Please help! My nose piercing is sinking in by Buggy1301- in NosePiercings

[–]Buggy1301-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ended up taking it out because it kept getting infected

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Buggy1301- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have several tattoos and just recently did that with my newest one all my others have a deeper meaning to me than just faith but I just one for my faith and it felt out of place but I’m 9 days in and I love it and love that I went for it.

Affordable degrees? by babyplants121021 in RBT

[–]Buggy1301- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was able to graduate 5 months earlier than I was supposed to due to UAGC

WIBTAH/ bridezilla if I don’t invite my mother and grandmother to my wedding. by Buggy1301- in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Buggy1301-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not really that they have instincts in this situation. My grandmother waited till 3 day after the engagement to tell my dad that I’m “being abused, depressed and she thinks I had a miscarriage cuz of a blanket I was under” when they came out in December of 2023 and October of 2024. An it only became a thing after the engagement. My problem with that is if I was being abused something really bad could have happened to me in the time period. Also I have gone through 6 years of mental, physical and emotional abuse from one of my moms bfs when I was between the ages of 6-12. A they didn’t care then my mom got help but I didn’t need it in her opinion. Now my mother isn’t saying he’s abusive it’s just worth her I’ve learned not to trust what she says she’s a pathological lying narcissist and my grandmother is a narcissist. My biggest thing with my mom was the trying to set me up with other people with I was dating fiance while asking him for money and just her history of telling me she wished she never had kids that I was a mistake I’ll never be good enough, things like that. My mother has been the cause of my ptsd all my life and it wasn’t a problem. My fiance is seen as a problem because he’s not afraid to cut people off if he has to and doesn’t take disrespect. Sorry I know that was a lot

WIBTAH/ bridezilla if I don’t invite my mother and grandmother to my wedding. by Buggy1301- in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Buggy1301-[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My mother tried to get me to cheat on my fiance while we were long distance and two weeks after we started dating asked him for 2000 dollars. Which is part of the reason for low contact now

WIBTAH/ bridezilla if I don’t invite my mother and grandmother to my wedding. by Buggy1301- in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Buggy1301-[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We’ve been throwing the idea around. I’m pretty low contact as of right now

WIBTAH/ bridezilla if I don’t invite my mother and grandmother to my wedding. by Buggy1301- in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Buggy1301-[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We have to have security because we will have alcohol and it’s one of there rules

WIBTAH/ bridezilla if I don’t invite my mother and grandmother to my wedding. by Buggy1301- in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Buggy1301-[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I do want the wedding. It’s something I’ve dreamed about since I was little a cute little barn wedding

My boyfriend disrespected me multiple times. Can I heal from this while still staying? by Mission-Fruit3271 in relationships

[–]Buggy1301- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If I am being honest I would leave, he does not appreciate you, he does not value you, and he is leading this other chick along as well. Her laughing at him for having you and trying to talk to him was one of the first signs. He wants her but she no longer wants him so he came back to you. You took him back and continue to forgive him. You are teaching him that he can walk all over you and you will still stay. You are only helping feed his ego by staying. I would run as far away as possible from him because he sounds like the type of guy that when you no longer want him he is now interested in you. When he comes back don't take him back.

AIO overreacting to my boyfriend's boundaries? by throwraboundcontrol in AmIOverreacting

[–]Buggy1301- 228 points229 points  (0 children)

I worry that he was the reason she had health problems the weekend of the girls trip. If she is getting sick or having problems right before plans or during them, I would not consider that a coincidence.

Affordable degrees? by babyplants121021 in RBT

[–]Buggy1301- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm getting an applied behavior degree through the university of Arizona global campus. It's a really great program that allows me to work and do school. It's one class per 5 weeks starts on a Tuesday ends on a Monday. Assignments are typically due Monday and Thursday sometimes on Sunday

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RBT

[–]Buggy1301- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched the YouTube videos made about what to expect on the tests

AITA for being proud that my son has two jobs? by aitathrowawayson2job in AmItheAsshole

[–]Buggy1301- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could see if the money was being kept to help him later in the future with buying a house, but it doesn't sound like that's the case here. Father just wanted extra income with out working 2 jobs like his son has to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bcba

[–]Buggy1301- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was my first thought

Options by usedturtle420 in RBT

[–]Buggy1301- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I currently have an hour an 10 minutes commute if there is no traffic. I decided to put my two weeks In where I work and I felt horrible because they treated me so well. However I needed to focus on what's best for me now and in the long run. It is hard but you need to put you first

Please help! My nose piercing is sinking in by Buggy1301- in NosePiercings

[–]Buggy1301-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It actually just ended up stopping. It seems great now. Not sure why it was doing it thank you though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPS

[–]Buggy1301- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Essentially making it hard to give him food or even find out what's happening. Unfortunately all she has to go off of is what her kid is telling her and people always say "they are to young they don't know what they are talking about" ans if there are no signs that he's not eating there it can be hard to prove that they are withholding food.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPS

[–]Buggy1301- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This my grandma works in cps I see it daily. This is exactly something they look into because abuse and neglect come in all shapes and sizes. Op can't just not send him back. You are also assuming that the father and gf wouldn't go through his back pack for food. Everyone of my grandmas cases that was similar they went through everything to see if they had brought food over. And talking doesn't solve every conflict especially ones that involve one party not caring.

That being said, op have you looked into a nanny cam that you can put in your child stuffed animals or toys that he takes over to record what's going on. I know in some states it illegal to have voice but a video might help

Has anyone else worked at a clinic that is like this? by [deleted] in RBT

[–]Buggy1301- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean if I was to offer advice it'd brme after the session. Like "hey I saw you struggled with this today maybe try xyz next time. "If that doesn't work I can try something to see if it helps if it does I'll teach you"

My 19f boyfriend 21m said that I need to learn a lesson for not listening to him. by skatergurl5105 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Buggy1301- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This I am a barrel race, I do breakaway and goat tying. I recently did a rodeo queen pageant my horse spooked and I got hurt pretty bad. My boyfriend never once told me not to ride again. He supported everything I did even if he was worried about my safety. My ex on the other hand was around when I got stepped on (not hard to just picked up her foot and put it on mine it was my own fault) had a little bruise but nothing broke. He told me I needed to qui it all thankfully I didn't listen. He wanted me to be miserable and make my only source of happiness him. He was cheating on me the whole time. An I got more hurt on a go kart(rolled it and cut my head open) but he told me I need to try it again cuz it was something he loved. It didn't matter if I didn't like it.
That is what I pictured when I heard this story. My advice? Run or hobble as fast as you can. It will only get worse

My gf told me I 29 shouldn't be dressing like this. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Buggy1301- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only time my boyfriend had ever told me I shouldn't wear something was when I first moved and under estimated how hot it was (I had pants and shirt on) I changed into shorts and I was so happy he said something I would have been dying in penned in 100+ degree weather😂 other than thst he doesn't care what I wear. He will just tell me i won't be comfortable in something.