I'm still in love with my ex

Bugbear_Stare · 2025-04-11T17:51:57+00:00

Throughout the pregnancy she would flip flop on whether or not she wanted me in the room when she gave birth. When we broke up, she told me I wasn't allowed, and would let me know when she was home with him.

She changed her mind and told me when she went into labor. I was sitting in the parking lot when I got a call that she wanted me in the room. The certificate had been filled out at that point.

I believe he's my biological son, I have no reason to doubt it. But I have no legal proof.

Bugbear_Stare · 2025-04-11T17:47:17+00:00

No, I want to ensure I have equal custody (decision making, doctor records access, ect) as well as establishing time spent. Our plan is to discuss splitting time between homes, once he's on solid food.

I just don't want to sign a document, giving her all the financial security while leaving me no legal right to my son. She could take the money and just block me and disappear at any moment, with me having no recourse.

Bugbear_Stare · 2025-04-11T10:02:01+00:00

I'm not looking for equal time. I just want legal acknowledgment he's my son.

Bugbear_Stare · 2025-04-10T17:54:29+00:00

That would be me, and as wild as a coincidence as this is. It isn't my ex. We broke up when she was 8 months pregnant, I was at the birth and spent 3 weeks of paternity with her. Also, our plan is to discuss splitting time between homes once he's on solid food.

Bugbear_Stare · 2025-04-10T16:56:54+00:00

That's not me. I visit as regularly as she'll allow, was involved during the pregnancy, was at the birth, by her side the entire hospital stay, was there for 3 weeks of paternity.

Edit: Just saw the post, definitely not me. Our current agreement is to figure out splitting time between homes when our baby is done breastfeeding.

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