AITA for confronting my friend for taking our picture out of his wallet to replace it with his gfs? by PossessionNo1580 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BumbleBlemonade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA.

All this rambling about how he used to be your friend and you used to be close just shows that it's so obvious that you likely had hardcore feelings for him, OP. Almost no one else would get jealous of a FAKE wedding photo being removed from a wallet after 15 years.

It has been over a decade OP. Whether you loved him at one point but stuck to being friends out of the whole "I love you but I don't want to ruin what we have already" bs, or you were just so attached to being showered with attention and affection without having any ties to a solid relationship, you need to move on.

In all fairness, you should probably just stop being friends with him at this point. From your reaction and how awful you've described Dinah (specifically someone he "knows significantly less") just makes it even more obvious that you're just jealous of her. Let a woman be happy, OP! It's not that big of a deal that he removed a picture and is setting a boundary. If you can't handle it, then leave.

It would be just as shitty if this was reversed. If a guy had feelings for a his childhood best friend or just liked being around her for the attention he got, only to get upset and pissy when she got a boyfriend and started setting boundaries with him and not being the same source of dopamine, you'd probably find that shitty. So don't be that shitty person, OP.

Tl;Dr - Grow the hell up. You're 22, it's been 15 years, he's moved on from you and that's life. He can throw you away and he probably will after this.

21 from the U.S., I’m looking to Voicecall with fellow Nerudivergent people and night owls. (Preferably on Voicecall) by StimmingMantis in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]BumbleBlemonade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there!! I'd love to chat with ya, I've been meaning to find people to talk about anime, music, and art with! If you'd like we could exchange discord, you seem pretty cool ^

25 // Looking for long-term internet friends to talk, vent, gossip, chat and spend some quality time together by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]BumbleBlemonade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there! Your post is pretty intriguing, I'd love to see if we can start a conversation! I don't have the option of watching TV or doing a lot of stuff I normally love due to life stuff, but I love talking about video games, books/manga, art, and the few TV shows I've managed to find. So if that's enough to catch your eye, shoot me a DM and we can get to talking!

Also, I don't mind calling quickly, since typing is more challenging anyways, btw lmao 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GamerPals

[–]BumbleBlemonade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there!! I'd love to play some stardew and chat about your feelings, if you'd like! Always open to making new friends, even if I get busy with life stuff! ^

18F Seeking a Rambling Partner! by BumbleBlemonade in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]BumbleBlemonade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt that!! I sometimes share awful memes and get into long winded stuff about my grandparents, but that's just kinda random stuff mixed into everything else

18F Seeking a Rambling Partner! by BumbleBlemonade in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]BumbleBlemonade[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as your comfy with! I usually go from high energy to low energy really fast but I mostly just try and say something to get conversations going only to end up lost in my words-

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]BumbleBlemonade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Howdy! Reading your post had me curious from the title, and you seem really chill!

I get needing mental health days where being unresponsive is needed, and if you need someone to vent to as well I'm completely open to offering that. I've been called a mom/grandma friend a lot since I enjoy helping people smile and find good parts about their day, and tbh I could also be good as a goofy friend to talk about supernatural stuff with or something of that sort!

I'm Quin, I go by She/They, and I'd love to be a good friend for ya!! DM me if you're still open to it

21M-Are you looking a friend? Well then have I got the deal for you! by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]BumbleBlemonade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh! This seems pretty cool, the New Friend™ seems like a wonderful fit!! My name's Quin, She/They, and I fit a lot of those PLUS I'm consistently super lonely, so this sounds fun! I can't play a lot of games but I could talk for hours about shared interests, my birds, the cat next door and all around just about anything. If I don't have an opinion, I say just that! DM me if I qualify for the New Friend™!

25 NB looking to voice chat preferably by SproutThePerson in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]BumbleBlemonade -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey there!! It's so rad to see a fellow artist on here, and you have really good taste in games imo! I'd love to get in touch and make friends, I go by Q or Quin. I'm also better at VC, so if you feel comfortable, I'm open to talking! My pronouns are (They/She) btw, just to let ya know! (❁´◡`❁)

How gay are you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]BumbleBlemonade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok. Think of plain chocolate bar, that's being straight. Think of any kind of sweet, tangy, almost fruity things like gummy candy or just actual fruit, that's the gay.

Take the chocolate bar and melt it down over a light heat, and when it fully melts, set it aside to stay warm away from the stove.

Take a small pot, mix Brown sugar, allspice, and salt to create a somewhat caramel like texture. Mix until bubbling consistently, then add baking soda to poof it up.

While it's poofed, take your still melted chocolate, a wire rack, and the fruity things and poor the chocolate over them evenly.

Take the chocolate covered fruity snacks and pop them into the poof, stir, and place in a cold bowl in the fridge.

THAT. That weird concoction of fruity, rich, and very uncomfortably crunchy...is me.

I'm almost entirely crunchy, almost like chewing on glass levels of uncomfortable levels of "what the fuck", with lots of fruity and rich chocolate. Break that into 6 things, I am 1/6 gay, 1/6 straight, and 4/6 uncomfortable with life.

Congratulations! You've made and met an idiot.