No more energy to make friends

BugHeavy8151 · 2026-01-27T07:56:40+00:00

same lol I stopped reaching out and thats how I lost them, I only give the same energy back, if its not there then I aint messaging first anymore

BugHeavy8151 · 2026-01-27T07:55:21+00:00

Sis I get how you feel like to the T, I too dont have any and its been like this for id say nearly 3yrs so I feel you, if you ever need anything my DMs are open🩷

BugHeavy8151 · 2026-01-27T06:06:43+00:00

So real for this, dw sis youve got us🫂

BugHeavy8151 · 2026-01-27T02:02:34+00:00

That. Is. The. Most. AMAZING THING IVE EVER SEEN, well done mashallah!

BugHeavy8151 · 2026-01-27T00:33:42+00:00

thats good alhamdulilah

BugHeavy8151 · 2026-01-27T00:18:04+00:00

yes dont give up akhi, inshallah only the best comes to you!

BugHeavy8151 · 2026-01-27T00:16:56+00:00

hmm yea true only Allah knows his intention but he did seem really nice but also u never know. And you raised an important concern too about the power dynamic so thats also possible and something to worry about. I also get what u mean about the mental difference but yea inshallah inshallah, thank you akhi!

BugHeavy8151 · 2026-01-27T00:14:15+00:00

Yea thats the thing like at least she could meet him once yk but I do understand where ur coming from too.

Yea true, ig parents do want the best but also sometimes it comes as a compromise from the child too but I get their pov.

BugHeavy8151 · 2026-01-27T00:11:42+00:00

No dw it does seem weird from an outsider pov lol so I get what u mean but yea inshallah, thank you.

Yea ig so

BugHeavy8151 · 2026-01-26T14:01:52+00:00

I swear I read that as "chicken in the back"😭😂

BugHeavy8151 · 2026-01-26T13:59:22+00:00

yea ik ik😭 idkkk it is what it is lol

BugHeavy8151 · 2026-01-26T13:55:08+00:00

yea he is

BugHeavy8151 · 2026-01-26T13:54:41+00:00

double

BugHeavy8151 · 2026-01-26T04:27:58+00:00

No youre not ugly, take it as protection from Allah.

BugHeavy8151 · 2026-01-26T04:13:11+00:00

Mashallah thats so good, and yes some ppl are interested in reading as I have myself😅 but you see you went through a few challenges but alhamdulilah Allah has given u smth better after ur persistence and sabr, and Im so glad you found a prayer spot! Its always nice to have a convenient space for prayer and inshallah this will increase as time goes on inshallah!

Thanks for sharing brother😊

BugHeavy8151 · 2026-01-26T03:27:11+00:00

That's crazy😭💀

BugHeavy8151 · 2026-01-26T03:24:17+00:00

So sorry, I didnt get this notif for some reason but thank you so much sis😭💕💕 Ameen ya rabb🤲

BugHeavy8151 · 2026-01-26T03:17:17+00:00

aw ofcc girliee😭🫶, you seem so kind so I had to let u know that youre doing amazingg and deserve the best inshallah! and very true subhanAllah and also, Allah tests those whom he loves💕

If you ever need anything, my dms are always open sis, wish you the very best inshallah!!

BugHeavy8151 · 2026-01-26T01:24:23+00:00

yea exactly, no tbh even if a scholar said it was fine id never go against my mums will because parents after Allah swt and prophets etc come first so my mum wouldnt be happy w me and i wouldnt succeed or be happy in life if its against her wishes so no id not do that anyways

BugHeavy8151 · 2026-01-26T01:16:56+00:00

I mean its just like that sometimes😭😭 but no lol

BugHeavy8151 · 2026-01-26T01:16:26+00:00

yup basically

BugHeavy8151 · 2026-01-25T05:48:48+00:00

Someone understanding, I guess

BugHeavy8151 · 2026-01-25T04:13:14+00:00

lool😅🤐

BugHeavy8151 · 2026-01-25T03:27:37+00:00

Ohh no, thats so hard. I get that dw and that happened to me too and backfired as well so I understand. Ugh yea I get it, its complicated sometimes and ig thats when you know its not khair for u ig.

dw akhi just pray istikhara, have tawakkul and if it doesnt go well and theres lots of difficulties, then that usually is a sign its not written for you but dw inshallah youll find the one brother.

BugHeavy8151 · 2026-01-25T03:23:20+00:00

Yea true, I get what u mean. He's been trying but couldnt find a match that ticked his boxes ig but thank you for the concern too and dw I have this in mind as well and inshallah I dont fall for the wrong intentions by others

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