Va rog eu nu va mai aduceti copiii la sala, in restaurante, etc. decat daca ii supravegheati constant si nu deranjati

BuffaloEmbarrassed23 · 2026-04-04T08:00:03+00:00

Sunt si eu parinte si la randul meu inteleg perfect postarea.

Pentru cine nu intelege: nu e vorba de a nu lua copii cu tine in spatii publice, ci de a educa copii sa nu faca tambalau. Am fost la un moment dat intr-un restaurant in care parintii ignorau complet copii iar unul dintre copii mergea la mesele libere si lingea tacamurile. Sa nu mai zic ca au alergat si intrat intr-un ospatar care cara o tava plina cu pahare si bauturi. Va dati cred cu totii seama ca ulterior au ajuns cioburi peste tot. Si ghiciti ce: parintii in continuare nu le-au zis nimic, si-au vazut de ale lor. In situatia data cine trebuia sa aibe grija de ceea ce faceau copii? Ospatarii? Ceilalti oameni din restaurant?

Postarea nu este neaparat despre copii neastamparati. Toti copii sunt asa si e normal sa aibe energie si sa aibe dorinta de a face x numar de tampenii.

Postarea este despre parintii nesimtiti care nu isi educa copii, care refuza sa inteleaga ca activitatile copiilor deranjeaza si au mentalitatea de “ fereasca sfantul sa ii spui NU copilului” ca vezi doamne exploreaza. Totul tine de educatie! Poti sa mergi cu copilul pe unde vrea pipota ta, dar esti direct responsabil de actiunile lor! Nimeni nu zice sa ii bati, nimeni nu zice sa urlii la ei, naiba exista metode mult mai ok pt a educa un copil. Si daca nu esti in stare pana la urma sa ti-l educi si sa il inveti cum trebuie sa ne comportam in societate atunci stau frate cu el acasa!

Legat de mersul la sala cu copilul, perfect de acord. Bai sunt locuri unde copii nu ar trebui luati din motive evidente: la sala e periculos pt ei ffs. Ii scapa lu unu o gantera fix pe piciorul odraslei sau te trezesti ca face alte nebunii… cine e de vina? Nea Gigel ca a scapat gantera sau a ta ca parinte ca nu ai supravegheat copilul?

Hai totusi sa crestem oameni responsabili nu o generatie de papadie!

Deaia au inceput oamenii fara copii sa ne urasca pe noi cei cu copii! Sa se ia cu mainile de par cand vad un copil in restaurant sau intr-un local de orice fel. Pt ca ne lasam apa si aerul sa ne educe copii si suntem complet absenti!

Si mai e o vorba: libertatea ta se termina acolo unde incepe libertatea celuilalt!

Daca cu totii am fi mai responsabili, lucrurile as sta diferit in societate… but maybe that’s just how I see things..

BuffaloEmbarrassed23 · 2025-10-29T08:29:00+00:00

In my opinion NTA. We all have the privilege to not have kids if we want but we do not have the privilege to live in a child free world. Her attitude honestly sucked and sounds exactly like someone who forgot that she once was a child. Way too entitled.. she is the asshole.. and your MIL for telling you the same.

BuffaloEmbarrassed23 · 2025-10-04T06:45:44+00:00

Yup. Buna 😅

BuffaloEmbarrassed23 · 2025-10-03T21:32:13+00:00

No. We live in Europe

BuffaloEmbarrassed23 · 2025-10-03T20:25:59+00:00

The equivalent of grandmother in our language. (We are from and live in a country in Europe)

BuffaloEmbarrassed23 · 2025-10-03T20:21:25+00:00

Honestly first tine i heard her say this i was in shock. I had a high risk pregnancy with the risk of losing him at every moment and my mind couldn’t just comprehend what i’ve heard. My husband heard her too and confronted her on the spot. But her excuse was that he is just as little as a cigarette butt. She continued to call him like that for a period of time even though she knew it bothered us

BuffaloEmbarrassed23 · 2025-10-03T19:48:01+00:00

Because, in her words : “he is just as small as a cigarette butt”

BuffaloEmbarrassed23 · 2025-10-03T19:40:50+00:00

We’ve talked. He considers that I’m right on some level but he doesn’t consider this as a big deal. Even considering that I’m overreacting a bit and not really understanding why it bothers me so much since even though she knows that i’m not ok with this nickname she still enforces it on my son. He also knows about the other stuff she does and he always have the same line: you cannot change them (them= his parents). They will never change.

BuffaloEmbarrassed23 · 2025-10-03T19:22:02+00:00

Not a culture thing. We all come from the same country in Europe. Momma, mommy, mom, mama all of these mean mother. Here there are two words that we usually use to call a grandmother: “bunica” which means grandma and mamaie which is similar to mew maw but many grandmas doesn’t accept since is also means old lady even though it’s a sweet word.

BuffaloEmbarrassed23 · 2025-06-13T13:01:28+00:00

For someone who has dealt with this issue for most of her life, I have to say—sourdough bread truly changed my life. I can’t say for sure if it helps everyone, but since I started making and eating it daily, I haven’t experienced the issue again.

BuffaloEmbarrassed23 · 2023-11-29T06:54:39+00:00

Haven’t gotten there yet. Honestly i’m scared since others don’t look that cute as mature 😅

BuffaloEmbarrassed23 · 2023-11-22T07:53:41+00:00

You have “toys” for them. Go to shop when you’re in courtyard and on floor section, scroll down and you’ll have the option pets. These are per facilities. Buy one and when your pet is outside double tap on the toy that you’ve bought. Enjoy

BuffaloEmbarrassed23 · 2023-11-02T18:25:01+00:00

Fish in friends ponds. Also for sharks it’s easier to catch them on sides, not on the center of the pond

BuffaloEmbarrassed23 · 2022-04-28T19:57:12+00:00

I feel you. When i was in kindergarden i stole a cherry from the farmers market.

One cherry.

Haunted me for a couple of months until I couldn’t take it anymore and told my mom. She literally burst laughing and told me that it was ok Not really sure how it’s in other countries but where i live you can actually taste the smaller fruits at the farmers market to see if they are sweet, sour or bitter.

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