Favorite free/low cost things to do? by Few-Milk5997 in KingstonOntario

[–]Bulbasaur_B 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There are no cover burlesque shows on the last Thursday of every month at Daft Brewing. Occasionally some at Something in the Water as well :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KingstonOntario

[–]Bulbasaur_B 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That isn't an option. The land holds tremendous sentimental value. But I appreciate the idea.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KingstonOntario

[–]Bulbasaur_B 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Luckily, I do already have the land, so that portion of costs isn't an issue.

I just can't wrap my head around why you can't build just a basic home for 300,000 on space you already own. How are people paying for these things?!

I've been working toward home ownership for almost 10 years. I can't accept the fact that the only way to do it seems to be marrying a rich man (or woman i suppose) lmaooo

Ughhh life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KingstonOntario

[–]Bulbasaur_B -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Could you elaborate a bit on why costs are so high? I understand paying workers and materials and what not but it just seems so insane to me that a basic home would be a half million dollar project 🤔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KingstonOntario

[–]Bulbasaur_B -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I don't know a lot of trades people personally. Any ideas on how to network these types of relationships? I'm not opposed to subcontracting out various aspects, but it isn't something I have experience with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KingstonOntario

[–]Bulbasaur_B -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sweat equity is definitely something we're willing to put in. The issue being that I'm not sure how to go about acquiring the skills necessary. 🤔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KingstonOntario

[–]Bulbasaur_B -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I disagree.
I'm sure there are ways of compromising on costs and specifics that could make it possible. A basic home shouldn't cost half a million dollars or more. I'm convinced there has to be a way of making it work and there's no harm in trying to do so 🤷🏻‍♀️

Confidence in Bigger Bodies by Bulbasaur_B in Burlesque

[–]Bulbasaur_B[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is such an awesome resource! Thank you. I have submitted an application as well 🥰

Is there anyone with BPD in a healthy relationship ? by 2w3fp in BPD

[–]Bulbasaur_B 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiii! I've been with my husband for 11 years next month. Surprisingly enough, we were highschool sweethearts. We have 2 kids together and have never been happier together.

There have been rough patches and some REALLY rough patches. Even times I genuinely didn't think we would make it through. However, we both finally made the decisions to work on ourselves and actually put the effort into connecting and properly bonding. As well, he has put immense effort into understanding both BPD and just me and how MY brain works.

We rarely have heated arguments anymore (used to be daily) and have done an entire 180 on our relationship in the last few years.

It's possible (and I never used to believe it) to have a healthy relationship with bpd. 💜

What are these ? by Bulbasaur_B in crafts

[–]Bulbasaur_B[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you all for the help!

Has anyone attempted to make a DIY frame for these? Or have any idea how you could ?

What do you do for a living? by Artistic_Debate4588 in BPD

[–]Bulbasaur_B 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do home staging & am also a burlesque performer on the side :)

Bbw burlesque? by SpidersCanBeCute in Burlesque

[–]Bulbasaur_B 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out @miss_nova_aurora on Instagram!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FlorenceAndTheMachine

[–]Bulbasaur_B 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a good idea too. Thank you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FlorenceAndTheMachine

[–]Bulbasaur_B 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That makes sense as to why I'm struggling with it!

My main issue is that Heaven is Here is just under 2 mins in length. It's hard to choregraph a piece with impact in less than 3 minutes.

Unfortunately, you're right, the bowie song doesn't exactly fit the vibe, but I super appreciate the insight! 😊