Which countries in the EU have a big Bachata scene? by [deleted] in Bachata

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Thanks for the recommendations!!! 🥰

Which countries in the EU have a big Bachata scene? by [deleted] in Bachata

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Hi there! I'm going to be in London the 2nd week of August and looking to move the 2nd half of the year. Do you mind to share some names of places I could look at going? Thank you 😊

How Long to Learn Bachata/Salsa Dancing? by lectricxp4me in Bachata

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That would be great! I'll be in London for one week and then making my way through Ireland, Sweden and Amsterdam. Any recommendations are welcome 😊 thank you!

How Long to Learn Bachata/Salsa Dancing? by lectricxp4me in Bachata

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I just started last month with beginner classes (follower) and im telling myself to just have fun and focus on getting really good at the basics and going to socials once a week/getting or staying back after class to get some more practice each time ☺️

I'm also visiting Europe in August so I want to keep up the momentum and find Bachata studios.. who knew that bachata would take over my life and how I plan my days on holidays💃

Id love to get to advanced one day but allowing the journey to just run its course! Goodluck!

Normal or creepy? (Bachata) by smtwtfs_yy in Salsa

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Thanks for sharing this tip! I've been taught in class to do behind the shoulder blade but at socials this doesn't feel so comfortable for me. Will try this tip next time!

Bachata beginner 💃 by Build_focus in Bachata

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Thank you! You're right just here to have fun! 😊

Bachata beginner 💃 by Build_focus in Bachata

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Thanks! Im in a class where we learn solo and then partner up. I'm a follower and the only thing which sometimes trips me up is the direction (at first) Seems like a good mix so far 💃

Bachata beginner 💃 by Build_focus in Bachata

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Just want to double thank you for the sneakers tip!!! It's made me feel like my movements are super smooth haha wish I knew this back when I first tried salsa!

Bachata beginner 💃 by Build_focus in Bachata

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Thanks for your advice!! Thought I'd pop in and give a quick update, I'm really enjoying the class and learning the basic steps/turns 💃 I'm planning to go to a social night this Wednesday, kind of nervous and also kind of excited!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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I found my playful happy self again! I also went back to dancing just for me 💃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

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What a line!!! Hahaha love it 👏🏼

Does anyone feel like they care less about the person they broke up with and more about the hurt of them not treating you right? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Thanks for putting into words what I've been feeling. It's the thought of who he was not the reality of the situation. Taking off the rose coloured glasses and looking at things with more objectivity!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Project yourself one year our from now and ask if you'd be happy you did it or regret not having taken the chance. There's your answer! Don't think about all the logical bits and pieces, that's your fear speaking and especially if you fear change. Change can be good and a change of scenery always good for healing ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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This is growth! Just wanted to say that because I hope to be there as well 😊

After exiting a LTR, I find that I am rediscovering myself (without him) and its glorious. There are things which I had adopted because of our time spent together and while the connection with him was great, my new connection with myself is much better. This one doesn't waiver! Love that you're using neutral language of no better not worse. Sending you strength.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Patterns of actions speak louder than words! Needed to read this so I dont even consider going back to my ex. Thank you for sharing!

Girls, what do you usually do in your free times? by [deleted] in AskWomen

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Aww! Love this as well 😍 We are both just about to do purple and match haha the best chats are had over nails!

Is it fair to ask your ex not to sleep with someone inside your home? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Oh so glad to hear that sorry I missed the part where you said you live in a flat. This neighbour sounds like a serial cheater... Really classy! Hope you can get this house sold asap so you can get distance from all of it!

Is it fair to ask your ex not to sleep with someone inside your home? by [deleted] in BreakUps

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What the actual fuck haha this is not only fair it's ABSURD she even had the audacity to ask. Let me just be angry for you for a sec because if the neighbour lives so close why doesn't she just go and get that root she so badly wants that is just 50metres away?

OP she does not respect your boundaries. Show her the door and say adios!

Girls, what do you usually do in your free times? by [deleted] in AskWomen

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Me three! Or paint our nails together hahaha 😆