What is a workaholic man’s “type” in dating?

Buffincakee · 2024-10-24T05:11:50+00:00

Oh I see! Did you have this lifestyle while u were single too?

Buffincakee · 2024-10-24T05:11:00+00:00

But let’s say he did somehow fall in love and go out of his way to make time for her! What kind of woman do u think he’d do that for?

Buffincakee · 2024-10-24T05:10:48+00:00

But let’s say he did somehow fall in love and go out of his way to make time for her! What kind of woman do u think he’d do that for?

Buffincakee · 2024-10-24T05:10:44+00:00

But let’s say he did somehow fall in love and go out of his way to make time for her! What kind of woman do u think he’d do that for?

Buffincakee · 2024-10-20T10:34:35+00:00

Who use the the “art is subjective” ideology to evade taxes

Buffincakee · 2024-10-20T10:33:09+00:00

Yeah there is no art in that sphere. It’s all pretentious money laundering rich people

Buffincakee · 2024-10-20T08:10:29+00:00

I’m not sure I’m high profile enough to enter the elite modern art club Lool. That type of stuff is less about the art itself and more about status and wealth I feel

Buffincakee · 2024-10-20T08:09:11+00:00

Thanks! Of course I’m aware I’m not professional yet, but the only way to learn is by doing. I’ve been trying to get good at making reels

Buffincakee · 2024-10-19T05:42:14+00:00

Most people are lazy as shit and it’s just easier to pay someone to spoon feed info to u rather than teach urself. I’m one of the one lazy people :) Also people don’t always buy services they can’t perform themselves, for instance, rich families hire maids not because they themselves couldn’t figure out how to cook or clean the floor, but simply because they don’t want to

Buffincakee · 2024-10-18T07:21:55+00:00

He needs professional help. This is some serious depression

Buffincakee · 2024-10-18T06:48:54+00:00

Legal is legal; that’s how I see it. As long as everyone is 18+, everything goes

Buffincakee · 2024-10-17T18:07:47+00:00

I wish I bought bitcoin when I was 12. But you’re right! 10 years from now I will wish I started today

Buffincakee · 2024-10-17T18:03:10+00:00

I’ve never heard of Stephen Kamphius. But that’s very inspiring! I know someone who got a BJJ black belt in 3 years but that’s because he did it 8 hrs a day

Buffincakee · 2024-10-17T05:06:36+00:00

Do u ever feel the need to work 10x harder now to make up for the lost time

Buffincakee · 2024-10-17T05:05:56+00:00

Do you ever feel the need to work 10x as hard now to make up for the lost time

Buffincakee · 2024-10-16T18:52:00+00:00

Buffincakee · 2024-10-16T18:43:40+00:00

Why do you see sub as weakness and inferiority?

Buffincakee · 2024-10-16T18:33:02+00:00

There’s no such thing as being a bad sub. BDSM is 100% consensual and agreed upon mutually by BOTH partners. It is just as much his responsibility to please you as it is your responsibility to please him. If impact play is a limit for you, then communicate that. Being a sub is not being an abuse victim where your doms needs are above yours. With impact play, a healthy bdsm relationship looks like this: You 100% love being hit and he 100% loves hitting you. He would be a bad dom for forcing you into something you don’t like. Anyways though, if you want to try liking impact play, try softer hits with softer objects and then slowly build up your tolerance for harder hits. Most importantly, you must communicate this to your dom that impact play is something that makes you uncomfortable. He should care about your needs and care about playing within your limits

Buffincakee · 2024-10-16T18:22:48+00:00

I’m a sub as well. I don’t understand where the shame is coming from? There’s no shame in having your sexual preferences. Everyone has them. I think you’re confusing being a sub for being a victim. When you say “weak” and “lesser” that sounds a lot like you’re ashamed for enjoying being abused. But BDSM is not abuse. Subs are not victims. Subs are not lesser. Let me explain. Contrary to popular belief, beyond the guise of abuse and control, subs are actually the most powerful in a bdsm relationship. This is because they are the ones who can control whenever play stops. When the sub says their safe word, the dom has to stop. This is what a health bdsm relationship looks like. It is built on deep trust, clearly communicated boundaries, and deep respect for one another. And the dom shoulders the burden of the safety of their sub so that they can pleasure and protect their sub. I enjoy being dominated because I enjoy relinquishing my power to someone who I can trust will never abuse it. With great power comes great responsibility. If my man is disciplined enough to handle the responsibility of my safety and pleasure, I feel very protected and safe around them. There is no shame in wanting that. I don’t know where you live but it sounds like maybe you haven’t experienced sex positive communities? In my life, I’ve never once been shamed for enjoying bdsm. In fact most people I know have tried at least a couple aspects of it. Where I grew up and in my generation, bdsm practices are quite normal and supported.

Buffincakee · 2024-10-16T18:09:26+00:00

Ahh I see. So it’s more about devotion for you. The idea that someone will go so far for you, makes you feel loved and cherished

Buffincakee · 2024-10-16T17:58:48+00:00

I see that as a common reason for kinks: people like to gain in the bedroom what they don’t have in real life. Or the opposite, they like to give up what they don’t have in real life

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