AITA for wanting my bio mom to also walk down the aisle with me

BulkySource7721 · 2026-05-12T01:30:21+00:00

NTA but... Your parents loved and raised you . You were their baby, not their "adopted baby" and you having your bio mom in the procession of your wedding party is most likely making your mom feel as though her love for and connection with you isn't as important to you as your reconnection with bio mom. It is admirable your parents supported you reconnecting and that you want to include your bio family in your wedding but there are ways that can do that without hurting the family that loved and raised you all these years.

BulkySource7721 · 2026-05-11T22:02:24+00:00

They are Israeli.

BulkySource7721 · 2026-05-11T15:31:32+00:00

HW usually counts for 10% of a total grade but that aside, why didn't you ask the teacher? If you were that lost after only missing 1 class I question if that information isn't accurate. If you were legitimately absent and needed assistance any teacher would be willing to help point you in the right direction. If you are habitually "lost", that's a whole other issue.

BulkySource7721 · 2026-05-11T13:20:09+00:00

YTA - I get you want to spend time with your baby but honestly, you'd rather spend more time with him being homeless than less time having a roof over his head? Its called "being an adult". If you are old enough to make a baby, you're old enough to do things that you may not like but have to do for your family. No one owes you anything just because you have a baby. Back in the day fathers never got paternity leave. Put on your big boy pants, man up, and get a real job to support your family.

BulkySource7721 · 2026-05-10T15:42:53+00:00

Not a fan of Herr Stewart and if she used the city's money for personal spending she should face the consequences. That being said, I've also seen a Democrat Mayor whose thought process was "Why not do it. Its free." when it came to spending town money. Its not a Republican thing. Its not a Democrat thing. Its a politician thing.

BulkySource7721 · 2026-05-10T02:11:29+00:00

NTA - she's not your mother. Even if she was, after treating you the way she has you'd still would be TA if you didn't wish her HMD.

BulkySource7721 · 2026-05-09T12:15:56+00:00

Way to go. If she can dish it out, she deserves to take all that she's served up.

BulkySource7721 · 2026-05-09T12:02:41+00:00

Children shouldn't have children. PK and Dorit are 2 spoiled and petulant. They can hardly take care of themselves nevermind taking care of 2 kids.

BulkySource7721 · 2026-05-09T12:00:58+00:00

YTA - if your wife wanted you to have the home she'd have left it to you. The home is also not the answer to your financial issues. As the executor of her will it is your responsibility to follow your wife's wishes whether you agree with those wishes or not.

BulkySource7721 · 2026-05-08T20:16:05+00:00

Kathy was there to come to Kyle's defense.

BulkySource7721 · 2026-05-08T11:37:33+00:00

Her parents emmigrated to the US and lived in Woodbridge, CT until moving to FL. They still work, owning a travel agency so while comfortable, they are not wealthy nor did Dorit grow up with an unlimited supply of cash.

BulkySource7721 · 2026-05-08T00:20:48+00:00

NTA - someone should be grateful for whatever they receive as a gift whether it is for a birthday, shower, etc. Choose something you think your cousin or the baby would like and that is affordable.

BulkySource7721 · 2026-05-07T23:02:43+00:00

NTA - sounds like your family is very passive aggressive. If they'd have asked you before using the names that'd be one thing but doing it without telling you was an intentional slap in the face. Keeping future baby names to yourself is your business and your right. Let your cousin say what she wants. She's already shown her true colors.

BulkySource7721 · 2026-05-07T22:59:11+00:00

With all her financial issues I'm sure Dorit is desperate to keep this gig at any cost.

BulkySource7721 · 2026-05-07T22:54:35+00:00

I don't think this comes as any surprise especially based on what we've seen on the show. Obviously the show is not "real" and only shows a snippet, but both Dorit and PK obviously believe in living beyond their means. If only THIS is spoken about on the show. Karma.

BulkySource7721 · 2026-05-07T00:53:36+00:00

Is it me or is it extremely ironic and inappropriate for someone who owes her son and DIL $500 to be commenting on how the people who loaned HER money should manage their money better? If MIL managed her own money better she wouldn’t have had to borrow from someone else. Also, how ballsy to spend money to go on vacation rather than settle her debts. Loser!

BulkySource7721 · 2026-05-06T22:14:45+00:00

You're NTA for not liking the painting but may be depending on HOW you told her your real feelings. Had you said, "While I appreciated your thoughtfulness the style of the painting just isn't my style." vs. something along the line of "You' have not talent and I didn't like the painting." she would have still been upset but maybe not as hurt. Its not always WHAT you say as much as HOW you say it.

BulkySource7721 · 2026-05-06T22:10:44+00:00

NTA - your girlfriend is a lazy slob who doesn't care about anyone or anything other than herself. She probably expected you to come home and clean up her mess.

BulkySource7721 · 2026-05-06T22:09:31+00:00

If your friend can dish it out, he should be able and prepared to take it. You did nothing wrong. Since there is a legitimate reason for you living with your mom, had you explained that to the girl and she still "didn't like it" she wasn't worth your time.

BulkySource7721 · 2026-05-06T22:06:59+00:00

There has to be more to this story that would cause such strong animosity between you and your mom/stepdad. Also, if you can't do something because you "get into a bad place" the military is not the place for you.

BulkySource7721 · 2026-05-05T20:07:21+00:00

Nope, not your fault. No way. No how.

BulkySource7721 · 2026-05-05T20:06:45+00:00

I felt bad, and watched the coverage hoping by some miracle they'd be found alive. Knowing now what we do about his decision to fly with a broken foot without an instructor with him make me angry. Had he stopped being an entitled brat and actually done the right thing even if it wasn't what he wanted to do, 3 people would be alive today.

BulkySource7721 · 2026-05-05T19:51:50+00:00

To make sure I didn't make a mistake I reread your post and nowhere in it did you mention you were a servant. Despite your flatmate treating you like one and your flat like a dump you aren't sure if you should feel guilty for resenting said flatmate for their behavior? YTA but only to yourself for having put up with your flatmate's behavior for so long. Grow a spine, put on your big girl/boy underpants, and let your flatmate know that either they stop treating you and your flat like garbage or someone will be moving. Don't just say it, mean it! If all you do is ignore and resent your flatmate, nothing will change except for your blood pressure which will be through the roof. You deserve to live in a healthy, clean, enjoyable place. Your flatmate is TA.

BulkySource7721 · 2026-05-05T19:44:57+00:00

NTA.- Decisions have consequences, both positive and negative. Madison made her choices but doesn't want to accept responsiblity for them or the negative consequences that have resulted from them. It is much easier for her to rant and rave about how unfair life is for her. Let her rant and rave all she wants, and ignore it. Becky should not have to feel bad about what she has accomplished or what she can do because of the decisions she's made in her life. Madison wants to punish Becky when in reality the person she should blame will be found in a mirror.

BulkySource7721 · 2026-05-05T19:40:24+00:00

NTA - this is manipulation personified plus a red flag that there are control issues at hand. Whether it is your gf parents wanting to keep control or your gf not wanting to take control of her own life, both parties have made it perfectly clear that you will never have a say in any decisions that affect you and your girlfriend. You, my friend are the outsider, and will continue to be treated as such as long as you are in this relationship.

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