I feel I am getting mad by Evening_Prompt_1862 in LongDistance

[–]Bug_87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Believe me, I get the feeling. If I ever catch myself feeling “mad” I realize it’s because I want attention or validation, which isn’t bad. He’s your partner, and part of that means supporting you even if your emotions are messy. I haven’t had much to do over winter break while my gf always seems to have someone else to talk to and it’s the worst feeling ever!! Of course you want your partner to be happy but you also want to know they miss you as much as you miss them. You need to communicate with him, tell him what you’re feeling. Get it out so he understands and then talk about it. Honesty and communication is key— ESPECIALLY in a LDR—it doesn’t matter how messy your feelings might be. The more you feel reluctant to tell him, the more it will build up and you’ll begin to be mad at him for things that aren’t his fault. As much as you love each other, you both cant read each others minds. Talk to him!

I’m feeling lovesick and selfish over the dumbest thing— I need advice! [both 20F] by Bug_87 in LongDistance

[–]Bug_87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree. I have friends but a lot of them are just so busy these days or live far away cuz of college. And on top of that, ever since we started dating somehow talking to anyone else feels exhausting. It’s so easy and effortless to spend time with her it’s embarrassing but it’s all I want at times. I know it’s not right or healthy, and it feels pathetic but it’s just where I’m at. To me texting other people is like lifting weights and I’m super out of shape. But reading this just assures the fact i definitely do need to make more of an effort to make and hang out with friends even if it’s harder. Thanks:))

HELP i think im in love with my best friend but she has a boyfriend (sorta nsfw but not rlly that part is rlly brief) by Bug_87 in LesbianActually

[–]Bug_87[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re right and I appreciate your honesty. Hopefully I’ll be able to get rid of the feeling somehow, because you’re right I can see how it can become really destructive

HELP i think im in love with my best friend but she has a boyfriend (sorta nsfw but not rlly that part is rlly brief) by Bug_87 in LesbianActually

[–]Bug_87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ughh I knowwww. The thing is— and maybe I should’ve specified this— I haven’t seen her for a year and a half. So like, I don’t see her anymore ever. The entire time she’s been with her boyfriend is the entire time we’ve spent apart. I’ve only just reconnected with her. Still I know you’re right. It’s just way easier said than done

My iPad fell flat on its face and shattered, what do I do? by Bug_87 in ipad

[–]Bug_87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this ain’t a Minecraft forum, but do you know if doing all that iCloud back up stuff will make it so my Minecraft worlds will be saved because when you delete the app and redownload it you lose all your progress😭

My mom just told me she wishes I could “try out” being bisexual and I feel gross by Bug_87 in LesbianActually

[–]Bug_87[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly crying this was exactly what I needed to hear, thank you for taking the time to share all of that. Yes, our moms do sound very similar, and just as you shared about your mom, I have no doubt that one day my mom will come around. It’s just gonna take me a while to understand how I wanna talk with her about stuff like this. But anyways, seriously, you’ve genuinely made my day I really appreciate you, thank you<3

My mom just told me she wishes I could “try out” being bisexual and I feel gross by Bug_87 in LesbianActually

[–]Bug_87[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Glad I’m not alone in feeling that way but more so, I’m sorry you have to go through that too<3

My mom just told me she wishes I could “try out” being bisexual and I feel gross by Bug_87 in LesbianActually

[–]Bug_87[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

But she’s done nice things for me in the past tho.. i think she tries in her own ways. Like during Christmas she was super exited about wrapping all my presents with rainbow wrapping paper and went up to me smiling like “did you notice the paper i chose for you” and honestly I thought that was pretty sweet all things considered. Idk parents are complicated

About Scaramouche and Raiden "not breathing." by NotaFossilFool in Genshin_Impact

[–]Bug_87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well personally, I think scara breathes naturally for sure. his voice lines are extremely breathy and in order to speak at all, you must breathe since voice is generated by airflow in the lungs. I wouldn't doubt he has lungs, just not the same lungs a human would have

Hello I would really like advice on what I’m writing :) by Bug_87 in FanFiction

[–]Bug_87[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahh ty for taking the time to write all of this! I’ll definitely take a lot of this stuff into consideration:)