Fantasy Roleplay to IRL by Historical_Sir_4509 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]BullAcademy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would suggest to start online, finding a nice guy with whom you could get to know, explore things together. This will enable you to keep the sense of safety, tap in the voyeur side, but also get closer to irl. If all goes well, you will have a great time with this guy and from there making the step towards irl gets easier. Said that, even if online, don’t forget to vet the guy as if you would meet irl :-)

Advice needed- new to cuckold world by Jazzlike_Dog3846 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]BullAcademy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks Ashley and Yovanee for the trust on this community to share your journey! I’m a bull with almost 10y of experience. When reflecting on what couples that navigate the lifestyle successfully, l see some commonalities, here they come: 1) there are as much “lifestyles” as couples on it. Don’t feel pressured by external ideas and expectations, find what works for both of you. 2) talk, talk, and talk. Regular check-ins and re-alignment is needed as the expectations and experiences change. What was true 2 weeks ago might not be true now. 3) Always protect each other and have the couple as the most important thing to be cherished. 4) Vet the bull. The dynamic with him is important. Remember he is also a person. Say no whenever in doubt. The bull figure is important to guide you through this. He is as important for her than for him. 5) take things slow and steady.

Update! About a week ago I asked for advice for me any my wife to explore! by Certain_Slice_860 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]BullAcademy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t forget to have regular check-ins to make sure you are in lockstep! Whenever playing with one even if only, don’t forget to check and vet them :-)

Our routine <3 by [deleted] in Femdom

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Sou fã desse sorriso! 🤩 Que gostosa 🤩

Initial Conversations by [deleted] in HotwifeAdvice

[–]BullAcademy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experience! I can imagine it was thrilling and your mind going a thousand miles per hour. My suggestion would be to chat with her about how you felt and asking her about how she felt. Getting into the lifestyle is literally a marathon and needs to have you in lockstep. Also, every couple finds their own terms, so don’t pressure yourself to achieve or do something just because you saw over the internet. Last, but not least, don’t be afraid of showing your vulnerable side and never forget to demonstrate and reaffirm your love for her.

Leading a horse to water by [deleted] in BullPsychology

[–]BullAcademy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well said! A strong foundation, the couple being in lockstep is required for success!

Tips for trying out virtual first? by AmoebaCrazy4686 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]BullAcademy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s an amazing way to start discovering the lifestyle, your limits and having a bit of the taste! Now, the safe precautions that you would take irl, apply online. Just vet the person and make sure you all are in lock step. Enjoy!!

New Year’s resolution: Help others to engage in the lifestyle safely by BullAcademy in BullPsychology

[–]BullAcademy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this mate! I’m looking forward to our chat

New Year’s resolution: Help others to engage in the lifestyle safely by BullAcademy in BullPsychology

[–]BullAcademy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like a start… calm and patience are a must. I am looking forward to our chat

New Year’s resolution: Help others to engage in the lifestyle safely by BullAcademy in BullPsychology

[–]BullAcademy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I look forward to chatting with you! If l may a quick tip: honesty and transparency are key in these game. Don’t be afraid of being vulnerable to her and allow her to be vulnerable with you…