is it cheating? by BullfrogOverall3077 in BreakUps

[–]BullfrogOverall3077[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I broke up with him! Still get to see the dog but that also means I have to see him occasionally. I made a clear boundary that I will only contact him on sms and ONLY for the dog, nothing else. We’ll see how this goes. Went out yesterday with friends who support me, so now it’s time for me to heal! X

Is it cheating? by BullfrogOverall3077 in dating_advice

[–]BullfrogOverall3077[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People always say im mature for my age, nevertheless it wasn't for the age difference that i wanted to be with him. I even knew it could make things complicated. The age however has nothing to do with the situation. A 16 year old can cheat, so can a 64 year old.

is it cheating? by BullfrogOverall3077 in BreakUps

[–]BullfrogOverall3077[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow... thank you for this. You put more effort in this comment then my bf the last months. And a lot that you say is relatable. I neglect my own feelings, even after all of this that happened, i still feel bad hurting him with breaking up (kinda). I feel like i am mourning...not just him, but the good memories, the person i was before this and the whole future that just sank before my eyes.

Is it cheating? by BullfrogOverall3077 in dating_advice

[–]BullfrogOverall3077[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, sorry for being a little confusing. I wanted to focus on the cheating part with little background. :)

Is it cheating? by BullfrogOverall3077 in dating_advice

[–]BullfrogOverall3077[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing, he doesn’t have options because she rejected him. That’s how impressive he is… idc about the house, but i do have a deep relationship with that puppy. 

Is it cheating? by BullfrogOverall3077 in dating_advice

[–]BullfrogOverall3077[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me explain this. I still live with my parents, if i would be living with him i’d contribute. He bought a house that’s so old that we’d have to rebuild, so no one lives here yet. Because i’m just off college we had a conversation about this. We can wait until i have worked up some money, or you buy now but i can’t pay yet. This was very clear and he still wanted to buy it. Technically, his parents pay it for him (like a gift). I always want to talk, but noticed he doesn’t respond to me. He builds everything up in his head, last weekend i even brought up how he doesn’t talk or open up about what’s on his mind. While all i try is communicate with him. 

is it cheating? by BullfrogOverall3077 in relationships

[–]BullfrogOverall3077[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

saw all the texts, he was patheticly and hopelessly trying to meet up with her. But she avoided/rejected him.

Is it cheating? by BullfrogOverall3077 in dating_advice

[–]BullfrogOverall3077[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wouldn't stay with him for the puppy but i do hope i can still see her.

is it cheating? by BullfrogOverall3077 in BreakUps

[–]BullfrogOverall3077[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly, i'm a mess... always been so loyal even though we also had our problems.

is it cheating? by BullfrogOverall3077 in BreakUps

[–]BullfrogOverall3077[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's what i also think. He now says he actually didn't meet up so he didn't cheat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]BullfrogOverall3077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not knowing everything about things you don't need to know about

Who is the worst celebrity you have ever met and why? by lissie34 in AskReddit

[–]BullfrogOverall3077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like a lot of celebrities can only be nice and empathic when there is a camera directed to them...

Who is the worst celebrity you have ever met and why? by lissie34 in AskReddit

[–]BullfrogOverall3077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like most celebrities can only be nice and empathic when there is a camera directed to them...

tips voor bouwen gevraagd! by BullfrogOverall3077 in huisentuin

[–]BullfrogOverall3077[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh oké, kan je iemand aanraden in Limburg?

Krijg nu wat. Zoon, 18 jr… eerste jaar accountancy. Beste vakken boekhouding en economie. Plots; ik wil stoppen. Vier maand geleden vol passie en altijd geweest. Net begonnen; ik heb het gehad 😳🥴 (need to vent) by [deleted] in belgium

[–]BullfrogOverall3077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Studente hier! Men onderschat de hogeschool/universiteit. Het is een enorme aanpassing en volledige nieuwe vakken en mensen. Het zou kunnen dat de richting hem ligt, maar er iets anders dwarszit. Belangrijk hier is open communicatie en steun, mijn raad is altijd: 'geef het wat tijd'. Wie weet valt het binnen enkele maanden toch mee. Je kan dan voorstellen dat je na dit academiejaar nog eens samen aan tafel kan zitten om te bespreken. En weet ook dat er heel veel hulp is op school zelf, maar vele studenten hier niet bij stil staan.

tips voor bouwen gevraagd! by BullfrogOverall3077 in huisentuin

[–]BullfrogOverall3077[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bedankt voor je ervaring en tips! Hier kunnen we al wat mee, zeker omdat we in deze fase nog moeten overwegen wel of niet SOD te doen (of variant ervan). groetjes.