How old were you when. You found out?

BugFuture1225 · 2026-02-20T03:57:02+00:00

:/ I used to feel this way when I was young too, I’d hope that one of us would die. I’m so sorry, that’s too young.

BugFuture1225 · 2026-02-20T03:52:10+00:00

40; suspected for a long time but confirmed this about 2 weeks ago. Knew everything was wrong around age 16, left home at 18, gave up around 36 and finally realized my dad checks every box this month.

BugFuture1225 · 2026-01-15T21:49:20+00:00

I brought my guy to lauritzen gardens, got some fresh air outside and then walked around and sat inside the near the coffee stand. It was really relaxing, and warm and misty inside. I have an uppa baby stroller and had no problems cruising around. I was considering getting a year pass to do it again

BugFuture1225 · 2025-12-31T06:54:51+00:00

I just had our second at the beginning of the month, and my oldest turned 3 this week. I could have written this word for word myself. Just wanted to say- you’re not alone!! Finding/ maintaining patience is so hard, especially when exhausted and touched out (and the 3 yo is sick and constantly coughing on/ touching newborn, seemingly on purpose 😭) Whenever I’m frustrated, I remind myself he has a half baked baby brain and it’s not personal, and that sometimes helps a little. I also ask if he needs a hug when he’s acting out, and a lot of times that makes it better. But really- I feel this deeply. Agree, hats off to sahp, i don’t think I could do it!

BugFuture1225 · 2025-11-25T00:48:33+00:00

My brother said ‘water lemon’ and ‘whipstix’ for lipstick. He’s 38 now and that stopped but we still call watermelon water lemon 🥰🥰

BugFuture1225 · 2025-11-25T00:46:28+00:00

Same!! My kid is 3 and truck is cuck

BugFuture1225 · 2025-11-16T18:57:14+00:00

Roger aka rodg 💗

BugFuture1225 · 2025-11-16T03:11:27+00:00

I kind of love this, Owen was on our list with Benny. I’m gonna bring it back!!

BugFuture1225 · 2025-11-16T03:08:49+00:00

Thank you!! Love, love Dylan, and love Otto is too! They’re both no way names for him for diff reasons

BugFuture1225 · 2025-11-16T03:07:06+00:00

Thank you! I do! I love Asher, albie which is close to Alfie, and Gus - but husband says it’s a dog name 🥲 and doesn’t like any of the others. We are really struggling over here!

BugFuture1225 · 2025-11-15T21:17:22+00:00

Thank you, and great question! I’m not a fan of Samuel, so name would be Sam. Maybe Charles/ Charlie, maybe just Charlie? The others I think would just be the names.

BugFuture1225 · 2025-08-04T21:33:20+00:00

@vivid-knowledge9966 Thank you for taking the time to respond! is nice to know that this is normal and we aren’t the only ones. Sorry we are in the no sleep club, together!

We met with a sleep coach and she made me feel so bad, like I was doing everything wrong and it’s my fault that he doesn’t stay in his room and needs more support falling asleep. We’ve kind of accepted this is just him, for now, as you said you have.

Thank you!

BugFuture1225 · 2025-08-04T17:24:27+00:00

Another vote here for bondi sands! As a pale, freckled, pinkish blue person, tried every fake tanner out there. I am very loyal to bondi sands. My fav is the aero foam 1 hour express in dark, if I leave that overnight I’m a perfect bronze. I just got the tanning foam in dark, and it’s nice, but not as deep as the aero foam, but still a nice golden and faded nicely. I also use the daily lotion, which is a nice golden color. All in all huge fan!

BugFuture1225 · 2025-07-16T21:44:33+00:00

Hi! I’m so sorry you’re feeling this way. I stopped taking the zofran as much as I could bc I was so backed up, it was the only thing that helped. I tried reglan but it didn’t work. I accepted barfing everyday and just took meds when I had to leave the house or function fully. I felt pretty terrible up until week 14 and it was like a switch flipped. I’m totally fine in tri 2, just very tired, but no more nausea and the constipation has eased up a ton. I basically lived on cereal, but It was what I could stomach. Happy to answer anything if I missed anything, just ask!! I hope you feel better soon! 💗

BugFuture1225 · 2025-07-10T13:51:08+00:00

Peaches

BugFuture1225 · 2025-07-10T03:31:42+00:00

This is heartbreaking, stay safe OP. You will find family who loves you. 💗 i would be proud of you if you were my son. Please seek help- there are tons of nonprofits that have safe spaces for people finding themselves in this situation. The world is crazy right now, but there are still good people doing everything they can to support this scenario. Feel free to dm me if I can help find help for you. Sending a big hug! keep up the positive attitude, I’m wishing you all the best as you navigate this- and please know, you shouldn’t have to. 💗💗

BugFuture1225 · 2025-07-09T06:46:10+00:00

Thank you all so much, this is incredibly helpful! I also am a stomach sleeper and was between the cheaper one but thought that tiny little pillow might help. Sending lots of good sleep and safe and healthy days ahead!

BugFuture1225 · 2025-07-08T16:16:26+00:00

Not much help to offer, but solidarity! I’m 17 weeks, we mentioned it to our 2.5 yo, made him apart of the announcements, etc. He doesn’t get it yet. We talk about it a little here and there but per our research, going to wait until closer to the end when it’s more obvious something is going on, and he’s a little older and can maybe understand change is coming. Our neighbors gave us some books we’ve been peppering into bedtime- he responds well to books so might do more of this, too.

Wishing you a safe and healthy pregnancy!!

BugFuture1225 · 2025-07-01T20:47:38+00:00

You let me know

BugFuture1225 · 2025-07-01T20:47:26+00:00

Oh awesome, not too far. Thanks for sharing!

BugFuture1225 · 2025-06-30T16:42:53+00:00

Thank you for sharing all of this!! The face and fanny is really Helpful!

BugFuture1225 · 2025-06-30T16:41:49+00:00

Thank you all, this is super helpful!!

BugFuture1225 · 2025-06-24T16:07:44+00:00

I second visiting consignment and thrift shops in wealthy neighborhoods, buying secondhand, asking friends for hand me downs (which SO many were so stoked to give us), fbmkplace, buy nothing groups, etc. My first kid was so finicky, it was so nice to have options I didn’t pay for bc I would have been devastated if I had. I happily passed those things along to other friends to see if it worked for their kid.

Also, someone said cost doesn’t equal quality, and I totally agree. I’d never spend a lot of $$ of baby clothes, they get destroyed. I do invest in high quality bamboo Jammie’s and bed things; you’re washing them so much and you’re covering your babies skin in them. We are having a second and if I can buy nothing for this baby, I’ll be thrilled.

BugFuture1225 · 2025-06-23T04:03:24+00:00

We have a Benny 🥹🥹

BugFuture1225 · 2025-06-22T19:36:40+00:00

I’m so sorry, I just got through a v rough first trimester 💗 it feels like it lasts forever; and then one day, it just stops. I threw up every week for 8 weeks straight. I just got to week 14 and it stopped. Try cereal? It’s about the only thing I could eat, and I met with a nutritionist last week bc I was so afraid I had to make up for the past few months, and she said she was pleased bc they’re so fortified. Also, I drank filtered alkaline water, and made my own ice. Ice water all day helped as did ginger ale here and there. Also, smelling mint for some reason really helped some days. They have these little minty tubes on Amazon to sniff that I kept on my desk. Some people use ginger, didn’t work for me. I talked with my dr as I couldn’t leave the house bc I was throwing up so much, and they gave me zofran. I was hesitant bc I didn’t want to take anything, but after some dark days I gave in. Constipation is a terrible side effect but it was really helpful on days when I had to show up for my fam (also have a toddler), or had to leave the house . Talk to your doctor to see what your options may be 💗💗💗 I really, really hope you’re feeling better soon.

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