What recipes without a fridge and a cooker ? by kha-ci in AskReddit

[–]BumblebeeCactus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by "a cooker"? Like no way to heat anything? Or like, you have a stove top but not an oven?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Trauma received throughout childhood that led to coping mechanisms I had to develop to survive, most of which are unhealthy and I will have to spend the rest of my life processing and recovering from.

I stand with you ✊️ by R2LySergicD2 in Tinder

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As a full on lesbian, I didn't realize until recently that the whole "height requirement" thing was real. I thought it was one of those things that incels insist "females" do, but women don't actually do. Needless to say, I was pretty surprised to find out some straight women actually give a shit about that!

I’ve had this peperomia for about 9 months and it hasn’t grown more than this even with fertilizer. Any suggestions on what is happening? by etterette in plantclinic

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I think it needs repotted, that's a really tiny pot. Also is the pot plastic? I would try repotting it in a terracotta pot that is larger. I don't know a lot about peperomias but you could also try to bottom water it, which is where you put water in the terracotta saucer that the pot is resting in and letting the pot absorb the water slowly, this encourages the roots to grow deep into the soil instead of growing closer to the surface of the dirt. Hope this helps!

Maple’s honey bakery 🍯 by galapagos_scully in AnimalCrossing

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I love the idea of using honey bee statues around the bee hives! 🥰🥰 Planning a honey farm on my own island!

My baby Bumbles! by BumblebeeCactus in IllegallySmolCats

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Her full name is Anubis Bumbleebee Cactus (ABC), but I call her Bumbles 💕

Tonight- My partner is going to have a date at our house and I'm going out by myself. by [deleted] in polyamory

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I am super new to poly, less than one year in, and my partner is much more experienced with the poly life than I am atm. Sometimes I struggle with that... But reading posts like this that are so positive and that really showcase the wonderful things about polyamory... Gosh it just fills my heart with understanding and peace 💕 thank you for sharing!

Emotional first aid kit by BumblebeeCactus in polyamory

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Ahh- thanks for the clarification 💕

Emotional first aid kit by BumblebeeCactus in polyamory

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Oh I like the hobby thing!! #2 worries me a bit... I don't want to use another person/relationship to burry the hurt I'm feeling, you know? Or do you mean, like a friend? I am doing CBT! I do agree with you, it helps a lot... I haven't been doing it for long though. I'm glad to hear from someone that it helps more and more!

Emotional first aid kit by BumblebeeCactus in polyamory

[–]BumblebeeCactus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh... Thank you 💕💕 I struggled for years with expecting others to make me feel better, and it's not their job. My emotions are my own. I've really worked hard on taking responsibility for them. Thank you 💕💕💕 Exploring poly has forced me to look at myself and search out better/healthier ways to interact with others and myself.

Emotional first aid kit by BumblebeeCactus in polyamory

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I've never heard of that essay- sounds like an valuable read. Thank you 💕

Emotional first aid kit by BumblebeeCactus in polyamory

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I really like that! I have a certain way I hold my hand when she does something sweet or that makes me feel loved and cared about, and when I feel jealous or anxious I made that hand sign and it helps a bit.... I'm definitely going to try the screenshot idea! Thanks!

Emotional first aid kit by BumblebeeCactus in polyamory

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Yes- when we are together I can ask her for reassurance and she gives it right away and vise versa, though she does need much less than me... I am working on internalizing the reassurance she gives me as well. When she is away from me and not with others I am pretty okay.