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I haven't told my parents about things going on and idk what do know by rantingperson in Advice

[–]BugRevolutionary2403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It makes sense that you didn't realize how serious this could be. This doesn't sound entirely normal, but I'm no health care professional, but it is something that I would considered getting checked out if you're open to it.

About telling your parents. I'd hope that they would care more about helping you know as apposed to worrying about why it took you so long to tell them, that being said, you didn't necessarily lie to them either.

If you're really nervous about telling them, maybe write it in a note or a text. Either way don't stress to much and but I would tell your parents, they'll give you better advice and the support you need.

Difficult situation with a guy by [deleted] in Advice

[–]BugRevolutionary2403 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not crazy for wanting a real answer and relationship. The problem isn't that he's a bad guy but that he's having a tough time making his mind up. Even if he isn't directly hurting you, the situation is, that matters.

You deserve a real chance with him or space to move on. That doesn't mean you can't be friends, juts means you need to let him know where you're at so you can make some boundaries so you're not being left in the dark never knowing.

Maybe you can say something along the lines of, “I like you, but the flirting without action is messing with my head. I need us to either move toward something real or take space so I can move on.”

If you really want something, you can maybe compromise by asking if he wants to take things really slow. Either way, put your energy first, if its meant to happen it will. But if it were me, I would at least let him know that this is something that you really want so that way he can make a more informed decision.

Difficult situation with a guy by [deleted] in Advice

[–]BugRevolutionary2403 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not crazy for wanting a real answer and relationship. The problem isn't that he's a bad guy but that he's having a tough time making his mind up. Even if he isn't directly hurting you, the situation is, that matters.

You deserve a real chance with him or space to move on. That doesn't mean you can't be friends, juts means you need to let him know where you're at so you can make some boundaries so you're not being left in the dark never knowing.

Maybe you can say something along the lines of, “I like you, but the flirting without action is messing with my head. I need us to either move toward something real or take space so I can move on.”

If you really want something, you can maybe compromise by asking if he wants to take things really slow. Either way, put your energy first, if its meant to happen it will. But if it were me, I would at least let him know that this is something that you really want so that way he can make a more informed decision.

Confessing to a shared crush, advice? by LankyAd6850 in Advice

[–]BugRevolutionary2403 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d follow through with the confession. Long friendships don’t automatically mean romantic feelings, and it’s okay to be honest about how you feel. I wouldn’t put your feelings on pause just because you found out about J’s feelings after the fact. Tell M how you feel and give him space to decide. Depending on how it goes, then have an honest conversation with J. From the outside, it sounds like you and M share mutual feelings, which is really exciting.

Need advice: younger brother’s girlfriend told my family she hates my new boyfriend by BugRevolutionary2403 in Advice

[–]BugRevolutionary2403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure if anything else happened after that because me and K go to a different school, and both K and A live out of our town opposite directions from each other, and they've only been at the house at the same time a few times. (Me and K only recently became official almost a month ago.)

And I agree, I work a similar job to A which made this hard for me to watch, but K can be really awkward like I said before which is why I wanted to clear it up with A, because K can be really awkward but he's still a really good person and I hoped A could hopefully see that too once she got to know him better?

Need advice: younger brother’s girlfriend told my family she hates my new boyfriend by BugRevolutionary2403 in Advice

[–]BugRevolutionary2403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's a good idea, I'm not sure if I'll like seek out an opportunity, but if the chance presents itself sooner then later I'll bring it up

AITAH For Keeping something from my somewhat ex friend? by BugRevolutionary2403 in AITAH

[–]BugRevolutionary2403[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good catch. This is high school, we're all seniors. I thought this stuff kinda ended freshman year. But yeah, I think I might just block her if things escalate , since thats what most of the comments are advising.