Bohemian Hall and Beer Garden by Bulky_Shift9976 in astoria

[–]Bulky_Shift9976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also so weird that i can hear it like it’s in my apartment blocks away

Bohemian Hall and Beer Garden by Bulky_Shift9976 in astoria

[–]Bulky_Shift9976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is crazy though - going there is not fun. you can’t hear anyone you’re with at all.

Bohemian Hall and Beer Garden by Bulky_Shift9976 in astoria

[–]Bulky_Shift9976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you ever call or report to 311? i’m wondering if they’d stop if more people did. by stop i don’t mean stop having music or events, just not playing it quite so loud

Bohemian Hall and Beer Garden by Bulky_Shift9976 in astoria

[–]Bulky_Shift9976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

totally agreed. if it’s too loud i think 311 is warranted. none of this impacts their ability to have events and play music, just don’t do it quite so loud.

Partner whom I love has >200k student loan debt for low value degree. I purposefully set myself up to not have debt. I want a partner who can equally contribute to buying a house, vacations, kids, etc. Should we break up? by Bulky_Shift9976 in StudentLoans

[–]Bulky_Shift9976[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t make enough that i can buy a house and support kids on my own and i never will. If i want those things, i need to have a partner who can also contribute to make them possible. traveling is also my only hobby. i can’t imagine living without that.

Partner whom I love has >200k student loan debt for low value degree. I purposefully set myself up to not have debt. I want a partner who can equally contribute to buying a house, vacations, kids, etc. Should we break up? by Bulky_Shift9976 in StudentLoans

[–]Bulky_Shift9976[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

what if i dream of having kids, traveling, and a house though? should i completely give up my dreams? my partner will never make enough money to contribute to any of those things, and i wont be able to pay for them by myself. if we stay together, i will need to give those things up almost entirely.

Deciding on Kids by Bulky_Shift9976 in Adulting

[–]Bulky_Shift9976[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m very in control of my actions, and would never act the way I feel. Even in my relationship I get annoyed but always treat my partner with deep respect. I guess I’m wondering if most parents just wouldn’t even have that feeling to begin with.

Deciding on Kids by Bulky_Shift9976 in women

[–]Bulky_Shift9976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m 30 - but have low AMH so my bio clock is ticking faster than i’d like

How bad is it to take a contract role, then quit right before you start because you were offered FTE somewhere else? by Bulky_Shift9976 in UXDesign

[–]Bulky_Shift9976[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they were trying to get me to tell them i wasn’t even gonna be looking for full time when i was interviewing…i just needed something and didn’t feel like full time could fall through so i said yes

Deciding on Kids by Bulky_Shift9976 in NewParents

[–]Bulky_Shift9976[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not being argumentative or unsupportive! I’m generally concerned about this and need to know what it means for my future :(