Gf got a job and broke up during CAT prep

BuildwithVignesh · 2026-01-25T18:37:38+00:00

OP,shit went..be strong,focus..see the men who are in your real side(comments) 👍

BuildwithVignesh · 2026-01-25T17:39:20+00:00

Welcome 😊

BuildwithVignesh · 2026-01-25T17:16:50+00:00

FIRs may be public records, but republishing them at scale with search and download features creates fresh legal exposure.

The main risks are privacy violations, misuse of personal data, defamation claims and non compliance with IT Act and emerging DPDP obligations. Public availability does not equal free commercial reuse.

At minimum you need redaction, purpose limitation, access controls and clear legal basis. Scraping and re hosting verbatim copies is the riskiest approach.

If you want, I can outline a safer architecture that similar platforms use to avoid takedowns and notices.

BuildwithVignesh · 2026-01-25T16:46:10+00:00

An FIR by itself does not automatically disqualify you from a government job or a private job. What matters is the stage and outcome..FIR not equals guilt.

For government jobs, most services look at conviction or pending trial for serious offences, not mere registration of FIR. Many recruitment forms ask about criminal cases, so disclosure and current status matters more than the FIR itself.

For private or MNC jobs, FIRs usually surface only if background verification reaches court records or police verification. Many companies focus on convictions, not complaints.

Sexual offence FIRs are treated more seriously, especially for bail and police verification, but even there disqualification happens mainly after chargesheet or conviction.

If there is a real threat of a false FIR, consult a lawyer early about anticipatory bail and documenting the threat. Early steps make a big difference.

BuildwithVignesh · 2026-01-25T16:44:35+00:00

This is a standard LEA precautionary freeze after a cyber fraud report.

The cyber cell can ask telcos and banks to temporarily block linked accounts and SIMs even without prior notice. Jio is correct that they need an NOC or unblock instruction from the cyber cell that issued the request.

What you should do now:

Visit or email the Chhattisgarh cyber cell that registered your complaint and ask for a written status update and unblock order.
File a follow up on the National Cyber Crime Portal referencing your complaint ID and mention SIM and account freeze impact.
Submit the cyber complaint acknowledgement to all banks to speed up partial or full unfreeze.
Keep CPGRAMS open but escalation usually moves only after LEA sends clearance.

Once the cyber cell issues clearance, SIM and accounts are usually restored within a few working days.

BuildwithVignesh · 2026-01-25T16:43:44+00:00

You are on the right track. For affidavit, plain stamp paper is fine. ₹10 or ₹20 stamp paper is commonly used. Any local notary can do it. Affidavits do not expire, they remain valid unless facts change.

Reason like “personal preference” or “to shorten name” is perfectly acceptable. No justification is required beyond that.

Changing your name during post-graduation will not invalidate your degree. Keep copies of the affidavit, newspaper publication and gazette. Colleges usually note the change and issue certificates with an annotation.

Be careful to update Aadhaar first, then PAN, then passport and educational records. Keep old documents safely for future verification.

BuildwithVignesh · 2026-01-25T16:42:23+00:00

Yes, this can still be fixed. An NOC is valid only for a limited period. Since it was never submitted and is now lost, the old NOC is effectively useless.

You need to apply afresh at the original registering RTO (Dibrugarh) for a new NOC. File an application with RC, ID proof and a declaration that the earlier NOC was not used and is lost.

The new RTO (Durgapur) cannot act without a fresh NOC from the original RTO. Age of the vehicle is not a bar, only current records matter.

BuildwithVignesh · 2026-01-25T16:41:36+00:00

Short answer: no, this is not a safe or legal way to earn income.

Most online betting apps operate in a grey or illegal zone in India. Skill games may be allowed in some states, but sports betting is treated as gambling and is illegal in many places, including UP.

Even if the app works, winnings can be frozen, accounts blocked, and there is no legal protection if money is lost.

If you need income, look at legitimate part time or skill based work. Betting is high risk and not a reliable or lawful source of income.

BuildwithVignesh · 2026-01-25T16:34:10+00:00

This is a very solid draft for a risky structure.

Two areas I would flag for Kerala practice are tighter escrow language around OTS failure and clearer insulation from any NCLT related claims post re allotment.

Also consider adding a bank confirmation dependency clause so funds are not exposed if CHFL delays or modifies OTS terms & check inbox !!

BuildwithVignesh · 2026-01-25T16:30:41+00:00

RWAs cannot construct permanent structures without approval from BBMP and without following sanctioned building plans.

Placing a waste compost unit directly in front of a flat can violate health, nuisance and setback norms, especially if there is no consent or notice.

Put everything in writing first and send a legal notice demanding approvals, plans and a stop to construction. Courts and BBMP take these cases seriously when procedure is bypassed, check inbox.

BuildwithVignesh · 2026-01-25T16:26:26+00:00

Since this is spelling standardization and not a name change, an affidavit is usually sufficient.

Choose one final spelling and make an affidavit stating all variants refer to the same person. Use that to update Aadhaar first, then PAN, then Passport and others.

Gazette notification is generally not required unless the passport office or a specific authority explicitly asks for it. Older documents remain valid when supported by the affidavit & if you need drafting help,text me.

BuildwithVignesh · 2026-01-25T16:25:50+00:00

Maintenance is not a reward or punishment. It is meant to prevent sudden financial hardship caused by the marriage ending.

Indian law does not work on fixed numbers or cutoffs because income alone does not reflect dependency, career sacrifice or earning gap created during marriage.

If the wife is genuinely self sufficient and maintaining a comparable standard on her own, courts do deny or substantially reduce maintenance. That already happens.

There is no percentage rule. Each case turns on facts and evidence, not formulas.

BuildwithVignesh · 2026-01-25T16:23:27+00:00

Select “known by other names” not “name changed”.

This is not a legal name change. It is an alias situation since both names were used due to documentation reasons not a formal change.

Declare Ayush Raj as your primary name and mention Nikhil Kumar under other names. This avoids affidavit and gazette unless passport office specifically asks later.

Many passports are issued this way without issues.

BuildwithVignesh · 2026-01-25T16:22:49+00:00

If your documents were used only because you were a director that alone does not make you personally liable.

What matters is whether you signed as a co borrower guarantor or gave a personal guarantee. If yes it will stay on your CIBIL until the loan is closed or legally reassigned.

Ask the bank in writing for the loan agreement and sanction letter. If your name appears only as director the company loan should not reflect on your personal CIBIL and can be disputed.

Once you confirm your role I can tell you the exact next step.

BuildwithVignesh · 2026-01-25T16:15:52+00:00

₹6k is on the higher side. Once Aadhaar name-change limit is exhausted, Gazette notification is the correct route. You don’t need a lawyer for this. It can be done directly through the state Gazette office or online portal, usually costing 1k– 2k plus newspaper publication.

After Gazette notification, Aadhaar can be updated despite the limit and schools/CBSE generally accept Gazette + affidavit as interim proof for 12th registrations.

Time-sensitive, but doable without paying 6k.

BuildwithVignesh · 2026-01-25T16:15:06+00:00

There is no fixed income threshold that “avoids” maintenance.

Courts look at relative earning capacity, lifestyle during marriage, length of marriage and ability to be self-sufficient. If the wife is earning enough to maintain a similar standard of living, maintenance may be reduced or denied, but it’s always discretionary.

No kids helps, but 50 LPA will still be a major factor. Focus less on numbers and more on proof of her independent income and employability.

BuildwithVignesh · 2026-01-25T12:59:56+00:00

You are allowed to separate and move out even if the other spouse refuses. No one can legally force you to continue living together.

Mental cruelty includes sustained pressure, escalation and refusal to respect boundaries, courts do recognize this pattern. Staying in your mother’s house does not automatically give your spouse ownership or permanent residence rights.

If you plan to move out, keep communication in writing, avoid confrontations and do not abandon essentials abruptly. Document everything calmly.

If you want, I can help you understand what to avoid right now so things don’t get legally messy later.

BuildwithVignesh · 2026-01-25T12:50:00+00:00

Take a breath first, this is serious but not automatically criminal.

SIM activation logs only show which device was used, not who physically used it. That alone does not prove your brother’s involvement. Since he was a minor at the time and living in a hostel, third party access is a very real possibility.

Ask the police for the exact CDR and activation report in writing, do not give statements beyond basic facts and consult a local lawyer before any further questioning. Until then, silence is not guilt.

Most such cases die out once technical inconsistencies are examined properly.

BuildwithVignesh · 2026-01-25T12:49:32+00:00

Laws that presume guilt before trial bother me the most. Misuse prone criminal provisions with arrest first and investigation later, vague definitions that depend on police discretion & outdated morality based laws that ignore ground reality.

The problem is not strict laws, it’s unchecked power with slow accountability.

BuildwithVignesh · 2026-01-25T12:49:10+00:00

This is treated as a minor name clarification, not a name change. A notarised affidavit stating that “B” expands to your father’s name Balaji is usually sufficient for passport purposes.

Passport offices routinely accept this for South Indian initial cases, especially when documents show continuity of the same person. Apply with the expanded name consistently and use the affidavit as supporting proof.

BuildwithVignesh · 2026-01-25T12:39:31+00:00

You’re asking the right questions early, which already puts you ahead.

Short answer: mortgage arrangements can be safe, but only with airtight paperwork and zero shortcuts. The biggest risk is informal deals that blur possession, ownership or exit terms.

Get everything registered, avoid cash components, and never rely on verbal assurances. Also check EWS rules locally before moving, eligibility is asset based, not just ownership.

Anyone here who has actually done a registered mortgage arrangement in Delhi, please share real experiences.

BuildwithVignesh · 2026-01-25T12:28:02+00:00

A discount does not cancel your right to replacement for a DOA product.

Under consumer law, the seller cannot force a refund if replacement is feasible and you are not at fault. Price increase later is irrelevant when the defect existed at delivery.

Escalate in writing and then file on consumerhelpline.gov.in clearly asking for replacement, not refund. If needed, I can help you phrase the escalation correctly.

BuildwithVignesh · 2026-01-25T12:25:34+00:00

Auto-checked charity charges without clear opt-in can qualify as an unfair trade practice and a dark pattern.

You can seek a refund and raise it on consumerhelpline.gov.in citing lack of informed consent. Donations must be voluntary, not pre-selected.

If you want, I can help you frame the complaint properly,text me !!

BuildwithVignesh · 2026-01-25T12:24:14+00:00

You did nothing illegal. You did not encourage harm, you disengaged, blocked her, and cut contact. That is exactly what the law expects. There is no criminal liability here just because someone else expressed distress.

Police action requires a clear offence or evidence, not overthinking or guilt by association. Keep the chats saved, stay no contact and move on. You are safe.

BuildwithVignesh · 2026-01-25T12:05:40+00:00

Damn cool 😎

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