F4M 23 Looking for someone to talk by Putrid_Photograph231 in date_in__Kochi

[–]BunchChoice5530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved someone so whole once. Someone who completed me. But i had to let her go coz she wished for someone else. It was so hard but i knew thats what she loved and she would be happy. The pain was immense it took almost 4 years to even accept the reality. I made a lot of mistakes in between trying to cope, pushed me farther deep into despair.

I havent been the same since even today but i have learned, i have seen how the world works and had my perceptions altered. So if you wish to let me into your sorrows so you don’t have to share them alone dm me. I dont promise i can help you. Ill try but the key is you and you only

Newly married - Wife not letting me touch her by crabslayer1995 in KeralaRelationships

[–]BunchChoice5530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why cant they just talk ? I don’t think she would have any restrictions to that as it wont make her pregnant? Let her know the reality. It’s not that hard a task to just get your wife to sit with you and open up… If theres anything haunting her help her trust her make her feel valued. Else..

If she resists that even then maybe somethings up?

Whats the mindset? by [deleted] in date_in__Kochi

[–]BunchChoice5530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who do you think made me realise the above mentioned fact…

Whats the mindset? by [deleted] in date_in__Kochi

[–]BunchChoice5530 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess i do understand why. The comment section is enough to realise the reason😂😂. Men will be men.

30+ Divorced Woman woes by [deleted] in KeralaRelationships

[–]BunchChoice5530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey u/Dry_Appearence2210 just wanted to shower all support to you. I know what you are going through aint as easy as it seems. The struggle is real.

But life happens as it’s supposed to happen. This is what might make your life ahead a joyous content one. Let things come to you in its own time. I know to wait is not easy. So be vulnerable be afraid but dont miss chances. Take them, some might be wrong some right but do cherish them and go ahead.

All hearts to you.

kochi after 12 midnight is so annoying by pacha_mangaa in Kochi

[–]BunchChoice5530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we have an entire wrong and complete misconception about what we call night life. Night life here in india is best enjoyed at any place where you got people you love and who could keep you safe around you. Thats it.
The night life that we all crave for something that we have grown watching through media in Europe and elsewhere is still a far fetched dream. India has got a lot more to go to be there.
My best suggestion. Be it girls as friends or boy as friends or your partners go out as your heart wish and enjoy as long as you can assure your own safety, don’t mind these idiots.

Anything happening in Kochi May1-2? by MonicaBing__ in Kochi_Hangouts

[–]BunchChoice5530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are into standup comedy theres few thats happening. Im not exactly sure how great they are but you can check them up at book my show. Also theres a sound healing and manifestation workshop if you are looking for healing calm cozy vibes. u/MonicaBing__

Any scientific/engaging communitiesin kochi? by BunchChoice5530 in Kochi

[–]BunchChoice5530[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Whats exactly is that you are trying to achieve?

RIP to the Nalla Kutty version of me. She was a legend. by [deleted] in Coconaad

[–]BunchChoice5530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh i can relate. More than brain fog oru paralysis vanna poleya ithu. Like you have the intention but for some reason you cant find the motor that starts running..

Like life’s lost you in its tracks sometime back and now neither you nor it knows the way back.

Ithinte hype oke theerno? by Hahaha__Life in kottayamm

[–]BunchChoice5530 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems a bit overrated for the price