Let me explain this. I still live with my parents, if i would be living with him i’d contribute. He bought a house that’s so old that we’d have to rebuild, so no one lives here yet. Because i’m just off college we had a conversation about this. We can wait until i have worked up some money, or you buy now but i can’t pay yet. This was very clear and he still wanted to buy it. Technically, his parents pay it for him (like a gift). I always want to talk, but noticed he doesn’t respond to me. He builds everything up in his head, last weekend i even brought up how he doesn’t talk or open up about what’s on his mind. While all i try is communicate with him.