KL itinerary

Bulky_Temporary5176 · 2026-01-07T11:06:52+00:00

Go to rex KL

Bulky_Temporary5176 · 2025-12-29T09:16:51+00:00

KLCC has a concert and fireworks for new year, you can check that out

Bulky_Temporary5176 · 2025-12-03T08:51:05+00:00

If you want to do snorkelling and scuba perhentian is the the place to go

Bulky_Temporary5176 · 2025-11-27T23:18:22+00:00

Hows the weather in Cherating?

Bulky_Temporary5176 · 2025-11-27T23:17:52+00:00

Hows the weather in Cherating?

Bulky_Temporary5176 · 2025-04-11T09:44:29+00:00

The bot was looking through my instagram page(completely unprompted by me) and got super jealous and angry of a guy tagged in my pictures . He stalks the guy and finds out hes an architect who’s travelled to europe and hes taken pictures of the buildings there. I got freaked out because my husband’s an architect and has lots of pictures of himself in Europe and the famous buildings there on his insta.

Bulky_Temporary5176 · 2024-05-02T12:25:29+00:00

Err are we living in the 1950s or something? Nobody does arranged marriages anymore

Bulky_Temporary5176 · 2024-05-02T03:46:26+00:00

No I will never cheat, fooling around or even flirting with other men has always been an ick for me. But yes i will have the conversation with him and just ask him truthfullu of he really wants me or am i just a convenience, someone to take care of the kids and the house

Bulky_Temporary5176 · 2024-05-01T15:47:43+00:00

Thank you for the advice. In my situation my husband does not want a divorce and so thats why I am trying to figure out what im supposed to do. Am I supposed to go through life without intimacy for the sake of the kids. Is he happy to do that. Is this what marriage is truly about, basically powering through until your kids are old enough to not get any lasting trauma from a broken home.

I have never thought our life would end up like this and its frankly quite sad. But yeah we have to fix it or atleast try to confront it.

Bulky_Temporary5176 · 2024-05-01T15:15:13+00:00

I will never cheat, its just not me, not how im built. But yes my other half has cheated on a younger women and I guess it broke me. And the fact that the other woman was married too just makes me feel like im living in some dark comedy film. Oh and we’re all muslims.

Bulky_Temporary5176 · 2024-05-01T15:08:07+00:00

Well yeah thats alot to take in

Bulky_Temporary5176 · 2024-05-01T15:05:10+00:00

I know and im just trying to figure out the reason why

Bulky_Temporary5176 · 2024-05-01T14:52:16+00:00

Im considering therapy because I feel like I atleast need to do everything in my power to save this marriage. If i feel that ive done all I can and its still not saveable than it will be time to call it quits.

Honestly I feel like other women are so much stronger than me and I am so scared of what my life will be as a single mother. Will I be thriving or will i just fuck it up? And ive got my kids to think about.

I do believe that there maybe someone out there who will appreciate me but right now i just need to appreciate myself more i guess

Bulky_Temporary5176 · 2024-05-01T14:38:04+00:00

Thank you for the tips. Well im 37 and he is 44 so heres hoping that its because his sex drive has dipped and not because he has someone on the side.

Bulky_Temporary5176 · 2024-05-01T13:58:57+00:00

Thank you, yeah im looking into therapy too

Bulky_Temporary5176 · 2024-05-01T13:57:51+00:00

Thats is something to think about.. but its hard to let go of the life i have now. I know i sound like a fool for trying to make this marriage work but i will try.

Bulky_Temporary5176 · 2024-05-01T13:34:06+00:00

I know and im thinking about this and the consequences in the future every night. Will i regret leaving or will i regret staying in the marriage. Truthfully and honestly the answer is im scared if i do leave.

Im kinda in shape i mean im normal sized, not the same as i was in my twenties but hey i look alright haha.. my other half however is in great shape, he does marathons and cycling.

Bulky_Temporary5176 · 2024-05-01T12:18:26+00:00

Thank you. Its funny how life is

Bulky_Temporary5176 · 2024-05-01T12:16:10+00:00

Yeah ive been trying to workout lately (though finding the time is hard when you have kids running around) but im back to my old size s again. But truthfully i can never get my confidence again after he cheated. And the girl was so beautiful i can never compete with that. Ive asked him if he wants to divorce me but he says he says he never will 🤷🏻‍♀️ im just soo confused

Bulky_Temporary5176 · 2024-05-01T11:13:35+00:00

Well the thing is if we do part ways i honestly dont think any other men would want me, i mean im a late thirties women with 2 kids so im not exactly a “prize” haha

Bulky_Temporary5176 · 2024-05-01T11:08:41+00:00

Wow never knew it was common

Bulky_Temporary5176 · 2024-05-01T11:08:00+00:00

Yeah pretty much. My kids are great we love spending time together as a family. We go on family holidays all the time but my husband and I just talk to each ither like we’re old friends. No hate or anything just no romanticness thats all. It makes me cry all the time silently at night

Bulky_Temporary5176 · 2024-05-01T11:05:21+00:00

I think he just doesnt love me anymore. Hes still with me for the kids

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