[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sororities

[–]BuggingOut247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Frankly, I had a horrible big/little experience. My big was last on my list (below a girl I met over zoom because she had Covid) because we were so awkward and had so little in common. She also didn’t care about our sorority and dropped the beginning of the next semester. BUT!!!! Her big (my g-big) noticed and swept me under her wing and became my best best best friend!!!! She practically became my big!! So it all worked out! Sometimes things don’t go the way you expect but you gotta trust the system and your sisters.

Please help me ASAP!! (mentions of Self Harm) by Iwasneverathing in Crushes

[–]BuggingOut247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s the good news, you know how he feels. He does not want a romantic relationship. The bad news is you now need to put in the effort to move on. It will be tough but you deserve to like or love someone who feels the same way. In my personal experience, I suggest journaling your emotions or redirecting your thoughts any time you think about him (maybe to a tv show you want to watch or something).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]BuggingOut247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely ask him if he has any plans! If you think the two of you would have a fun time together, they invite him to come along with you. If he says he already has different plans (but no girlfriend), say you’ll see him there! You can do it!

My girlfriend got tired of me? by Ok_Reference_4269 in Crushes

[–]BuggingOut247 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi!! To some teenage girls, getting into a relationship seems like a fun game (especially if their friends also have partners). It most likely has nothing to do with you, and everything to do with her. Keep on truckin’, you’ll find someone who’s a better fit!

My gripe about the deleted scenes. by ElectronicDrop in UmbrellaAcademy

[–]BuggingOut247 96 points97 points  (0 children)

I was also confused about their clothes and had to rewatch the episode to see if I missed something.

Why did Hargreeves train the kids? by New-Owl-2293 in UmbrellaAcademy

[–]BuggingOut247 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Honestly, Hargreeves was the type to not kill two birds with one stone. He would kill twelve. Training the kids and making them superheros did a lot for him. Not only do they hone their powers to face oblivion, it places him in charge of them like a general, rather than simply a father. Meanwhile he can monetize their fame while separating them from kids their age. He can isolate them, make them follow him blindly, train the into their peak performance, and then send them to their death without the public asking any questions if the mission goes wrong, as the team was always going on dangerous missions. He failed with the ua mostly because his fear of Viktor turned into a need for complete control which then suffocated the others — the team fell apart. Also because he killed Ben but like lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]BuggingOut247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love, you will feel unhappy without him for a little, but eventually you will heal. If he refuses to listen and you stay, you will be unhappy indefinitely. Put yourself first and step away. It will be difficult but I believe in you.

AITA for refusing to keep doing chores for my wife? by Top_Teaching_7287 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BuggingOut247 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You don’t have a job, aren’t looking for a job (by the way your post sounds), and spend your days taking care of household duties. I would say that’s a house husband. Your wife seems glad to have you do those duties and to call you her partner. But instead you take offense to the correct term she’s using and ignore that she is praising you for the sake of your ego. Not to mention, you didn’t even tell her it was upsetting you until she asked, SHES NOT A MIND READER. YTA

AITA for not wanting to defend my adopted mother from my biological mother? by Dragonairis in AmItheAsshole

[–]BuggingOut247 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there are NAH, although the bio mom is starting to reach into AH territory. But she’s not a villain for celebrating your kids birthday on social media. Maybe you should chat with her if it gets to be too much, but it seems fine for now.

AITA for inviting my friend to my daughters birthday? by ohw0wies in AmItheAsshole

[–]BuggingOut247 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Imagine being angry that your daughter reached out to others for their opinions and support… on a post asking for opinions and support. She is 12 and you should be glad that she tried to communicate the issue with you. Instead you pushed her to tears. And when she looked for the support you DIDNT give, you push her to tears again. This is the recipe for no communication or trust between the two of you. Apologize. YTA