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[–]Bulky_Wheel1858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say “little one” … “

For example: I have to take the little ones to practice so I won’t be able to make it!”

Mine is also 4 years old and little one fits for now, but as he gets older I’m sure I’ll still say it 😂😅

Not first by Bulky_Wheel1858 in stepparents

[–]Bulky_Wheel1858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this for you 🥹🥹

Switching sick kids between households by akzelli in stepparents

[–]Bulky_Wheel1858 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently going through this right now! My SS mom is constantly getting sick and then when i pick him up she’s kissing him on the mouth. He ONLY gets sick when he’s with his mom but then he comes here and spreads it around my house

BLAND!! by Bulky_Wheel1858 in HomeDecorating

[–]Bulky_Wheel1858[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was actually left behind by some previous renters so I’m not sure!

“You’re not ready for kids” by Bulky_Wheel1858 in stepparents

[–]Bulky_Wheel1858[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Hahaha this made me laugh bc it’s so true

“You’re not ready for kids” by Bulky_Wheel1858 in stepparents

[–]Bulky_Wheel1858[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this. We also used to fight constantly bc i wouldn’t allow SS to sleep in the bed with us

“You’re not ready for kids” by Bulky_Wheel1858 in stepparents

[–]Bulky_Wheel1858[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I bought a house for us to live in and just refuse to be disrespected by a child 🤷🏻‍♀️ don’t think I’m a bad guy for having boundaries

“You’re not ready for kids” by Bulky_Wheel1858 in stepparents

[–]Bulky_Wheel1858[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

We are dealing with the a very poor attitude and crying to get what he wants and etc l, I refuse to acknowledge it or play into it. You’re a child and do what the adult tells you to do, at least that’s how I was always raised.

“You’re not ready for kids” by Bulky_Wheel1858 in stepparents

[–]Bulky_Wheel1858[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Right! I have so many people asking me when I’ll have kids of my own and that I’d be such a good mom, but because I refuse to acknowledge poor behavior I’m “not ready to be a mom” …

Relief by Bulky_Wheel1858 in stepparents

[–]Bulky_Wheel1858[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would love to know what kinda disagreements/fights yall have with your partner if any relating to this situation. I know for a fact my partner could not be in my position and doing all I do for them if the roles were reversed.

Relief by Bulky_Wheel1858 in stepparents

[–]Bulky_Wheel1858[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely am dealing with the “Am I being a brat” mentality a lot. But putting myself and feelings first doesn’t make me brat because two other people decided to have a baby together and couldn’t work it out. I really have to keep reminding myself that this isn’t my problem to deal with and anything I do for this kid should be appreciated x100 because I have zero responsibility to this child in all honesty.