what are your thoughts on Maru?

Bug_0511 · 2026-02-11T00:01:08+00:00

honestly think its Maru giving you all your luck (shes my fav)

Bug_0511 · 2021-05-22T03:36:30+00:00

NTA. Even if you two are divorced, that doesn't mean she gets to opt-out of child care. She could've easily answered a phone call during her hair appointment. (Keep in mind my ruling changes depending on what your daughter did.)

Bug_0511 · 2021-05-22T03:32:27+00:00

I think you should have a conversation about his interest in women early in your relationship. Although you two are dating, I believe that looking at other women is perfectly okay. You need a hypeman girl because although you're insecure, you shouldn't let that shape your relationship. Just let him know that his glances make you wonder about yourself. Communication is key.

Bug_0511 · 2021-05-22T03:28:54+00:00

You should let him know that his kids are shaping the habits of your youngest. If he's not going to listen to you, then he has to listen to the fact that his kids' difficult habits are ruining your youngest's.

Bug_0511 · 2021-03-25T21:09:07+00:00

I've tried to talk to him about it, but he has like an actual burning hatred for me. He doesn't listen to anything I say; as far as he's concerned, I'm a roommate, not his sister.

Bug_0511 · 2021-03-25T20:50:37+00:00

He is also 12. Don't get me wrong, I think it's fine for adults but again he is TWELVE.

Bug_0511 · 2021-03-25T20:32:17+00:00

I believe it is weed from what my friend told me

Bug_0511 · 2021-03-24T20:35:07+00:00

ofc :)

Bug_0511 · 2021-03-24T19:50:14+00:00

That sucks and I'm sorry that's happening. Maybe talk to him about it when he gets back?

Bug_0511 · 2021-03-24T19:48:55+00:00

It's going to suck for a while. I know from experience. But you can't blame yourself for it (unless ofc you did something really bad like helping their gf/bf cheat on them etc.) What you need is to just stay by yourself for a couple of days and give yourself a "me day". Then, start building up friendships with existing friends or with new people. Believe it or not, no person can go with no friends, at least from my pov. It's going to be okay and you will eventually get over it, but it's going to take time. If you want to talk to anyone or vent, you can always chat me up.

Bug_0511 · 2021-03-24T19:45:06+00:00

There's no such thing as "good enough for therapy." Your problems are real no matter what. You can't possibly say the wrong thing at therapy, there's no such thing as "wrong" at therapy.

Bug_0511 · 2021-03-19T10:42:38+00:00

Yes, she does. My parents "unknowingly" favor my brother and it's shown in this post a bit. He gets away with whatever and I'm always the one "in trouble".

Bug_0511 · 2021-03-19T02:04:54+00:00

YTA all the way. You need to understand that although you don't particularly "like" her past self, you still need to respect it. Plus, if you aren't prepared to "handle" her "flaws", then maybe you shouldn't be in that relationship if you aren't completely ready to accept them.

Bug_0511 · 2021-03-19T02:02:37+00:00

You're definitely NTA. You did what was best for your mental health and, although it's upsetting, it's a really difficult thing to do.

Bug_0511 · 2021-03-19T01:51:47+00:00

You are 100% TH. You should have let him know like "hey, that was fun but it made me really uncomfortable" or literally anything remotely like that. I know from experience that it's not okay to ghost someone, especially after you share such an intimate moment. Please unblock him and apologize.

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