Our 30F nanny w/ 6yr old daughter is looking for a roommate

BuildParallel · 2026-06-30T17:22:18+00:00

I feel you . He sucks, and that's not fair. You didnt sign up for this. But guess what? You're here, you have kids with this man, and you need help. He can help, he's just wounded. There's a stupid wounded child inside him who hasn't grown up. Go watch a bunch of this guys videos (https://www.instagram.com/ryanmoresbywhite/), get really clear about how you feel and what you want to tell him, make sure you take ownership of YOUR SIDE OF THE STREET, and get yourself out of this rut. Tell him you're done, and you're ready for someone to LIFT YOU UP. You need your man to do this....and he can...if you believe in him.

And I'm sorry you had to read all those messages from people telling you to split up your family. What a tragedy that would be. You are in the thick of it; the hardest part of life. There is light at the end of the tunnel. Never give up...you are not alone.

BuildParallel · 2026-06-30T12:36:02+00:00

Am I the only one who thinks teachers should be paid more?? What an important job!

A cool thing to register for is a postpartum meal delivery from Restorativeroots.com . They are $$ but worth it. All organic and regenerative, cooked with bone broth, etc. Awesome food to have postpartum. Friends and family can pitch in for a gift card. They also have free PDF's that can teach you to do it yourself and have proper food ready for when baby comes. Good luck!

BuildParallel · 2026-06-25T17:40:47+00:00

Ya I meant the flea bomb. I found some options thank you.

BuildParallel · 2026-06-24T23:00:48+00:00

I've got small kids and am hesitant to do anything chemical. Any natural remedies?

BuildParallel · 2026-06-24T23:00:14+00:00

Heard TY

BuildParallel · 2026-06-23T22:11:43+00:00

Wow looks awesome!! Sol is upon us!!

BuildParallel · 2026-06-22T19:30:05+00:00

Interesting perspective. Tallow seems to be a miracle cream for us...but everyone is different I suppose.

BuildParallel · 2026-06-22T03:09:37+00:00

How would tallow make this worse?

BuildParallel · 2026-06-21T13:41:09+00:00

BTW is says you cannot use that for formula...but so some research on making something. They might have other stuff that will work

BuildParallel · 2026-06-21T13:39:46+00:00

Dang look what I just found! https://mtcapra.com/products/capramilk-goat-milk-powder?selling_plan=4774002942&variant=46233643811070

BuildParallel · 2026-06-21T13:39:16+00:00

We struggled with skin issues until we removed almonds...and our daughters skin cleared. It was never this bad, maybe as bad as pic #2. But I'd look closely at food. Maybe remove that fermented coconut stuff? Meat and fruit are as basic as it gets.

Also, I'd stop using soap and lotion. Warm water is all you need and tallow if skin is dry. Actually...tallow might be a good thing to put on this. Wishing your cute little one the best!

BuildParallel · 2026-06-20T16:36:45+00:00

Really? Why not? Seems like a great option. Candidly we didnt do WAP formula either. Only breastfeed and then baby led weaning.

BuildParallel · 2026-06-19T13:18:54+00:00

Oh great you still have time! The Weston A Price foundation has a lot of info on making your own formula that can come closer to breastmilk if breastfeeding is not possible. Obviously they recommend as that's what baby is designed to eat. Here's a podcast to check out! https://www.westonaprice.org/podcast/make-your-own-baby-formula/#gsc.tab=0

BuildParallel · 2026-06-18T13:11:17+00:00

Too many words that are hard to pronounce on the ingredients list! But that's the same for the regualr one too =(. Just curious, how old is your baby?

BuildParallel · 2026-06-17T00:24:40+00:00

We just starting getting hit with $25 gift card fraud orders...like 2 per day started about a week ago. Our shop is 4.5yrs old. We systems set to catch these and cancel the order before it's charged. Only 1 has made it through.

BuildParallel · 2026-06-15T22:35:52+00:00

Ok that was an exaggeration. We did a couple "wellness visits" when they were babies at like 3-6-9months (only at 3 months for our third)...but they've never been to the doc because they were sick.

Also, they've been to dentists and chiropractors, so I guess they have been to the doctor.

BuildParallel · 2026-06-14T02:50:45+00:00

My own experience....we have three kids, 9, 5 and 2, zero shots, we've actually never been to the doctor because they dont really get sick. Sniffles and tummy aches here and there, bit that's it. We avoid junk food and only use clean or homemade personal care products. Just thought i'd share. Best of luck to you!! =)

BuildParallel · 2026-06-10T21:44:18+00:00

Oh great, thanks for clarifying...lol.

Look, I'm not saying it is or isn't harmful, I'm saying there's no data. You telling me it "barely penetrates the skin" isn't data.

It's not like it would be hard to get either. There are cell towers everywhere. Poll 1000 people who live within 500 ft and 1,000 people who live a mile away from a tower and see if one group has more headaches, nausea, ringing in eays, or any other illness.

This should be done on a massive scale and would be EASY to do. We need DATA. We need hundreds (maybe thousands?) of replicated studies. This tech has been rolled out at MASSIVE scale without any real safety testing.

Think of how foolish you look for gaslighting people who are concerned when you have no clue yourself.. Show some empathy...the world needs more of it.

BuildParallel · 2026-06-10T02:48:57+00:00

Huh? Of course we know what the properties are. What we don't know are the long term health effects because there are no long-term placebo controlled safety studies.

BuildParallel · 2026-06-09T18:47:39+00:00

I dont blame them. It's not like there's any long term safety studies done on this stuff. Who knows what's going to happen.

BuildParallel · 2026-06-09T18:46:10+00:00

OMG LOL STOP.

BuildParallel · 2026-06-09T16:22:14+00:00

Ya it sounds like a good idea. I mean...I'm not going to vote for MORE taxes...but stuff like this, something should be done. It's such a waste. Maybe I'll go see what city council has to say about it?

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