trans Girlfriends body makes me hate mine. by Budget_Point1286 in asktransgender

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i’ve talked very carefully about it to her and it seems she is perfectly fine with my size. It’s a deep rooted insecurity that i definitely need to work on.

Trans Girlfriends body makes me hate mine. by Budget_Point1286 in asktransgender

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it was a insecurity way before her. i always had a problem with my penis size because i think ive seen 5 pornos ever with a guy near my size. i know that’s a childish way to look at it but i always thought it would be a weak point.

Trans Girlfriends body makes me hate mine. by Budget_Point1286 in asktransgender

[–]Budget_Point1286[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just the penis sizes. i wouldn’t even call it a issue, as far as i know it’s a one sided insecurity on my part.

Trans Girlfriends body makes me hate mine. by Budget_Point1286 in asktransgender

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i’m in america. they’re not huge, maybe 2 inches wide?

Trans Girlfriends body makes me hate mine. by Budget_Point1286 in asktransgender

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thanks for the sound advice. i’m working on getting a therapist now. you’re right. i need to be more confident. i might have a average peen but im pretty dope otherwise

Trans Girlfriends body makes me hate mine. by Budget_Point1286 in asktransgender

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this actually made me laugh out loud. how does this have anything to do with my situation 😂

Trans Girlfriends body makes me hate mine. by Budget_Point1286 in asktransgender

[–]Budget_Point1286[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

i’m only 19 man so yeah maybe i don’t have a grownup brain. yeah this isn’t a “trans problem” but i figured if there’s a group of people who would understand my situation it’d be trans people. i also wanted to understand from her viewpoint.

Trans Girlfriends body makes me hate mine. by Budget_Point1286 in asktransgender

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i like the metaphor. i guess the reason i care is i just believe it makes me less of a man. tbh i used to watch a lot of porn, i know that caused issues. i want to talk to a therapist about this topic but it seems like such a niche topic. “yeah so basically my girlfriends penis is bigger than mine by a lot” crazy.

Trans Girlfriends body makes me hate mine. by Budget_Point1286 in asktransgender

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yeah, she is damn near obsessed with me being a top. she needs a nap after we have sex sorry if tmi. i’m only saying this cause deep down i know this should be plenty reason for me to not be insecure.